First time tips?

Constructive discussions on First Time:

First time
What was your first BDSM toy I guess ours was technically handcuffs, although I consider than pretty vanilla, so maybe it was the under the bed...

Best first time products?
Does anyone have advice for a first timer?

First time being flogged and a question
My husband and I attended a swinger party this weekend and a few Doms were in attendance. I was watching a scene take place (with permission) and it..

The first time I used one..
It was more intense than any other form of masturbation I'd tried, was that how it was for you?

A vibe for a first-timer who doesn't know what she likes: Luxury or inexpensive?
I'm introducing a skeptical friend to toys, and I'm footing the bill. Since I'm a toy geek, she's pretty much letting me pick for her. She has no idea