NEW sex adventure! Is there something you didn’t try before?

Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
Summer’s almost out, and it means we are BACK TO SCHOOL.
Love the season, love learning new things, hence this poll.

I’ve been in a committed relationship for 38 years now. Yes, we love each other deeply, yes, we have children, and no, we’re not bored or tired of one another.

However, given that we are quite adventurous in bed, there are a lot of things we’ve tried already. Like, A LOT. Some we loved and kept in our practice, some turned out to be not our cup of tea - that’s just how it is. But we were sort of used to having a “New Try Tuesday” when we try something completely new. It can be a sex act, a new high-tech toy, a new sex position even, well, recently I felt as if we were scraping the bottom - it seems as if soon we’ll run out of new things to try!

This is a community of hot seasoned aficionados, and I know there must be adventurers like ourselves out here. I really want to ask if anyone tried these - I’ll list some of the coolest things I remember we’ve tried down below. Let’s see how adventurous y’all are!

It would be absolutely outstanding if you can suggest something we haven’t tried before. ANY ideas are welcome, appreciated, and celebrated. Thank you!
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Contributor: Sex Guy Sex Guy
38 years? That's impressive! And it's a great rarity nowadays. Most relationships don't last so long.

I'm in an LDR, and trying new high-tech toys is a rescue for our relationships.
Also, roleplay with using bondage is one of our favorites sexual entertainments . And pegging brought our sex life to the whole new level. TBH, before I tried it myself, I was a little bit biased regarding practicing pegging. But I'm glad I got rid of my prejudices, and now can fully enjoy this technique.

Have you tried having sex in public places? I didn't find it in your list, so I thought, maybe it's time for you to go out and have some fun? Public sex could be really exciting!
08/29/2019
Contributor: The ~Pegging~ Meg The ~Pegging~ Meg
When we want to diversify our sexual life, usually we try new toys and new positions. There are at least 64 positions listed in the Kamasutra and tons of adult toys for every taste and wallet, and combinations of positions with different toys are endless. So you have a lot of things to explore and invent!
08/29/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by Sex Guy
38 years? That's impressive! And it's a great rarity nowadays. Most relationships don't last so long.

I'm in an LDR, and trying new high-tech toys is a rescue for our relationships.
Also, roleplay with using bondage is one ... more
That's true, unfortunately. Many of our friends ended to be divorced.

I believe, our secret of long-lasting relationships is great and exciting sexual life

Thanks for the advice. When we were younger, we had sex in public places from time to time. But with time we stopped to be so enthusiastic about it. But maybe you're right, and it's time to resume our outdoor fun
08/29/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by The ~Pegging~ Meg
When we want to diversify our sexual life, usually we try new toys and new positions. There are at least 64 positions listed in the Kamasutra and tons of adult toys for every taste and wallet, and combinations of positions with different toys are ... more
We learned Kamasutra and got inspired by it with some really pleasurable ideas Many positions require certain physical abilities, and due to our age, acrobatics is not the best way to go

But I'm grateful for your tips. Mixing different toys could be an interesting experience. Could you suggest some worthy options?
08/29/2019
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Damn, I'd love to try ALL of those selections both as the Top and the Bottom... unfortunately Wifey just isn't as adventurous in that area as I am.

I agree with Sex Gue, and suggest adding Pegging to the list, I've experienced over-the-top prostate orgasm that seemed like it would never end from that.
09/01/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're pretty into most of things on your list.

How about a game - put each option on a piece of paper and throw it into a hat. When your feeling adventurous pull a paper from the hat and go for it!
09/02/2019
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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Originally posted by The ~Pegging~ Meg
When we want to diversify our sexual life, usually we try new toys and new positions. There are at least 64 positions listed in the Kamasutra and tons of adult toys for every taste and wallet, and combinations of positions with different toys are ... more
Love your name Meg!
09/04/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
Usually, we experiment with new toys when we want to add sparkles to our sexual activities. Also, among my preferences is role play; there are so many different scenarios to spice up sex life Although I'm often more submissive and driven partner, but sometimes we switch our roles, and there is one thing I'm eager to try, but we haven't yet - it is pegging. My partner is not really into it yet, but I don't give up attempts to persuade him

It's so great that you didn't let your relationships become routine and monotonous! And it seems, you have tried loads of techniques, so it's pretty hard to give you extraordinary suggestions I think your list is missing edging. It's an amazing way to have a fun time and mind-blowing orgasm in the end!
09/17/2019
Contributor: orgasmicfarmer orgasmicfarmer
Not really a new position but a new strategy that has impressive results. Double cock rings. One on the shaft and one at the base around shaft and balls. Makes your guy a rockstar! We read about it here.
09/17/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This summer has been on our 'always try new things' continuum.

