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What kind of clitoral stimulation do you like? Which make you orgasm?

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Contributor: ghalik ghalik 06/13/2012

What is most pleasurable? What gets you off? I am wondering what the most popular clitoral stimulation techniques are.

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Discussion Topics

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What type of stimulation is most pleasurable? (39 posts)
2.
What type of stimulation most likely results in orgasm? (12 posts)
3.
Direct or indirect? (11 posts)
4.
Pressure? (14 posts)
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
WhoopieDoo , SexyLilPixi , ghalik , HannahPanda , Beck , LovesAPoet , *Camoprincess* , ily , pirata , Eden062112 , potentialslayer , Undecided , LunaLuthor , Derpina , Melan!e , PoppyTraille , GirlOnGirl , MistressDandelion , sillylilkitten , bog , 783883877299373783 , Kitten has left the site , Qozt
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WhoopieDoo , Rossie , dirtythoughts:) , SexyLilPixi , deltalima , PropertyOfPotter , Terri69 , solitudinarian , pasdechat , sexxxkitten , LoveBug721 , ghalik , HannahPanda , amazon , MissCandyland , Beck , *Camoprincess* , pirata , momoxd11 , Undecided , Falsepast , Dixiemomma , LunaLuthor , amplified to rock , Derpina , Adriana Ravenlust , Bignuf , cutiefairyprincess , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MidnightStorm , Alyxx , Sylvan , bog , Kitten has left the site , lilyflower , Qozt
37
WhoopieDoo , OhMy! , dirtythoughts:) , SexyLilPixi , deltalima , PropertyOfPotter , sexxxkitten , ghalik , AlianneCimorene , MissCandyland , Beck , Deidrenicole , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , indiechick , pirata , potstickers , Crimson Vixen , Undecided , Dixiemomma , LunaLuthor , amplified to rock , animepanda89 , Derpina , kitty1949 , rekarf , Melan!e , SkylarrStarr , GirlOnGirl , MistressDandelion , Mizery Moon , pyratess , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MidnightStorm , ohsnaprawr , karenm , RedGlitter , talkless , Sylvan , ChubbyNerd , gloomybear , dawnkye , sillylilkitten , captainsgirl , noway , bog , 783883877299373783 , Kitten has left the site , Qozt
50
WhoopieDoo , SexyLilPixi , ghalik , Beck , amplified to rock , Derpina , Qozt
7
Geogeo , WhoopieDoo , OhMy! , LaSchwartz , Rossie , dirtythoughts:) , Kissy , SexyLilPixi , mpfm , PropertyOfPotter , Terri69 , solitudinarian , Woman China , Stinkytofu10 , pasdechat , sexxxkitten , LoveBug721 , ksparkles16 , Kitty LaRue , Breas , mistressg , ghalik , AlianneCimorene , unfulfilled , amazon , Beck , LovesAPoet , Deidrenicole , Deeder , butts , AliMc , dv8 , A.noel , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , indiechick , ily , Jeff & MJ , Rawr4483 , pirata , potstickers , FHeemz , SecretKinksters , Eden062112 , potentialslayer , Undecided , Falsepast , Dixiemomma , Stagger13 , LunaLuthor , amplified to rock , animepanda89 , Derpina , kitty1949 , KRD , rekarf , Melan!e , cutiefairyprincess , jesseftm , LavenderSkies , SkylarrStarr , GirlOnGirl , pyratess , Rey , LadyDarknezz , hotcherry , SMichelle , tortilla , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , J5ive , Vaginas , travelnurse , MidnightStorm , Lildrummrgurl7 , talkless , sunflower , Sylvan , lainebug , gloomybear , pokefan15 , captainsgirl , bog , padmeamidala , Incendiaire , 783883877299373783 , DigitalSweety , Kitten has left the site , KinkyNicki92 , lilyflower , Qozt , Luna Reign
91
WhoopieDoo , dirtythoughts:) , PropertyOfPotter , Beck , Deidrenicole , butts , A.noel , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , potentialslayer , Undecided , Dixiemomma , LunaLuthor , Derpina , kitty1949 , misskat , cutiefairyprincess , jesseftm , GirlOnGirl , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MidnightStorm , Alyxx , Lildrummrgurl7 , talkless , pokefan15 , captainsgirl , bog , Kitten has left the site , KinkyNicki92
30
WhoopieDoo , Rossie , deltalima , PropertyOfPotter , Terri69 , solitudinarian , pasdechat , mistressg , ghalik , amazon , Beck , Deeder , butts , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , ily , pirata , Eden062112 , Undecided , Dixiemomma , Derpina , kitty1949 , rekarf , SkylarrStarr , GirlOnGirl , MistressDandelion , Mizery Moon , pyratess , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Vaginas , travelnurse , MidnightStorm , Alyxx , hotinpink , gloomybear , 783883877299373783 , Kitten has left the site , KinkyNicki92 , Qozt
40
WhoopieDoo , OhMy! , Rossie , SexyLilPixi , deltalima , PropertyOfPotter , Terri69 , solitudinarian , Missmarc , pasdechat , sexxxkitten , LoveBug721 , Breas , mistressg , ghalik , amazon , MissCandyland , Beck , LovesAPoet , Deidrenicole , butts , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , pirata , potstickers , Eden062112 , Undecided , Dixiemomma , amplified to rock , konicaguy , Derpina , kitty1949 , Adriana Ravenlust , cutiefairyprincess , LavenderSkies , giggles26 , GirlOnGirl , pyratess , Gongsta , SMichelle , tortilla , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Vaginas , travelnurse , MidnightStorm , Alyxx , Lildrummrgurl7 , Sylvan , hotinpink , gloomybear , pokefan15 , Getalife7 , captainsgirl , 783883877299373783 , DigitalSweety , Kitten has left the site , KinkyNicki92
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deltalima , solitudinarian , *Camoprincess* , Dixiemomma , Derpina , Mizery Moon , hotinpink , KinkyNicki92
8
Derpina , travelnurse , hotinpink
3
solitudinarian , Beck , Dixiemomma , Derpina , Mizery Moon , hotinpink
6
Eden062112 , Dixiemomma , Derpina , Mizery Moon , travelnurse , captainsgirl
6
SweetXSurrender89 , Teaser , Beck , Derpina , MJ7 , Noelle , captainsgirl , bog , 783883877299373783
9
Total votes: 367 (120 voters)
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
At this point, only vibrations.
06/13/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
So many good options....The "manual other" I chose because I especially like to stroke the right side of my clit...It's more sensitive.
06/13/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Fingers do the trick most of the time!
06/14/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
So many good options....The "manual other" I chose because I especially like to stroke the right side of my clit...It's more sensitive.
That's the only side I use when I self stimulate...the other side just doesn't do it for me.

