So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
Ladies: How many tries till you orgasmed with a partner?
09/22/2011
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The first two times my high school boyfriend and I had PIV, I was like "all right, this is nice, but I don't see why it's any better than fingers..." so the third time I had him just be still til I wiggled around and figured my muscles out. About ten minutes and I was set, and I am able to orgasm from just PIV like 97% of the time ever since.
09/22/2011
It was a few months after I started having sex. It wasn't until I got on the pill and we stopped using condoms that it happened. We were so dumb we didn't know that condoms are a lot more comfortable with lube.
09/22/2011
I hardly ever orgasm with a partner and it doesn't bother me much.
09/22/2011
A lot! We were both inexperienced, and I'd never really masturbated before that, so it took quite a while to get it figured out.
09/23/2011
I was sexually active for years before I could orgasm with a partner (or by myself, for that matter). So, countless times.
09/23/2011
ha.. took me about 6 years and about 20 partners.
09/23/2011
I guess I was just (and still am...) lucky that I have orgasmed with every single partner I've been with. And beyond that, about 98% of the encounters I've had with those partners have led to orgasms as well.
09/23/2011
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Sigel was my first sexual partner but we had a lovely time figuring out what it would take for me to orgasm. He looked at it like a game. With Arch I was more experienced and he listened better...so it was the first time.
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Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
11/28/2011
It took me a long time to be able to orgasm from penetration, usually I need to be on top. Before then I always got off from oral, not from penetrative sex.
11/28/2011
My first orgasm at all was with a partner on probably about the third time.
11/28/2011
Didn't orgasm at all until my current boyfriend
11/28/2011
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I have not had PIV sex but first time oral with my current partner was the first time i got off. it was also the same night of first time fingering
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Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
11/29/2011
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I don't remember.
Originally posted by
Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
12/05/2011
I'm not certain. Up until my husband I could NEVER orgasm with anyone, no matter what we did. Even with him it's iffy. Most times I at least get close, and many times I do orgasm, but we were together at least a few months before I even started to come close. But I loved sex with him just the same I think I'm too focused on him enjoying the things I do, for me to orgasm, though I enjoy it just as much as he does
12/07/2011
Never have. =(
12/27/2011
Never have not. I'm kind of ridiculously sensitive, and it's harder for me not to have an orgasm than it is to have multiples.
12/28/2011
Stephanie Majors
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I'm not sure why but it took about 2 months before I reached orgasm with my bf and now every time after I have climaxed so it's so great!
Originally posted by
Sex'и'Violence
So I know with me, it took about a couple dozen tries and 4 different partners before I was able to orgasm during sex/ had a partner who cared enough to get me off as well. When you started having sex, how many times did it take for you?
01/01/2012
Never
01/27/2012
Lots of interesting responses.
01/27/2012
With my first two partners, I never orgasmed. Then I met my Dom who was a lot more experienced and was willing to incorperate more toys and variety. We eventually figured out what worked for me and I have been pretty consistent with being able to orgasm since then.
01/27/2012
took a few tries. but i got there
01/27/2012
I can only get there through my own manual stimulation, I've never been brought to orgasm by anyone.
01/27/2012
I honestly can't remember..
02/01/2012
it took some time
02/02/2012
It still hasn't happened yet. I only recently learned how to orgasm without using a vibrator.
02/02/2012
first time
02/05/2012
I don't remember the first time I orgasmed through intercourse. But the first time I orgasmed with my boyfriend was with all my clothes on straddling his lab and just grinding my hips against him.
02/06/2012
I orgasmed the first time I had sex. I imagine it helped that I'd been masturbating for a decade beforehand, and thus new my body well to know what I needed; plus, he brought experience to the table and was great at both helping and listening.
02/06/2012
Obviously it depends on the partner
02/06/2012
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