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Men, can you ejaculate without having an orgasm?

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Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Over my life I've practiced being able to ejaculate but stop the orgasm by knowing just the right time to stop and I guess muscle control. Since I love creampies and my wife will not let me go again after I orgasm, this has been very ideal for me.

Is this very common or am I some kind of superman?
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Big deal, I (My Partner) can do it too.
8  (22%)
No, when I (he) cums, I (he) CUMS!
28  (78%)
Total votes: 36
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03/05/2011
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Contributor: WHITEMIKE WHITEMIKE
It is like the post office. Whether it israin sleet or snow it is going to go. The only thing I can hold back is my breath.
03/05/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Yes... you can control the cumming so that you don't actually have an orgasm at the same time. It takes some practice but it's certainly not unique. I imagine it's taught in Tantric sex quite a lot.
03/06/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
My boyfriend does this a lot. Sometimes he doesn't quite slow down enough when he's on the edge and trying not to come, so he'll ejaculate, but he won't orgasm. He's done it a few times during one session without an orgasm. I'm glad he can do that because once he orgasms, he's done for the night. This way, he can keep going for a good while. It was fun when he did it over and over. There was come everywhere, but it was pretty awesome.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
It's never happened to me. Well, I suppose it did if you count having wet dreams as a teenager, but it's never happened while I was conscious.
03/10/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
no, I quite proficient at doing the opposite orgasm with ejaculating; but I've never ejaculation without orgasm.
03/10/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
To a certain extent the propulsion of semen out of the penis involves muscle contractions, which is pretty much what an orgasm is. Prostate play can cause semen to be expressed without muscular contractions, but anything else is pretty much an orgasm, though it might not feel like one.

I imagine you're talking about trying to stop the hormone/neurotransmitt er/etc. "soup" that goes into your body following an orgasm and can "shut you down" sexually.
03/10/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
He doesn't have that kind of control yet.
03/11/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
Never knew it was possible. Sometimes I have a little orgasm without cumming and can keep going but never the other way around. Well, actually now that I think about it, I think it may have happened once when i didn't want to cum just yet and a little got out but I did not have a full orgasm.
03/11/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I didn't realize this was possible, and I don't know that it's appealing enough for us to try.
03/11/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
At times I've tried unsuccessfully to pull back from the edge of orgasm, only to have some ejaculate start leaking out - once that happens, though, I just go with it and cum all the way. I've never tried to keep going after ejaculating but without having a full-on orgasm.
06/13/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I often ejaculate without orgasm - though that's not through practice, more of a problem.
06/24/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Sure can.
06/24/2011
Contributor: FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
My husband ejaculates without having orgasms quite often.
08/22/2011
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
Over my life I've practiced being able to ejaculate but stop the orgasm by knowing just the right time to stop and I guess muscle control. Since I love creampies and my wife will not let me go again after I orgasm, this has been very ideal for ... more
No, but does anyone know where I can read more about this?
09/28/2011
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I definitely do not have the kind of control to do that and can really only get one good orgasm in a night and then I am done, ah well, just means my partner and I get to focus more on her pleasure and foreplay rather than multiple orgasms for me.

No complaints here.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Now I've got something else on my list to try and practice
12/30/2011
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
I had no idea that was possible. Any tips for not orgasming?
02/18/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
To a certain extent the propulsion of semen out of the penis involves muscle contractions, which is pretty much what an orgasm is. Prostate play can cause semen to be expressed without muscular contractions, but anything else is pretty much an ... more
This is the right answer. Another name for cumming without an orgasm is called "milking" the prostate. Use of prostate vibrators will achieve the action. Rocks-Off or Aneros products are toys of choice.
02/18/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by goofballmaster
No, but does anyone know where I can read more about this?
Google the topic of "Milking the Prostate"
02/18/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by ECU Pirate
I had no idea that was possible. Any tips for not orgasming?
Take a look here at Eden Fantasys for several prostate massagers here: link
02/18/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
No, never heard of this actually!
02/19/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
Over my life I've practiced being able to ejaculate but stop the orgasm by knowing just the right time to stop and I guess muscle control. Since I love creampies and my wife will not let me go again after I orgasm, this has been very ideal for ... more
No, when I (he) cums, I (he) CUMS!
02/23/2012