When my husband goes down on me....he sucks and that gives me the most intense orgasm, more than vibrations, more than anything.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I love a lot of your list! Just having him go down it such a turn on.!
06/14/2012
Contributor: SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
VIBRATION BABY!
06/14/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
I enjoy cunnilingus: licking and vibration the most.
06/14/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Vibrations are the only way that I can get off, at least right now, but I like fingers and tongues too
06/14/2012
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
My wife seems to like almost all of the above, except maybe the teeth thing. I even do a thing where I squeeze her clit (not pulled out, but covered) quite hard between my thumb and first two fingers, but I don't move too much at all, just a very little. That usually sends her over the top. I have also used a long bristled soft (new and clean!) makeup brush on her clit just flicking it "up and down". That works well, too, if she can stand the teasing and let me finish her that way, and not grab the brush and direct my hand!
06/14/2012
Contributor: Sacred Sex Sacred Sex
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
New to stimulation without a partner....I know what works best for me.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Sacred Sex Sacred Sex
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
So many ways, so little time.
06/15/2012
Contributor: Sacred Sex Sacred Sex
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
For me very few men know how to please a woman with oral stimulation. It is good to learn. More stimulation and foreplay is needed after menopause or an hysterectomy. Toys can jazz it up.
06/15/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Lots of pressure, up and down.
06/18/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
EXTREMELY powerful vibrations only.
06/18/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Sucking and licking don't really float my boat, but my hands and vibes do a damn fine job
06/28/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
any kind of manual stimulation feels good to me lol and vibrations are fun, but i love cunnilingus, it's just hot to see the 'heh, im making her twitch' grin
07/02/2012
Contributor: momoxd11 momoxd11
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
i happen to think that all the the options feel good
07/02/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I like a little bit of everything almost licking,sucking,manual in all directions and vibrations
07/08/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Manual is best for me
07/24/2012
Contributor: cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
licking and vibrations
07/26/2012
Contributor: giggles26 giggles26
licking and vibe
07/28/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Licking, sucking, vibrations and sometimes manual side to side. Once in a great while the shower head too!
07/28/2012
Contributor: Mizery Moon Mizery Moon
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What feels good? This doesn't necessarily mean it results in orgasm.

manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
sensitive but most of this is good if done right
07/28/2012
Contributor: pyratess pyratess
sucking and vibrations (;
07/30/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Right now, only vibrations work for me. I've never been sucked...so I don't know how that would make me react...
08/14/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
I love sucking during oral. It doesn't make me cum, but it feels great.
09/21/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Oh I love my oral, all kinds any type I like my clitoral vibes too. My clit is my friend!!
09/21/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
Fingers usually do the trick. Licking feels nice but more in like... a relaxing way than an orgasm-inducing way.
09/30/2012
Contributor: karenm karenm
Swirling a finger in a circle on my clit. Cunnilingus feels great but it doesn't make me orgasm.
02/09/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I'm afriad my toys are spoiling me, but circling my fingers..
02/10/2013
Contributor: Sylvan Sylvan
If I'm really mentally turned on I like to use fingers and draw it out because fingers naturally take longer to make me cum, but vibration is great for quicker orgasms.
02/18/2013
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
this is a very detailed poll lol
02/19/2013
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
Manual circles.
02/19/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Quote:
Originally posted by gloomybear
this is a very detailed poll lol
LOL, I was JUST thinking the same thing!
02/22/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
oral, vibes, manual - all good!
02/22/2013
Contributor: 783883877299373783 783883877299373783
It usually good for me.
02/22/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Quite a few of those really, started off with my fingers in every direction I could manage, then hubby would do the oral, then we went to vibrations. Now a days it's a mixture of all three.
02/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
Any oral sex is wonderful but i appreciate my vibrations too..
02/22/2013
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
What results in orgasm?

again, manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Woman China , ily , pirata , Melan!e , MistressDandelion , sillylilkitten
6
LaSchwartz , Rossie , solitudinarian , sexxxkitten , LoveBug721 , MissCandyland , pirata , Derpina , Alyxx , MidnightStorm
10
Woman China , sexxxkitten , Deidrenicole , butts , Girly Juice , pirata , Crimson Vixen , Derpina , misskat , Melan!e , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , MidnightStorm , ohsnaprawr , sillylilkitten , noway
15
Rossie , mpfm , Woman China , Missmarc , sexxxkitten , LoveBug721 , ksparkles16 , Breas , ghalik , unfulfilled , LovesAPoet , butts , dv8 , Girly Juice , ily , Rawr4483 , pirata , potstickers , FHeemz , Crimson Vixen , SecretKinksters , Eden062112 , potentialslayer , Falsepast , konicaguy , Derpina , kitty1949 , KRD , Melan!e , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Alyxx , Lildrummrgurl7 , lainebug , Noelle , Incendiaire
36
Deidrenicole , butts , Derpina , Alyxx
4
amazon , Derpina , tortilla , MidnightStorm , KinkyNicki92
5
LaSchwartz , Rossie , deltalima , Woman China , Stinkytofu10 , sexxxkitten , Breas , mistressg , amazon , Deidrenicole , Girly Juice , SecretKinksters , Derpina , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Alyxx , MidnightStorm , Getalife7 , KinkyNicki92
18
fizzygato
1
Deeder
1
Eden062112
1
Total votes: 97 (55 voters)
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What results in orgasm?

again, manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Licking is the best way.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What results in orgasm?

again, manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Vibration is the most likely.
06/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Again, extremely powerful vibrations will result in orgasm. Nothing else will work.
06/18/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
manual or vibrations are the only things that have worked, but i have high hopes for cunnilingus in the future
07/02/2012
Contributor: Eden062112 Eden062112
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What results in orgasm?

