Hello. I've been playing around with AI recently, and I noticed that, at least when dealing with computer-aided fantasies, I seem to have a bit of a dominant streak I didn't realize was there until now. Makes sense, because I've enjoyed BDSM-adjacent things, like electricity play before.

Can anyone recommend resources for separating the truth about BDSM from the noise, or for finding local communities/workshops/ clubs and the like? I'd rather have some knowledge from someone more experienced going in than try to work everything beyond S.S.C.C out from first principles on the fly.