I posed this question to wife - and she just laughed! Indeed as a young woman she didn't know anything about multiple orgasms - so she would have one strong clitoral orgasm and assume that she was a lucky girl because so many of her friends were not so lucky.

Fast forward - I introduce her to g-spot orgasms, then blended orgasms and we're off to the races!

Your question raises a false dichotomy - as if you have to choose between one strong orgasm or several smaller ones. That's just not the case. My wife will often have multiple orgasms where each one is stronger than the one before!

Vaginal and blended orgasms last much longer than clitoral orgasms. My wife describes wave after wave of orgasm - she says sometimes she's not sure if she's had multiple orgasms or a very long orgasm. She claims it as her reward for enduring 40 years of monthly periods and two childbirths!

By the time 'I'm done' getting her off - she can't even pick herself up off the bed. She just lays there with her eyes rolling - waiting for the blood to move back from her genitals to her brain.

Age has it's prerogatives - and challenges. My lack of ability to orgasm results in the ability to stay hard for way longer than I could as a younger man - so between my new found stamina and our extensive stable of toys we have a blast!

Always,always try to hold off as long as possible. Then when it comes, feels so so much better and stronger. Of course then want another. When I'm out of breath,that's enough. And yes, every part of me is over sensitive.
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I have met both types of girls and even girls that have never ever had an orgasm.

Some guys are multiorgasmic too.

My wife loves to get off several times before we go with the penetration and she then has a few small ones then we try for a massive simultaneous one that either happens or we use toys to push over the edge.

After all that she is really sensitive.

The longer I try to hold off an orgasm (sometimes easier said then done), the more intense the release is. There are times I'm too greedy to wait and I just let it consume me right out the gate though lol. Then, I have plenty of time to put all my efforts into pleasing my SO and hopefully get rewarded with another amazing climax

Every time I have 1 big O I always want more. Little O's make me want more too. I haven't dealt with overstimulation.

I don't feel overly stimulated after one O. It could be a big one, but I'll still want more. My limit seems to be 6. By then I'm tired out but not overly stimulated. Multiple O's means I'm ready for another O quicker. My level of stimulation is heightened, not over stressed. I'm in prime condition for another one. Usually for me, I get a down time between the multiples. If they were right on top of another, I'd probably have overstimulation.