again, manual = fingers or nonvibrating object only
Vibration from a /rabbit butterfly if I am doing it... or if my S/O is doing it, almost anything.
07/05/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
So far just manual or vibrations.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Up and down manual rubbing, vibrations, water, and licking all do it for me.
09/30/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Only manual. Nothing else works for me.
02/21/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Vibrations are usually too much stim for me.
02/22/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
vibes
02/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
oral sex and vibrations.
02/22/2013
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Which do you like: direct or indirect stimulation?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
LaSchwartz , Rossie , deltalima , SweetXSurrender89 , Woman China , Missmarc , Stinkytofu10 , LoveBug721 , ksparkles16 , Breas , mistressg , ghalik , unfulfilled , amazon , LovesAPoet , Deeder , butts , dv8 , Rawr4483 , pirata , MissCandyland , potstickers , FHeemz , SecretKinksters , potentialslayer , Falsepast , konicaguy , Derpina , kitty1949 , misskat , KRD , Melan!e , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Alyxx , ohsnaprawr , fizzygato , lainebug , Noelle , Incendiaire , KinkyNicki92
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mpfm , solitudinarian , ghalik , Deidrenicole , Girly Juice , ily , pirata , potentialslayer , Derpina , Bex1331 , MistressDandelion , Alyxx , sillylilkitten , noway
14
SMichelle , tortilla , Getalife7
3
Total votes: 57 (52 voters)
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
Which do you like: direct or indirect stimulation?
I'm not sure what indirect would be.
06/14/2012
Contributor: SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
direct
06/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Direct stimulation!
06/18/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
indirect won't cause an orgasm but it brings me closer and winds me tighter lol so both are lots of fun
07/02/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Direct stimulation, but not too much.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
indirect is a better buildup. Direct with get me off.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
Indirect, direct is too intense for me
07/26/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I can only stand direct stimulation after some indirect stimulation. I need a little of both.
09/30/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
indirect initially
02/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
direct stimulation...
02/22/2013
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
What intensity of pressure do you like?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Deidrenicole , Derpina , Alyxx , Lildrummrgurl7 , bog
5
Woman China , Deidrenicole , butts , *Camoprincess* , pirata , Derpina , MistressDandelion , Alyxx , ohsnaprawr , lainebug , sillylilkitten , bog
12
LaSchwartz , Rossie , deltalima , SweetXSurrender89 , Woman China , Missmarc , LoveBug721 , ksparkles16 , ghalik , amazon , LovesAPoet , Girly Juice , *Camoprincess* , pirata , potstickers , FHeemz , Crimson Vixen , SecretKinksters , Falsepast , konicaguy , Derpina , kitty1949 , MissCandyland , misskat , Melan!e , MistressDandelion , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Alyxx , ohsnaprawr , sillylilkitten , noway , Incendiaire , KinkyNicki92
34
mpfm , solitudinarian , SweetXSurrender89 , Breas , Stinkytofu10 , ghalik , Deeder , *Camoprincess* , dv8 , ily , Rawr4483 , FHeemz , Falsepast , LunaLuthor , Derpina , kitty1949 , KRD , Melan!e , tortilla , Alyxx
20
solitudinarian , Breas , Deeder , Derpina , kitty1949 , fizzygato , Noelle
7
mistressg , unfulfilled , Deeder , Getalife7
4
Total votes: 82 (55 voters)
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What intensity of pressure do you like?
Enough that I can feel.
06/14/2012
Contributor: SweetXSurrender89 SweetXSurrender89
medium pressure
06/14/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Hmm..it depends on my mood, I guess.
06/15/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I never thought about the pressure. I focus on the strength of the vibrations. Vibes like Uma!
06/18/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
The mood and how my body is feeling at the moment
06/18/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My clit stim has to be through the clitoral hood, and ideally in circles.
06/27/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
light to medium, i like it to still glide and not cause friction
07/02/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What intensity of pressure do you like?
depends on the mood
07/08/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Light to medium pressure.
07/14/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Medium to high pressure.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Very light to high. I love light teasing contact to get warmed up, but to orgasm it needs to be pretty high.
09/30/2012
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
What intensity of pressure do you like?
light or very light!
02/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
medium to medium high..
02/22/2013