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Ladies: How old were you when you had your first orgasm without clitoral stimulation?

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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but how rare is it really? I get the feeling, that for most of us, it's something that takes years of practice.

The first part of the pole is your current age, and the second part is the age you were when you had your fist non-clitoral orgasm.

Please feel free to elaborate on how common this is for you, if it only happened once, if you can only do it with a toy, with a partner, if you had to work at it (or not), et cetera.

(and men, you're of course welcome to answer for your partners if you truly know the answer)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am 18 - 25
53
I am 26 - 35
13
I am 36 - 45
I am 46 - 55
1
I am 56 - 65
I am 66 or older.
I have never had an orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
29
I was 16 or younger
16
I was 17 - 20
14
I was 21 - 24
6
I was 25 - 28
5
I was 29 - 32
1
Total votes: 138 (85 voters)
Poll is closed
12/31/2010
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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I'm sorry, I accidentally hit "enter" and there is no way to edit the poll options well, if you were older than 32 when you had your first non-clitoral orgasm, you can just add that here in the comments... sorry, that sucks!
12/31/2010
Contributor: firekitten firekitten
Oh crap I screwed up. I meant to put I am 18-25 and I was 17-20. Sorry!
12/31/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by firekitten
Oh crap I screwed up. I meant to put I am 18-25 and I was 17-20. Sorry!
Hahaha, they really need to have an "undo" option!
12/31/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Odd pole - not well constructed.

My wife is 46 and she had her first non-clitoral orgasm at about 40 - but the pole is capped at 32?
12/31/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Odd pole - not well constructed.

My wife is 46 and she had her first non-clitoral orgasm at about 40 - but the pole is capped at 32?
The original poster commented about that in the first post of this thread; she accidentally submitted the thread before she was done with the poll and you cannot go back and edit poll options.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Odd pole - not well constructed.

My wife is 46 and she had her first non-clitoral orgasm at about 40 - but the pole is capped at 32?
I'm sorry. Like I said, I accidentally pressed "enter" before I finished. There's no delete option and there's no option to edit the poll. I didn't want to do a duplicate poll. My apologizes.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I was 26 and it was after a lot of searching and trying different things.. lol
12/31/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I was 20 when I had my first g spot orgasm...and that happened with a lot of lube and a nJoy pure wand
01/15/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ... more
I am currently 25 and I had my first G-spot a little over a year ago. I had from other forms (breast and energetic/mental stimulation) earlier last year but before that the only way I was able to have one was from self pleasure. Maybe it was just the fact that the guys I had been with weren't as experienced or maybe it was my trust and feelings for them but I was unable to have any orgasm from a partner up until I was 24.
01/15/2011
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
my first orgasm was actually during a professional hairwashing -utmost blush-
01/16/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I was in my early 20s when i had my first without clitoral stimulation
01/16/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
I was 16
01/23/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
In my 20's, it was completely by accident, and hasn't happened since!
02/01/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
I was so aroused that I came from just playing with my breasts. I am pretty sure it has only occurred that one time.
02/07/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
It hasn't happened for me yet.
02/07/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ... more
I was late 17 or early 18, I forgot.
02/14/2011
Contributor: lamb0luv3r lamb0luv3r
Mine just came out of nowhere. Well it seemed liked it had at the time. I managed to find out how i did it after awhile but I'm not telling.
03/02/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
I was pretty young. i think like 15 which I guess is not that young.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Seharra Seharra
I had my first non-clitoral orgasm before my first clitoral orgasm. Weird, I know, but at the time I didn't know that.
04/08/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I've never.. and it sorta (really) hurts if I try anything vaginally without warming up externally first. Which usually involved my clitoris and surrounding tissues.
04/08/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It took me much longer to have a clitoral orgasm than a non clitoral one. My first non clitoral one was at 17.
04/09/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Two days ago. I love my glass toy.
04/09/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
i was like 16
04/09/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I was 17 or 18
05/26/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Perhaps 18?
05/27/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ... more
i had my 1st 1 a few months ago when i was using my vibrator.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I had my first non-clitoral orgasm the third time I had PIV sex (at age 17). I have had them pretty much without fail ever since. Sometimes it takes a try or two with a new partner before things click, and sometimes if I'm having an off day or the stars aren't aligned it won't happen... but easily 97% of the time it does.
05/28/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I don't think I ever have, unfortunately. I might have once with a vibrator but I'm pretty sure I was rubbing it at least a bit.
06/09/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I've seen statistics, but I'm extremely curious how common it is and how much practice it takes to have orgasms without clitoral stimulation. I know there are some women who have non-clitoral orgasm the first time they have penetration, but ... more
My very first one was without clitoral stimulation. It was with just a finger inside.
06/09/2011