Have you ever had a secret sexual fantasy that might seem strange to others?

Don't worry; these fantasies are completely normal and can vary from bondage or ropes kink to the more unexpected, like sexual arousal caused by urination or blood. Whatever the desire is, it offers a unique way to spice up the sex life.

Let's share the kinks you are curious about but haven't tried yet. Also, it would be interesting to find out what stops you from trying. less

Really, the only things I think I would enjoy but haven't had a chance to try is latex or PVC clothes, and actually having a partner in the bedroom. My solo experiences so far have been great, just haven't found a partner who can hold my interest and would be willing to deal with my eccentricities. less

Have you ever had a secret sexual fantasy that might seem strange to others?

Don't worry; these fantasies are completely normal and can vary from bondage or ropes kink to the more unexpected, like sexual arousal caused by urination or blood. Whatever the desire is, it offers a unique way to spice up the sex life.

Let's share the kinks you are curious about but haven't tried yet. Also, it would be interesting to find out what stops you from trying. less

Have you ever had a secret sexual fantasy that might seem strange to others?

Don't worry; these fantasies are completely normal and can vary from bondage or ropes kink to the more unexpected, like sexual arousal caused by urination or blood. Whatever the desire is, it offers a unique way to spice up the sex life.

Let's share the kinks you are curious about but haven't tried yet. Also, it would be interesting to find out what stops you from trying. less

Have you ever had a secret sexual fantasy that might seem strange to others?

Don't worry; these fantasies are completely normal and can vary from bondage or ropes kink to the more unexpected, like sexual arousal caused by urination or blood. Whatever the desire is, it offers a unique way to spice up the sex life.

Let's share the kinks you are curious about but haven't tried yet. Also, it would be interesting to find out what stops you from trying. less

I have always wanted to try double penetration but I have never done anal. The thought of being with two men at once is a turn-on.

Another one that I would like to try, having sex with a married man, letting him cum inside me, and forcing his wife to lick me clean. less

I have always wanted to try double penetration but I have never done anal. The thought of being with two men at once is a turn-on.

Another one that I would like to try, having sex with a married man, letting him cum inside me, and forcing his wife to lick me clean. less

We are a couple, and are dabbling with swinging and threesomes. We still consider ourselves new to the lifestyle. We both are keen on it, but it is interesting to us that despite our excitement and enthusiasm for exploring with new people that it can be hard to motivate to follow through with it.

I think there are so many layers to the process, that it is easy to lose steam or procrastinate in any of them.

Step 1) Creating a good compelling profile with good pics. Plus paywalls.

2) Reaching out and corresponding with people- and finding a good fit.

3) Scheduling/Logistics. Everyone is busy, ourselves included.

4) Time & money. Getting ready, dressing up, commuting to a date & meet and greet at venue or bar. If things go well, hosting is a concern. Fork out on hotel versus privacy and logistics of bringing new people home.

5) Chemistry, timing, discussing boundaries, Sti tests, making the right moves..

I think with practice, experience and muscle memory lol, that we will refine our routine. less