How do women seem to have the best orgasms?

Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's been years since I could give my wife an orgasm orally - probably once we started using vibes. Her favorites are blended orgasms with a combination of penetration and clitoral stimulation - some times with me - sometimes with toys.
02/04/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
Myself using toys or toys during sex
02/05/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
ANAL! MORE ANAL!
02/07/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
I have better orgasms with a partner, well once they learned what I liked. There is something about losing control and allowing the other person to push past the point where you would stop due to the intensity of stimulation.
02/07/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Clitoral stimulation with something in my ass works best for me.
02/09/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I remember a college psychology class where the professor said that women have better orgasms by themselves but preferred partner sex. That's true for me.
I agree with that!
02/11/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
I have better orgasms on my own, but i prefer orgasms durring intercourse
02/11/2012
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
When I'm on top
02/13/2012
Contributor: snuggly snuggly
I would say a combo
02/15/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Interesting...
02/15/2012
Contributor: misskat misskat
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I remember a college psychology class where the professor said that women have better orgasms by themselves but preferred partner sex. That's true for me.
This is so true for me! Masturbation/ toys are great because I know exactly what I want and need at that time but I would never trade that for sex with my partner.
02/19/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I have the best orgasms when my partner is in control of the vibrator.
02/19/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I definitely get the best orgasm when he's doing oral on me, with or without toys.
02/20/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by N&M
Best approach for women to have orgasms.
Intercourse alone
02/23/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
Oral seems to be the fastest way. haha
02/24/2012
Contributor: SparkleRox SparkleRox
I have a hard time reaching orgasm no matter how I go about it, but so far the only thing that's gotten me there is clitoral stimulation, either alone or with a partner.
02/26/2012
Contributor: SparkleRox SparkleRox
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Originally posted by MR Chickhabit
i have been jealous of ladies orgasms and overall lack of worry about having them too soon. ladies can (and do) have all the orgasms they want while men are limited to one, or small half orgasms culminating in a big one.

less pressure for you ... more
I personally worry a lot about having them - but because I have a really difficult time! There's actually been a lot of pressure on me from each of my past/current partners for me to have an orgasm. I've always been jealous of men, since they reach orgasm so much more easily than me!

I'd rather only have one and not have to work at it for a half hour (and even then maybe not even have one)!
02/26/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm dependent on toys because I can't have one from intercourse alone.
03/23/2012
Contributor: sjclayton2912 sjclayton2912
Girlfriend loves toys and fingers (vibe on clit, with fingers or dildo inside) also sometimes something in her butt. Also occasionally she can go with a vibe on her clit and me inside her, but she has a harder time, because she takes awhile to get off I have to time things just right
04/03/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Skilled hands drive me nuts
04/03/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
I can usually do it the best on my own
04/09/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by N&M
Best approach for women to have orgasms.
I can cum -better- alone, but I can cum just fine with my husband, too. I think it's just taht he's not curved like my wand is curved, soo..
04/18/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
It's easiest alone, but I can otherwise.
04/19/2012
Contributor: kitty377 kitty377
When having sex with my boyfriend, I like oral with a lot of cuddling and loving and maybe some kinky 69, then sex. I actually cant have too much stimulation or I won't go, it has to be just enough.
04/26/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER. Nothing was better than that, it didn't matter how we were doing it.
04/26/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by N&M
Best approach for women to have orgasms.
I am the best at pleasing myself
05/09/2012
Contributor: pinkpetals pinkpetals
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetpea12
I am the best at pleasing myself
The earth-shaking orgasms always come from my own fingertips
05/23/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Clitoral stimulation whether it be by vibe,fingers or oral
05/24/2012
Contributor: quackbuster quackbuster
Quote:
Originally posted by N&M
Best approach for women to have orgasms.
Definitely true for me--my best orgasms by far are solo (especially with penetration), but I prefer sex with a partner.
05/24/2012
Contributor: breebree breebree
mixing your guy and toy is great
05/25/2012