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How to tease a man to make him scream with pleasure

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Contributor: ArdentAshley ArdentAshley
Hi everyone!
I’m not very experienced in sex yet, but I’m lucky enough to have a tender and thoughtful partner! Usually, he is in the lead of when we’re having sex and put me first. I think I wanna surprise him by taking control and treating him so something special.

With all that being said, I wanna ask are there some male erogenous zones that I can stimulate to make him go BANANAS? I’m not talking about the obvious stuff, like his dick or balls or hears - something out of the box would be awesome. Any advice will be super appreciated!
05/03/2019
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Men are pretty simple creatures - but something different that you might try is prostate stimulation paired with a HJ and/or BJ.

Since it involves anal stimulation - I suggest reading up on the finer points of prostate massage before trying it out on your SO - and as with all anal play, lots of lube and start slow. If done well - you will indeed rock his world.

I applaud your initiative - and I'm sure he will appreciate it a lot
05/03/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Gunsmoke definitely knows what he is talking about! But if you and your guy are new to the anal play, it would be better to talk over it before you start doing this

Sensitive zones more depend on personal preferences. Some guy goes wild when their nipples are teasing, or their fingers are sucking, for someone this means nothing... Don't afraid to discuss what turns him on, to experiment, to explore and try new technics!

By the way, adding sex toys could be a very sexy&hot surprise.
05/06/2019
Contributor: ArdentAshley ArdentAshley
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Men are pretty simple creatures - but something different that you might try is prostate stimulation paired with a HJ and/or BJ.

Since it involves anal stimulation - I suggest reading up on the finer points of prostate massage before ... more
Thank you for the advice and your support! We discussed the possibility of exploring prostate stimulation, and it was found out he had never tried it, but always wanted to! I decided to go with small steps and used just a finger for this. Frankly, at first, I felt very awkward! But when I saw how much enjoyable it was for him, I got more confidence and added a blowjob! And it was amazing!!! He said it was something out of this world! And I couldn't even have imagined that bringing my man to the new level of pleasure could be such a wonderful experience for myself!

Thank you again, you were very helpful!
05/22/2019
Contributor: ArdentAshley ArdentAshley
Quote:
Originally posted by Leil@
Gunsmoke definitely knows what he is talking about! But if you and your guy are new to the anal play, it would be better to talk over it before you start doing this

Sensitive zones more depend on personal preferences. Some guy goes wild ... more
Thank you for the input! I followed the Gunsmoke advice, and it was incredible! Now we want to work up our experience and definitely going to try some of the sex toys!
05/22/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ArdentAshley
Thank you for the input! I followed the Gunsmoke advice, and it was incredible! Now we want to work up our experience and definitely going to try some of the sex toys!
Ok - so if you want to have a little fun - after all this is supposed to be fun right!

Get your man excited/erect and comfortably laying on his back with access to his backdoor. You may ask him to lift his knees to make it easier for you.

Massage his perineum and external anal sphincter - when you sense he's ready, gently insert your finger and watch his erection dance Of course don't forget the lube - and don't wait to be asked - reapply lube frequently!

I'm sure you've read about the "come-hither" motion for g-spot stimulation - well it's the same for p-spot stimulation. The difference is that your pleasure is hidden - but watching his erection dance as you stoke his prostate is quite the view for you.

Try not to laugh , he may get the wrong idea!
05/22/2019
Contributor: NinaH NinaH
Practice makes perfect! Try different techniques and eventually you'll find what drives him wild the most. The fact you are taking initiative by itself could be a huge turn-on for him!
05/31/2019