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Ladies: Can you climax using only your hands when masturbating by yourself?

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Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I have a confession to make. I don't think I've ever climaxed without using a vibrator. I've gotten really close just using my hands, but I don't think I've ever actually orgasmed from it. Using a vibrator is a different ... more
I have a few times dont really have any tips to offer how ever
02/20/2012
Contributor: KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
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Originally posted by ap-the-aper
I can get myself off with just my fingers, but I have to take my time or it's not worth the effort. I'm usually lazy these days and just use a toy. However, when I'm in the mood to apply myself, I don't regret it.

I don't ... more
I've heard that too and it's true, if you just focus on having an orgasm and not on actually enjoying yourself it can make it harder.
02/21/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never been able to and it's hard for me to with just a vibrator. I have to have arousal gel, think dirty thoughts, and use a vibrator.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Kush Kush
I can but prefer toys
02/21/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Unless I'm using a super powerful vibrator, I think I climax more easily and quickly with my hands.
02/23/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I have a confession to make. I don't think I've ever climaxed without using a vibrator. I've gotten really close just using my hands, but I don't think I've ever actually orgasmed from it. Using a vibrator is a different ... more
Yes
02/23/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Not with just my hands but I can by rubbing against a blanket (or against my boyfriend).
02/23/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I have a confession to make. I don't think I've ever climaxed without using a vibrator. I've gotten really close just using my hands, but I don't think I've ever actually orgasmed from it. Using a vibrator is a different ... more
Yes
02/23/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
my girlfriend can
02/24/2012
Contributor: SparkleRox SparkleRox
I CAN, but since I got a vibrator I'd rather use the toy! They are very different. I have to be really in the mood to not use a vibrator.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
nope never been able to
03/04/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Yep - I learned how to do that 8 years before I bought my first vibe. It took me longer to figure out how to climax with a vibe than it did for me to figure out hands. :[
03/04/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I have a confession to make. I don't think I've ever climaxed without using a vibrator. I've gotten really close just using my hands, but I don't think I've ever actually orgasmed from it. Using a vibrator is a different ... more
my advice is to buy more vibrators! whatever gets you off. i'm the same way as you. never got off with just hands. need a vibe on my clit, always. even during sex.
03/06/2012
Contributor: bubblegum bubblegum
yes!
03/07/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
My clit loves my hand. I was climaxing by hand long before I had any toys. Vibes make for a stronger, more intense buildup and an awesome climax, but the orgasms I get from my hand or a hand/dildo combo feel a lot more... "complete," if that makes any sense at all. I'm not quite sure how to explain it.
03/08/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
That is how I usually orgasm.
03/08/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I can, have been for a loooong time now! It goes super fast too!
03/24/2012
Contributor: KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
My clit loves my hand. I was climaxing by hand long before I had any toys. Vibes make for a stronger, more intense buildup and an awesome climax, but the orgasms I get from my hand or a hand/dildo combo feel a lot more... "complete," if ... more
Yeah I think I get what you mean, like the feelings that different orgasms bring. I have to practice with my hands more, like I do now, but then I get to a certain point and just need a vibrator, it's just a different sensation all together.
03/25/2012
Contributor: joja joja
I can, but it took a lot of practice at first.
03/25/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I can, but its easier using toys.
03/25/2012
Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
I can very easily. Sometimes when I am reading to reach out for a toy is a mood killer.
03/25/2012
Contributor: lacybutton lacybutton
I can orgasm without a toy, and did for years before I got my first toy. I prefer toys now typically, as toys are easier, less messy and I don't have to be wet already to masturbate easily (since I usually prefer just direct clitoral stimulation). Sometimes, though, there's nothing like fingering a super wet pussy.
03/25/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
Of course.
03/25/2012
Contributor: misskat misskat
Before I started using toys that's always how I got off! My orgasms are just as powerful with my hands; I can even squirt just using my hands. But...toys are easier and more powerful now that I use them.
03/29/2012
Contributor: Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyKrissy
I have a confession to make. I don't think I've ever climaxed without using a vibrator. I've gotten really close just using my hands, but I don't think I've ever actually orgasmed from it. Using a vibrator is a different ... more
Just once actually, although fairly recently, it's something I would like to be better at and I keep getting closer, just takes patience and experimentation. My ex could make me come very quickly this way but I can't mimic his technique, his style doesn't work when I do it.
03/29/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Yes. I don't think a 3/4 years old can buy sextoys (or even know what they are).
03/30/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I usually get bored with my hands and move on to toys, but if I was determined enough, yes, and quite easily,
04/03/2012
Contributor: shoutitout87 shoutitout87
I can, but it took a long time to figure it out. My first orgasm by any means was when I was 15 or 16. Except for a couple fluke incidents, I didn't completely figure it out how to come just with fingers until I was about 23.
06/23/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
I can orgasm with only hands, it takes longer, but they are stronger too.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Crimson Vixen Crimson Vixen
I can orgasm using my hand, but only for clitoral stimulation... Otherwise it's pretty difficult for me to orgasm in general. The only toy I've ever had isn't powerful enough to give me an orgasm.

However, I'm looking forward to this site relieving that issue.
07/03/2012