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Contributor: Sammi Sammi
This is something I've been wondering about for a while. Do you always know when you squirt? Can you actually feel it, or does it just happen without you feeling it release? I guess I'm so conditioned to what I've seen in porn that I expect to see a spray. Does it really do that, or is it much more subtle gush of wetness?

I've been trying to decide if I am doing it and don't realize it, or not. That may sound silly, but there are times that I am totally drenched, but there's no sensation of it, no spraying, etc. I suspect I'm not and am trying to figure out how to do it, but I'm interested in others' experiences.
02/07/2010
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Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
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Originally posted by Sammi
This is something I've been wondering about for a while. Do you always know when you squirt? Can you actually feel it, or does it just happen without you feeling it release? I guess I'm so conditioned to what I've seen in porn that I ... more
I definitely don't always know I'm doing it. Hell, I was squirting for a few months during oral before I knew. He was afraid I'd stop if he told me, and he thinks it's the hottest thing ever. Now, a year later, if I'm specifically planning on trying to squirt or I'm watching for it, I notice it before the wetness hits us, but usually it catches me by surprise.
02/07/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I definitely don't spray like a garden hose. I usually do notice it now as I'm doing it not always. The orgasm feels a certain way but I don't really feel the liquid coming out if that makes sense?
02/08/2010
Contributor: Juliettia Juliettia
It would be awesome to squirt porno-style sometimes I think, though I can't do it. For me the orgasm feels different and I can feel an increased sudden wetness.
02/08/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I can squirt without feeling it but sometimes I push it a bit to make it more dramatic? Haha
02/08/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I feel a build-up prior to ejaculation but I am not totally aware of the exact second of my release. I have never had a "porn type gush" but it has been strong. For me, hydration is the key. When I am hydrated...I let go. I don't mean not peeing prior to sex. Too much alcohol minimizes hydration, including beer. Of course my g spot has to be stimulated.
I usually "feel it" after it happens, the wetness is evident.
02/08/2010
Contributor: SexyTigerX SexyTigerX
I'm reading the best book (Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot) by Deborah Sundahl. She thinks that most women do ejaculate, but not all are aware of it. I think you most likely are. I highly recommend reading this book. She give tons of tips and info.

Have fun
02/08/2010
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
I'm with you on that, not exactly sure if I'm doing it or not. My boyfriends quite taken with all the squirting in porn so hes convinced that's the only way it come out

Guess we'll keep working on it and hope he gets his show. Maybe I'll make him read that book Crystal Girl suggested though, then he won't be so darn expectant.
02/08/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
This is all handy to know! I've always assumed it was something everyone felt.

I'm definitely going to check out that book!
02/08/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
One time (but only once) there was a big wet spot afterward. I wasn't aware that I was squirting. My man jumped up and down with excitement about it.
02/08/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I can squirt porn style only when my man exits exactly when I tell him to and I have to push (and stim my clit manually) as Adrianna Ravenlust has mentionned but I try to avoid that bcs sometimes I am gassy and I let go little farts as I push out and it totally breaks the mood for me (sorry if it's TMI).

But most times I like it when my man stays inside me during the ejaculation its so much more intense for me but I don't feel the liquid come out in a spray, it just gushes out. Sometimes the liquid is coming out and I don't even know. What I do definatly feel is the build up of liquid right before it gushes out.

For example last night I ejaculated for the first time in doggy style, I put my throe down in case I would gush and I thought I didnt gush until I changed positions and saw my throe was drenched.

So all in all it depends on whether he is inside me or not at the moment of ejaculation.
02/08/2010
Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
Most of the time, I gush more like a faucet; I can feel the streams of fluid going down my ass cheeks, and pooling below me. However, sometimes it squirts straight out like you see in porn, though that is not as common. That only happens once in a while, and usually it's when I'm jerking myself off and using my pure wand. I also have to be really horny/desperate to come.

With a partner, 98% of the time it does the "gushing" thing more often than the "squirting" thing. I can do it on command (squirting in general, not choosing if I want faucet or waterpik), but it requires me to push it out. That involves pushing from somewhere inside my vagina, flexing my kegels to squirt.