She has taken to blindfolding cuffing me to the door for a bit of paddling/flogging "to get the juices flowing" then using various toys and techniques to get herself off - with lots of loud sounds and some commentary to make me wish I was in the middle of the action.

After having me clean her fingers that are drenched with her sweet juices, she will either make me kneel between her legs and keep her orgasms rolling (with toys of course)...

Or peg me with one of her big cocks - her latest she calls 'Megaladong' if that gives you some idea of her taste in dildos!
09/18/2019
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Sensory deprivation! Wouldn’t it be AMAZING to be in a pitch black ( or completely blindfolded state ) room, and have your ears covered so you can not hear anything. Then your lover stimulate you manually, orally or some other way, so you only can concentrate on what your genitals are experiencing.....might bring on an explosive orgasm.
09/23/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by RonLee
Damn, I'd love to try ALL of those selections both as the Top and the Bottom... unfortunately Wifey just isn't as adventurous in that area as I am.

I agree with Sex Gue, and suggest adding Pegging to the list, I've experienced ... more
Of course, there is pegging in my list already We both enjoy it a lot!
09/24/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We're pretty into most of things on your list.

How about a game - put each option on a piece of paper and throw it into a hat. When your feeling adventurous pull a paper from the hat and go for it!
So great to find minds thinking like we do! To keep sex life fresh and exciting during many years is a damn tough task!

Thanks for the tip! This game definitely could spice things up!
09/24/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by orgasmicfarmer
Not really a new position but a new strategy that has impressive results. Double cock rings. One on the shaft and one at the base around shaft and balls. Makes your guy a rockstar! We read about it here.
My hubby isn't fond of using cock rings, frankly speaking. We had a few successful times of using them, but it's just not his cup of tea. Anyway, thank you for your advice!
09/24/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This summer has been on our 'always try new things' continuum.

She has taken to blindfolding cuffing me to the door for a bit of paddling/flogging "to get the juices flowing" then using various toys and techniques to get ... more
I see you had a marvelous summer! I hope your autumn will be no less hot!
09/24/2019
Contributor: LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Sensory deprivation! Wouldn’t it be AMAZING to be in a pitch black ( or completely blindfolded state ) room, and have your ears covered so you can not hear anything. Then your lover stimulate you manually, orally or some other way, so you only can ... more
We experimented with blindfolding each other but never deprived both sight and hearing at the same time! I think it is a brilliant idea! I'm going to try it on my husband in the nearest future! Thank you!
09/24/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Sensory deprivation! Wouldn’t it be AMAZING to be in a pitch black ( or completely blindfolded state ) room, and have your ears covered so you can not hear anything. Then your lover stimulate you manually, orally or some other way, so you only can ... more
I totally get the blindfold thing - what makes it fun for me is listening to her heals click the floor; her commands to kneel, stand or suck her pussy; her moans as she gets off or gushes; and the sound of her crop or paddle cracking against me.

For those reasons I don't have any interest in the ear plugs - but hey - whatever floats your boat
09/24/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by LovesItHot
Summer’s almost out, and it means we are BACK TO SCHOOL.Love the season, love learning new things, hence this poll. I’ve been in a committed relationship for 38 years now. Yes, we love each other deeply, yes, we have children, and no, we’re not bored ... more
Ok, so--I have to say first that this is not my "cup of tea" but it's not on your list so I thought I would share. Have you ever considered trying urethral sounding? I didn't know much about this at first but ran across some information about it in the process of looking up some other stuff online. I figured you might know about it already because they make E-stim sounds. But if not, here are some links to info:

