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Contributor: icyqueen icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also notice different intensities of your orgasms? Thanks for sharing!
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07/03/2014
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It depends on how much stimulation I've received during foreplay and sex.
07/03/2014
Contributor: SexScienceAndFood SexScienceAndFood
huge range in intensities. Always feel good, but I've had some where I have to lay there for a minute or more just to recover from the massive euphoria. However, these super intense orgasms are never from vaginal sex with my wife. rather, it's extended foreplay --> orgasm (when she isn't up for things herself but still wants to toy with me),...often with simultaneous extended prostate stimulation.
07/03/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
For OW it's how much stimulation, physical and mental. She does enjoy a lot of foreplay. She more into it on her days off also. I'm more into it after participating in competitive sports activities.

For me, moist, hot sizzling vaginal sex accompanied by prostate stimulation multiplies the intensity.
07/03/2014
Contributor: eri86 eri86
My orgasms have never been "mind-blowing". They tend to take forever, and while they happen, they are pretty quiet.

I actually prefer the feeling of everything than leads up to the orgasm over the orgasm itself. Mostly because I get my pleasure out of the guys pleasure. If he feels really good, I feel really good. My orgasms are more for him than for me.
07/12/2014
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also ... more
It varies quite a bit, but the weakest ones are still like 'mmm that was nice'.
01/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
For me, there are a few ways to either intensify or degrade my orgasm.

For her, lots of foreplay works and a some g spot or anal stimulation can greatly up the wow factor of her orgasm. I really like the ones where she can't walk straight for a few minutes .
01/15/2015
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also ... more
Mine run the range from "mild to wild".
01/18/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I also have experienced orgasms that felt more like "meh". However, occasionally when for whatever reason, I don't cum during intercourse but my wife does, she will sometimes peg me. When that happens and I then finally do cum while getting pegged, I'm pretty much left mentally and physically limp... LOL
01/18/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by RonLee
I also have experienced orgasms that felt more like "meh". However, occasionally when for whatever reason, I don't cum during intercourse but my wife does, she will sometimes peg me. When that happens and I then finally do cum while ... more
That sounds like a good time!
01/18/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
That sounds like a good time!
I hope one day, Inq, you can say,"Been there, done that !"
02/15/2015
Contributor: pirata pirata
I once had one that was not even just meh, it was actively bad. Like it gave me cramps. It sucked
02/15/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by pirata
I once had one that was not even just meh, it was actively bad. Like it gave me cramps. It sucked
Well, actually I too have had an orgasm(s) that left me with abdominal muscles that cramped up. The position I was in (on my back ankles on my Baby's shoulders while she pegged me) might have had something to do with the cramping though it was DEFINITELY worth it!
02/15/2015
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
Ahhh yah that time difference it a bitch. The actual time I want to be horny is different from when I'm actually horny. So yah it differs it might just be a plain while so it depends on when I begin.
02/15/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also ... more
Icyqueen, it's nice to hear from a different person once in a while.

Yes, the best ones that I have had have left my abdomen gripping up on me, it's a nice feeling, and if it was a particularly good orgasm, my abdomen kept gripping up on me way after the fact.

And then there are some that are good, but seem to have no beginning and no end, but are definitely an orgasm.
02/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Hello! I can be all over the place. It just depends on mood and what all is on the agenda lol. Of course, the giant orgasms that curl your toes and leave your ears ringing and numb are AMAAAAZING. But, I've also had those moments where they sometimes feel like they get lost or I'm left at the end thinking what was that lol. Sometimes it's a science experiment and you just shoot for a do-over
03/05/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hello! I can be all over the place. It just depends on mood and what all is on the agenda lol. Of course, the giant orgasms that curl your toes and leave your ears ringing and numb are AMAAAAZING. But, I've also had those moments where they ... more
Vnessa, for those times a do over is needed, do you think it has something to do with the amount of stimulation you did or did not get?
03/05/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Vnessa, for those times a do over is needed, do you think it has something to do with the amount of stimulation you did or did not get?
Its definitely a me thing (I think--lol). Its usually when I've lost my O at the last second and became incredibly frustrated. Then, I feel I need that do over. Sometimes there's so much going on, maybe, my mind/body has a hard time keeping up and then BAM!!! Its lost By then, the husband and I were so caught up in the moment that there's no stopping him and I'm like, umm, well, hmm...lol
03/05/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Its definitely a me thing (I think--lol). Its usually when I've lost my O at the last second and became incredibly frustrated. Then, I feel I need that do over. Sometimes there's so much going on, maybe, my mind/body has a hard time keeping ... more
I don't think that's just a you thing. That might have happened to my partner once or twice.
03/05/2015
Contributor: pirata pirata
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Originally posted by RonLee
Well, actually I too have had an orgasm(s) that left me with abdominal muscles that cramped up. The position I was in (on my back ankles on my Baby's shoulders while she pegged me) might have had something to do with the cramping though it was ... more
Mine were like menstrual cramps, and they killed the mood so hard
03/20/2015
Contributor: Megan McClure Megan McClure
Edging makes my orgasms bigger!!
04/06/2015
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Quote:
Originally posted by icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also ... more
Fingers in places always helps
09/11/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Mine I find can build if I read the peaks and stop myself. But if I hold off too long it's more pain than pleasure.

No two orgasms are really the same.
09/15/2015
Contributor: OmazingSexToys OmazingSexToys
Agreed,It depends on how much stimulation we've received during foreplay and sex.
01/25/2016
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Yes, they vary in intensity for me,
01/25/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Every one varies depending on a lot of factors for me. Stimulation, position, where I am in my cycle, how turned on I am.
01/25/2016
Contributor: elfiew elfiew
They are always great. As a baseline. XD

But other than that, they vary definitely, either from position, or how horny I was, whether it's vaginal or clitoral, or for seemingly no reason at all. Orgasms from sex or from foreplay with another person are always more intense than solo with a toy.
01/28/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Hmm.
02/02/2016
Contributor: lefty4ever lefty4ever
Quote:
Originally posted by icyqueen
Hi to you all,
Do your orgasms vary in intensity? My orgasms vary from "meh... okay?!" (sometimes) to "Wow... That was a good one" (most of them) to "OMG!!!! Amazing!!! What was that???" (rarely)

Do you also ... more
The more time i thinking about it during the day, will increase my orgasim
08/10/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by lefty4ever
The more time i thinking about it during the day, will increase my orgasim
Ah yes - Anticipation is a true aphrodisiac

Sometimes I drive myself crazy thinking about sex all day - then come home to a 'headache' or some other excuse - it's maddening
03/01/2017