I don't always feel the squirting though. The easiest way for me to tell is to look below me when I'm done. The wet spot totally gives me away.
02/08/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
For me I usually don't realize it when it's happening. It is during an orgasm but not all orgasms produce wetness. And I can't tell when it's going to happen either. All I know is everything gets very wet. And it is more of a whoosh than squirting. I do have to say that after a squirting orgasm I feel more satisfied. Like there is more of a release to it. If that makes any sense.
02/08/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Tuesday
One time (but only once) there was a big wet spot afterward. I wasn't aware that I was squirting. My man jumped up and down with excitement about it.
Judging from our wet spots, I was probably sometimes squirting without realizing it
02/09/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Liz2
I feel a build-up prior to ejaculation but I am not totally aware of the exact second of my release. I have never had a "porn type gush" but it has been strong. For me, hydration is the key. When I am hydrated...I let go. I don't mean ... more
Squirting for me involves what I would call, an intense orgasm....that involves my entire pubic area and even my thighs and legs. When I ejaculate using a toy esp. the Pure Wand or the Eleven by NJoy, I feel the build up but not the actual ejaculation.
During intercourse, I am even less aware of squirting....it doesn't happen all the time, but the evidence is there when he withdraws. He says he doesn't actually "feel" me squirting when he is penetrating me and thrusting. A vibe also on my cilt helps.
02/09/2010
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
I can only squirt or "gush" when i am on top not sure why but its only when im on top and leaning back or sitting up straight. i cant feel it happening i usually have no idea untill i am done and i start to notice how wet i am(legs,back,stomach ect.)
02/28/2010
Contributor: Horny & Holy Horny & Holy
I just started squirting and for the most part can tell when I'm going to do it because I have to make a conscious effort to do so. I spray like a sprinkler the majority of the time, but trickle occasionally like a babbling brook...
03/04/2010
Contributor: null null
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Originally posted by Sammi
This is something I've been wondering about for a while. Do you always know when you squirt? Can you actually feel it, or does it just happen without you feeling it release? I guess I'm so conditioned to what I've seen in porn that I ... more
I generally only squirt during sex when I know I'm not going to have sex for a while, like BF being gone for a week or two. I normally get embarrassed by it, and while I'm stripping off the sheets to clean up I'm terrified that I just wet myself. BF is always nice about it, he doesn't love it or anything, but he likes knowing he did a good job.
On the other hand, when I masturbate in the shower, it happens quite easily and actually feels better than when it happens during sex. This is probably just because there's no anxiety of someone else being there.
In my experience if I gush I've had a better orgasm than if I spray, but that's just me.
That was a long post...sorry guys!
03/20/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
Sometimes I can feel it happen and other times it just happens. Either way, the orgasms feel amazing and I get that 'relieved' feeling too.
03/20/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by null
I generally only squirt during sex when I know I'm not going to have sex for a while, like BF being gone for a week or two. I normally get embarrassed by it, and while I'm stripping off the sheets to clean up I'm terrified that I just wet ... more
Get yourself a Liberator Throe & enjoy the experience - sans the anxiety. They make cleanup a snap! link
03/20/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Hmmm, this is an interesting conversation! I have wondered myself if I ever squirted. I guess if I have then I don't know it. Now that I think about it there was this one time when I just got super wet all of a sudden, my partner told me it was like a waterfall so I'm assuming that was one! I do know that once we get into it and I have my first orgasm it just gets better and better after that! So do you guys (girls) think that it feels better with the squirting? I wonder if it feels different? Or if everyone squirts when they come?
03/28/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
I'm pretty sure I've done it all of twice. The first time was when I was... 14, maybe? I thought I pissed all over my bed. Lol. The second time was just yesterday in the shower, while using this amazing bullet vibe I just received!!!
03/31/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Hmmm, this is an interesting conversation! I have wondered myself if I ever squirted. I guess if I have then I don't know it. Now that I think about it there was this one time when I just got super wet all of a sudden, my partner told me it was ... more
Squirting for me is a "bonus", doesn't happen all the time and with me anyway, I need an orgasm prior to ejaculation. Many times I don't feel it at the time but the evidence of my wetness is there. A squirting orgasm just feels so much more intense and satisfying to me.
03/31/2010
Contributor: Lunacy Setting in Lunacy Setting in
I have had a few small squirts, where I've felt myself release some kind of liquid and been blissfully worn out afterward. But no fountain-type squirts like in porn. Or so I think...

I have a wicked stupid question though. Sometimes either when I masturbate or during sex I'll get really built up and *almost* orgasm but I become oversensitive and wind up stopping. A few minutes later I go to the bathroom and a lot of mostly clear liquid comes out with a little bit of yellow. This will happen even when I have gone to the bathroom before play. Is this the mythical porn squirt we hear about? Or is it just some wacky form of urination?
04/04/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I tend to "gush" rather than do that crazy projectile squirt thing. It sort of dribbles at first, and then gushes at a low pressure for...a while. A lot. And I feel it, lol.
04/04/2010
Contributor: KinkyShay KinkyShay
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Originally posted by Sammi
This is something I've been wondering about for a while. Do you always know when you squirt? Can you actually feel it, or does it just happen without you feeling it release? I guess I'm so conditioned to what I've seen in porn that I ... more
There's no question. I know because I wet down several towels, sometimes my boyfriends chest, shoulders and face, and most of my lower half. It's a dead giveaway.
04/08/2010
Contributor: bellavive bellavive
I've only squirted once, that I know of. And I was using a vibrating dildo. I think for me it's the double stimulation of my clit and my G spot. But when it happened I didn't really feel it so much as feel the wetness, but I did feel a build up and a much bigger "relief" afterwards than with my normal orgasms. They're much, much more intense.
04/08/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I am usually not aware of it, my husband is and I'm pretty jealous that he gets such a good view of it and I don't even know about it half the time until I feel the excessive wetness after the fact.
05/23/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by bellavive
I've only squirted once, that I know of. And I was using a vibrating dildo. I think for me it's the double stimulation of my clit and my G spot. But when it happened I didn't really feel it so much as feel the wetness, but I did feel a ... more
It's exactly the same for me - the dual stimulation is how I get there and the more intense release and tons of wetness is how I know it's happening. And the tension in my abdomen is way more intense.
05/23/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I tend to "gush" rather than do that crazy projectile squirt thing. It sort of dribbles at first, and then gushes at a low pressure for...a while. A lot. And I feel it, lol.
My overall experience is about he same...I have never had a projectile squirt as seen in some porn. I think it is actually peeing in porn anyway. But I do end up with considerable wetness.
05/24/2010