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Contributor: mandybeth mandybeth
Has anyone tried edging? its when you almost get an orgasm then hold back. then do it a few more times. its kind of fun, my bf got me into trying it with him. he likes to be teased and i kind of like it to, only its so frustrating.

now i do it alone sometimes too.
11/19/2010
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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by mandybeth
Has anyone tried edging? its when you almost get an orgasm then hold back. then do it a few more times. its kind of fun, my bf got me into trying it with him. he likes to be teased and i kind of like it to, only its so frustrating.

now i do it ... more
I do this regularly. I really enjoy it. There is a downside though, if you get really close and you are distracted by something (children in my case), you are like ten times as frustrated when you backtrack down your rise and plateau.
11/19/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I do this a lot, it feels really good. I have had days when I try to hold back but end up having an orgasm because the stimulation feels so nice. I didnt know it had a name lol
11/19/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Waterfall
I do this a lot, it feels really good. I have had days when I try to hold back but end up having an orgasm because the stimulation feels so nice. I didnt know it had a name lol
Neither did I.
11/19/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
i do this a lot.. especially when i am building up to squirt.
11/19/2010
Contributor: mandybeth mandybeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I do this a lot, it feels really good. I have had days when I try to hold back but end up having an orgasm because the stimulation feels so nice. I didnt know it had a name lol
haha Im mad at myself when that happens. I try not to cave!!
11/20/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
It's supposed to make your orgasm stronger as well. Good things come to those who wait.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
I didn't know there was a name either, but yes, quite frequently.
11/20/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Sometimes it depends on the stimulation involved. I can have non-ejaculatory orgasms and hence multiple orgasms pretty easily so In usually just use a chain of non-ejaculatory orgasm to build to a big ejaculatory orgasm. However, if i the type of stimulation were an ejaculatory orgasm is inevitability the I might use edging to build to a powerful orgasm.
11/20/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
Hey, a name for something! Yes, that's very fun.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I will hold back sometimes during masturbation, coming to my plateau, then backing off not only makes my orgasm stronger but sometimes enables me to ejaculate as well.
I definitely need toys for this, esp. my Pure Wand or my Eleven and time. A vibe is too difficult for me to delay an orgasm.
11/20/2010
Contributor: lemony lemony
I was also unaware of the name. I'm sure most have or will try it.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I love edging. It makes me cum so much harder, especially if I am having trouble getting to the O. I tease myself until the point of orgasm and then stop. I do it again maybe 2 or 3 times and them let myself cum. Often it is so intense it makes me squirt.
11/21/2010
Contributor: mandybeth mandybeth
A lot of the time i have this big plan to edge over and over and really make it last a long time, then when im actually doing it i will just keep going and cum and then im like "oh damn it!!!
11/21/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I usually edge on the weekends when I have the time to enjoy a masturbation session.
11/22/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I do it alone as practice to hold off orgasms with my partner, but I love doing it!
11/22/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I do this regularly. I really enjoy it. There is a downside though, if you get really close and you are distracted by something (children in my case), you are like ten times as frustrated when you backtrack down your rise and plateau.
I have noticed this as well. Nice to know I am not the only one.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I've heard of people doing this, but when I tried it just made my orgasms that much weaker :[ boooo booooo I'll just let the boys handle it from now on. They can keep their "edging" lol
11/22/2010
Contributor: pinkpetals pinkpetals
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Originally posted by Trashley
I've heard of people doing this, but when I tried it just made my orgasms that much weaker :[ boooo booooo I'll just let the boys handle it from now on. They can keep their "edging" lol
You need more practice! its awesome when done right!
12/01/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I've heard of people doing this, but when I tried it just made my orgasms that much weaker :[ boooo booooo I'll just let the boys handle it from now on. They can keep their "edging" lol
I've found that happens sometimes, too. It's not a perfect science.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I'll have to try this, but knowing I could do it wrong and have a weak orgasm makes me apprehensive in trying.
12/01/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We do this pretty much everytime we have sex. If we didn't, both of us would cum in about 5 minutes. I think it also help intensify the orgasm when you finally do get there. And I know my hubby cums much longer when we do this.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Porfiriato Porfiriato
We do this often. My girlfriend likes to prolong her first orgasm because it makes it more intense, and I do it to prolong sex. SOme guys get too wrapped up in edging, though.
12/01/2010
Contributor: pinkpetals pinkpetals
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Originally posted by Bunnycups
I'll have to try this, but knowing I could do it wrong and have a weak orgasm makes me apprehensive in trying.
I've never had a weak orgasm from doing it but yes that would suck!
12/01/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I do this to my husband, but the build up would go down too much if he were to do it to me and it would be frustrating.
12/08/2010
Contributor: hive83 hive83
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Originally posted by mandybeth
Has anyone tried edging? its when you almost get an orgasm then hold back. then do it a few more times. its kind of fun, my bf got me into trying it with him. he likes to be teased and i kind of like it to, only its so frustrating.

now i do it ... more
Thats what i love about this site it makes you realize your not alone.
12/08/2010
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I do it a lot. I like to see how many times I can back off before I absolutely HAVE to orgasm.
01/19/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Quote:
Originally posted by mandybeth
Has anyone tried edging? its when you almost get an orgasm then hold back. then do it a few more times. its kind of fun, my bf got me into trying it with him. he likes to be teased and i kind of like it to, only its so frustrating.

now i do it ... more
Oh totally. That makes the final release so much more intense!
01/28/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Hehe... though it's hard to have such self restraint when doing it to myself!
01/28/2011