For my husband specifically there are a few things we do. Sometimes all it takes is for him to flip me sideways one leg under him and my other leg however he wants it and he will get off pretty quickly if he takes full control of it as I rub my clit.

Another way that works well for us is, I start by sucking his dick and massaging his balls. After a few minutes I'll climb on top into his favorite position. I'm basically in a squat position, which makes it easier for me to control thrusting as he is enjoying the show, he normally massages my breasts or rubs on my clit also.

This does happen to many people in their sex life at some point. It can be caused by such a wide variety of things that asking why is often a moot question. Our go to for this is an ottoman we keep in our bedroom and she rides me as hard as she can. Theat pushes me over the edge nearly everytime.

We must have had the same sex instructor I do the same and a few additional tricks.
I don't actually want him to cum though. I'll hump my hips and pelvis upward and hold him tight. That usually does the trick. If not I'll talk dirty to him. Like, " comon! give to me "

So who's getting ten orgasms . From your man?

As a man I will say there are two sides this coin. My partner has this problem with me sometimes, about 40% of the time.

For me my wife needs to be really turned on and this involves both of us. My partner needs to dress or be sexy and I need to treat her as she is super sexy.
- Foreplay is usually important for both of us
- Lingerie is also super helpful in setting the mood
- I also enjoy it when my partner comes after me it makes me
feel sexy and turns me on

Position and change, my partner is easily pleased by me in conventional positions that are for me sometimes dull. I always enjoy being with my partner but it gets to the point where I am not sexually aroused or pleasured.

Change positions and this is easier said than done.
Exercise and stretch - when you are with someone you
should give them your best, don't go crazy
- 5 min alternate between stretch and something
simple like sit ups or leg ups
Do your research and be open to new things. Don't do
something you don't like or that causes you pain, but
explore and question your boundaries.
- Try a new position at least once a week
- Explore and tryout position furniture and bandage

Explore his body and pay attention to what he likes and
explore your body and pay attention to what really drives you
sexually crazy.
- Similar to above try some role reversal.
- Touch kiss and lick every part of his body to find
his particular hot spots. This also includes stuff
you can do to increase arousal.
Ex: If my partner sucks and licks my balls before a blow job she has a higher chance of getting me to orgasm.
- Be honest and use lubes if you need to. On the
same token, use support furniture if you don't have
the strength or flexibility for certain positions.
- Related to above, set the room up in advance or
make sure you have everything if you are traveling.
If you need lubes or props make sure they are handy
so you use them and spo you don't ruin the mood.
Last two are biggies.

SET ASIDE TIME TO BE SEXY WITH EACH OTHER - aka make your partner's pleasure a priority in your day
- Get your sex schedules lined up and set aside time
for when your partner is turned on. If your
partner just masturbated an hour or so ago because
they were turned on it is going to be harder to
get them to orgasm again in a timely manner.

The last is acknowledge that your partner might not orgasm because of a mental or physical issue. Again get them to be honest and open with you about what they actually want and like rather than what society sets forth. My partner has to remind me that I don't have to fuck her for an hour every time and that sometimes she likes quickies.

The most important is to be open and honest with yourself and your partner. This is a specific topic where your partner has taken the time to figure you out so now you have to bring the time and commitment to figure them out. This can be tricky if they don't know their body but, that's what can lead to great orgasmic discoveries. So be open, do your research and ask around if you think need help with your technique. But, most of all make sure you are having the most sexual fun you can be.