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Ladies: Order of orgasms?

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Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
So, I've heard many women say that they like to have one or a few clitoral orgasms before having a g-spot orgasm, but I've found that since discovering the wonders of my g-spot that many times I prefer to have a few clitoral orgasms after a good g-spot orgasm instead, if any at all. I may be the minority here.

I like to bask in that G-spot orgasm all on its own first. I find that if I have clitoral first, it's harder & takes longer for me to have that g-spot orgasm. I don't require clitoral stimulation afterward, but it can be really great, a quicker way to have a few more orgasms, and that order is much easier for me.

What say you?
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34  (41%)
8  (10%)
40  (49%)
Total votes: 82
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05/23/2011
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Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
So, I've heard many women say that they like to have one or a few clitoral orgasms before having a g-spot orgasm, but I've found that since discovering the wonders of my g-spot that many times I prefer to have a few clitoral orgasms after a ... more
I'm exactly the same.
It either takes forever or I dont have a g-spot orgasm if I get off clitorally first.
But after a g-spot orgasm (or a few), it's easy for me to have a few orgasms from clit stimulation and I love it that way
05/23/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by salaciousrex
I'm exactly the same.
It either takes forever or I dont have a g-spot orgasm if I get off clitorally first.
But after a g-spot orgasm (or a few), it's easy for me to have a few orgasms from clit stimulation and I love it that way
Yay! I'm not the only one.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
Ive never had a g-spot orgasm only clitoral
05/23/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Ah yes the combination/blended orgasm. My wife loves this - and we've gotten pretty good at making them happen. They're so powerful she emerges with a high sense of gratitude and desire to make feel great as well - surely a win-win
05/23/2011
Contributor: zizfaye zizfaye
I have yet to have a g-spot orgasm.
05/23/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by zizfaye
I have yet to have a g-spot orgasm.
Well definitely don't lose hope. I didn't start until I was 26-27. It's different for everyone. Before it started happening I was really down about it myself. Have faith it'll happen.

I should have included that the poll was created for those who have/do. *Slaps self on the wrist*
05/23/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
If I have a clitoral orgasm before I try to have a g-spot orgasm, it takes longer for me to have a g-spot orgasm. I like to have a g-spot orgasm first, because I find I can have multiple g-spot orgasms and that clitoral orgasms put me to sleep faster...
05/23/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
clitoral orgasm
05/23/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
I can not seem to have the g-spot orgasm either. I believe I did once during intercourse about five years ago. Once I figure it out I will give you my vote.
05/24/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I prefer blended. I can't have too much clitoral stimulation (ex: too powerful clit vibe, it must be moderate in power) bcs it distracts from the sensation on my g-spot.

The funny thing is that I have a harder time having a clitoral orgasm if I have no dildo and I need some for of clitoral stimulation to get good g-spot stimulation.

The orgasms my partner gives me put me in a vegetative state, even though I wish I could do a million wonderful things to my man, all I can do is lay like a pile of potatoes basking in the rush of the lingering sensations.
05/24/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by Waterfall
If I have a clitoral orgasm before I try to have a g-spot orgasm, it takes longer for me to have a g-spot orgasm. I like to have a g-spot orgasm first, because I find I can have multiple g-spot orgasms and that clitoral orgasms put me to sleep ... more
Isn't it strange. I guess those clitoral orgasms overstimulate everything so much, in the aftermath it's harder to have that G-spot orgasm.
05/24/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I prefer blended. I can't have too much clitoral stimulation (ex: too powerful clit vibe, it must be moderate in power) bcs it distracts from the sensation on my g-spot.

The funny thing is that I have a harder time having a clitoral orgasm ... more
Very poetic - thanks. After helping my wife achieve a blended orgasm or two, she''l either need time to recover as you say - or hop on top to keep things going with a wild cowgirl ride. Try it sometime!
05/24/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
If I want a straight out g-spot orgasm/s, I have them in the first ones. Then I have the clit orgasms.
05/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
So, I've heard many women say that they like to have one or a few clitoral orgasms before having a g-spot orgasm, but I've found that since discovering the wonders of my g-spot that many times I prefer to have a few clitoral orgasms after a ... more
If I can get a blended orgasm, it's the best.

G spot Os just don't seem to relieve me properly, if they don't happen with a clit orgasm. I don't mind having them after, during PIV, but, I don't feel satisfied if I only have a G Spot orgasm.
05/25/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I had my 1st G-Spot orgasm yesterday! I'm going to stick with that for a good long time! Maybe cause its new to me and I've spent so many hours invested in trying to make it happen, I want it regularly! Best I ever had! As for clitoral I've been having those for years. Have not had both at the same time yet! Want to tho'!
05/25/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
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Originally posted by wetone123
I had my 1st G-Spot orgasm yesterday! I'm going to stick with that for a good long time! Maybe cause its new to me and I've spent so many hours invested in trying to make it happen, I want it regularly! Best I ever had! As for clitoral ... more
If you can help me out. I am pretty sure I have found the spot but it is like a build up that never erupts. I get frustrated waiting on the eruption part and finally just give up. How did you figure it out? I had one during intercourse about five years ago and I have never had another.
05/25/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I need a clitoral orgasm first or the G spot orgasm doesn't happen. During PIV sex, they both seem to come together but I usually have a clitoral orgasm prior to penetration.
05/25/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I prefer blended orgasms. I can get really close with just one type of stimulation, but to actually reach orgasm I prefer dual stimulation. Otherwise the orgasm isn't as fulfilling for me.
05/25/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
I like them all!! I usually have clit orgasms first cuz bf loves to go down on me then we have sex and I have awesome g spot combined w/clit orgasms. Sometimes after we are done, bf will rub my clit again and Ill have another orgasm. He just loves to make me cum and who am I to argue??
05/25/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by wetone123
I had my 1st G-Spot orgasm yesterday! I'm going to stick with that for a good long time! Maybe cause its new to me and I've spent so many hours invested in trying to make it happen, I want it regularly! Best I ever had! As for clitoral ... more
*Throws virtual confetti* *Blows noisemaker* Congrats!! It's like you won a new car, but WAY better!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
G-spot orgasms are always stronger for me but not always achievable so I tend to go with the more reliable clit ones
05/27/2011
Contributor: Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
Oh this is hard. I like them at the same time, but I like to have clitoral orgasms first, but both together is the best.
07/01/2011
Contributor: joja joja
Any kind of vaginal orgasm is much easier for me to achieve after a nice clitoral one
07/01/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
I don't have serial orgasms... lately the toy I have hits the G spot and the clit at the same time.. I'm not exactly sure which one is setting me off!!
07/01/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Pretty sure my wife would say it's all the same doesn't matter which comes first
09/02/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
So, I've heard many women say that they like to have one or a few clitoral orgasms before having a g-spot orgasm, but I've found that since discovering the wonders of my g-spot that many times I prefer to have a few clitoral orgasms after a ... more
Same time.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
So, I've heard many women say that they like to have one or a few clitoral orgasms before having a g-spot orgasm, but I've found that since discovering the wonders of my g-spot that many times I prefer to have a few clitoral orgasms after a ... more
I think if I have so many orgasms in a row (depending how strong) I might pass out. But my record is only five in one night (two and then three). looks like i have a new assignment!
11/29/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i don't have a preference that i stick to, but i decide when and how i want it when it's going on.
11/29/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
More times than not we go with clitoral first since G-spot O's can be a little too intense to just jump straight into for me, but there are still many days where I like the sudden intensity with no warm up. Lol.
11/29/2011