So I have finally found my friend with benefits. Someone who I connect with on so many levels. We are in the same place in life, we don't want a relationship at the moment but plan on seeing how things work out. I honestly like this person and I want him to be my partner.
There is just one HUGE problem.... he has no clue what he is doing in bed...
My son's dad was my only partner for 3 and a half years. The sex we had was absolutely mind blowing, and he knew all my spots and made me come over and over again in ridiculous amounts.
It was really weird to even be intimate with someone else- then it was just weird when the sex was bad.
I know communication is a good way to improve- but I don't want to hurt his feelings. I don't know how to tell him how to fuck (or eat pussy for that matter)
Can you guys help me out? Should I recommend some books to him? Introduce certain kinds of toys? We plan on role playing in the future, and getting into some bondage, but I am so shy when it comes to sex. I am so used to my ex knowing what to do that I can't bring myself to tell the new guy how I like it.
There is just one HUGE problem.... he has no clue what he is doing in bed...
My son's dad was my only partner for 3 and a half years. The sex we had was absolutely mind blowing, and he knew all my spots and made me come over and over again in ridiculous amounts.
It was really weird to even be intimate with someone else- then it was just weird when the sex was bad.
I know communication is a good way to improve- but I don't want to hurt his feelings. I don't know how to tell him how to fuck (or eat pussy for that matter)
Can you guys help me out? Should I recommend some books to him? Introduce certain kinds of toys? We plan on role playing in the future, and getting into some bondage, but I am so shy when it comes to sex. I am so used to my ex knowing what to do that I can't bring myself to tell the new guy how I like it.