Him&Her Sounding

Safe Female Sounding
09/24/2019
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
Ok, so--I have to say first that this is not my "cup of tea" but it's not on your list so I thought I would share. Have you ever considered trying urethral sounding? I didn't know much about this at first but ran across some ... more
I've done sounding and find it to be a rather odd sensation... if done right quite stimulating. E-stim, that does have a draw, I'm just not sure for me anyway.
09/24/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
This is a fun poll. I (OW) don't come on often but marked my selections. I'm surprised I checked so many I'm vanilla but he's chocolate, strawberry and coffee.
10/18/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
Ok, so--I have to say first that this is not my "cup of tea" but it's not on your list so I thought I would share. Have you ever considered trying urethral sounding? I didn't know much about this at first but ran across some ... more
Omg, I glanced at both links
I guess as a researcher you came across this.
He's adventurous, but I doubt if he would consider this
10/18/2019
Contributor: PassionPleasure PassionPleasure
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Originally posted by LovesItHot
Summer’s almost out, and it means we are BACK TO SCHOOL.Love the season, love learning new things, hence this poll. I’ve been in a committed relationship for 38 years now. Yes, we love each other deeply, yes, we have children, and no, we’re not bored ... more
My wife and I have been together eight actually maybe nine years (hope she doesn't read this), and our sex life is like a roller coaster, one week or month we don't even touch each other sexually at all then BAM a month of trying this and doing that. Because of those months of highs we have tried the gamete as well, but what is your guys advise to maintain or have a consistent sex life.

Now here is my part in this line... If you haven't achieved every type of orgasm then make it a goal to feel all your body can give. Try Squirting, G-spot, Clitoral, G-spot through anal, combo clitoral, G-spot, and nipple, nipple stimulation orgasm. After you have accomplished this extremely difficult task, now practice edging with these tools you have just successfully Mastered. Or put a twist on it, In stead of edging try forced orgasm using those same mastered tools. Have fun and make a mess. Haha
10/19/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
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Originally posted by Sex Guy
38 years? That's impressive! And it's a great rarity nowadays. Most relationships don't last so long.

I'm in an LDR, and trying new high-tech toys is a rescue for our relationships.
Also, roleplay with using bondage is one ... more
How old were both of you when you started pegging?
10/20/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
given your age and experience, it's hard to suggest.
I remember trying one thing that didn't work out. Me and my ex tried to have sex in the underground. We looked for a carriage when it's the emptiest, like late on Sunday and tried. I messed up, it was all too disracting, also I wasn't as kinky as her at that time.

side question? your husband stil gets hard? how long can he last?
10/20/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Croc
given your age and experience, it's hard to suggest.
I remember trying one thing that didn't work out. Me and my ex tried to have sex in the underground. We looked for a carriage when it's the emptiest, like late on Sunday and tried. ... more
Just curious Croc--where are you originally from? Here are you referring to what we would call a subway car, so maybe you are in the UK? Also, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? I love to learn about people and you have been somewhat of a mystery for me with your posts! Thanks!
10/21/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
Just curious Croc--where are you originally from? Here are you referring to what we would call a subway car, so maybe you are in the UK? Also, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? I love to learn about people and you have been somewhat ... more
Currently I'm working in Russia.I'm not a native speaker of English, 29 y.o., never been to UK.
Also I used to work at Subway as a student, so it's a bit confusing to say 'subway'. Or 'metro', because that's a mall branch here in Russia.
Is this forum only for US citizens?
10/22/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by Croc
Currently I'm working in Russia.I'm not a native speaker of English, 29 y.o., never been to UK.
Also I used to work at Subway as a student, so it's a bit confusing to say 'subway'. Or 'metro', because that's a mall ... more
Dear Croc! Our forum is open for all people who are interested in and love to discuss topics related to sex no matter where they live or came from or what their nationality is. Actually, it is amazing that people from all over the world join the forum and share their thoughts and ideas here and learn something new
10/22/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Croc
Currently I'm working in Russia.I'm not a native speaker of English, 29 y.o., never been to UK.
Also I used to work at Subway as a student, so it's a bit confusing to say 'subway'. Or 'metro', because that's a mall ... more
I was just interested to find out more about you. The Eden community is for everybody on the planet as far as I know. I wouldn't ever suggest that it wasn't for everyone. Thank you Leil.
10/22/2019
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
I am a straight man, but I've always had a thing for playing with my ass. I would like to get mounted by a man someday, and let him have his way with me.
11/09/2020