I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my strongest clit stimulation air pressure toy will be cranked all the way to high and after 30 min of that I will have either gone completely numb, or killed the battery! Which can be INFURIATING! After doing some online reasearch I've learned that to combat this I'll have to say goodbye to all my toys for a few weeks, possiably a whole month, and retrain myself to orgasm naturally, so to speak. I read one article where they compared it to using a massage chair. If you sit in a massage chair for an hour, then have someone rub your shoulders, then obviously the shoulder rub is going to feel much less intense. However, getting a shoulder rub, say, right after waking up, would be amazing! I was relieved to learn that the strong vibrations, even over use of, CAN NOT in fact cause any numbing or damage to the clitoris. I also read that withholding orgasms from myself for a few weeks can help with regaining my ability to orgasm without the vibrations. But now I'm curious to see if this has happened to others, and what you did to regain your orgasming power? Or how long it took for everything to go back to normal? Or did things never go back to normal? Any insight to others experience with this would be much appreciated. less

I've noticed that I am requiring more and more powerful clit stimulation to achieve orgasm. Not long ago I could get off from direct clit stimulation from oral or hands, and now that won't even get me close. Now its to the point that my strongest clit stimulation air pressure toy will be cranked all the way to high and after 30 min of that I will have either gone completely numb, or killed the battery! Which can be INFURIATING! After doing some online reasearch I've learned that to combat this I'll have to say goodbye to all my toys for a few weeks, possiably a whole month, and retrain myself to orgasm naturally, so to speak. I read one article where they compared it to using a massage chair. If you sit in a massage chair for an hour, then have someone rub your shoulders, then obviously the shoulder rub is going to feel much less intense. However, getting a shoulder rub, say, right after waking up, would be amazing! I was relieved to learn that the strong vibrations, even over use of, CAN NOT in fact cause any numbing or damage to the clitoris. I also read that withholding orgasms from myself for a few weeks can help with regaining my ability to orgasm without the vibrations. But now I'm curious to see if this has happened to others, and what you did to regain your orgasming power? Or how long it took for everything to go back to normal? Or did things never go back to normal? Any insight to others experience with this would be much appreciated. less

This started happening to me when I got my first stronger toy. I started noticing after a couple months that it's take longer to climax, and like you said, it's so frusturating! Ended up solving the issue by taking at least a one week break out of the month to not use a vibe and start 'vibe vacations' whenever I start to feel like I'm taking too long again. less