My wife and I have very lightly dipped into BDSM, though it wasn't discussed at the time. I like a little pain in my play and it's something that the wife knows and will do. What do I do, though, if I want to try out more and she does not? I've mentioned it in the past, and it was something she wasn't really into? Any suggestions appreciated.
Suggestions for someone who is interested in BDSM - whose partner is NOT.
08/26/2019
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Do you prefer to be submissive or dominant?
My suggestion is to initiate an open conversation with your wife and discuss the option of making your BDSM practice more intensive. You can not force her to love it. I think the only way is trying to persuade her that BDSM can bring a lot of excitement to the relationships. Do not jump from light techniques to rough ones. Step by step work your way up.
The important thing is to set the boundaries and established certain rules for your BDSM playtime so that no one gets hurt and everybody enjoys it.
My suggestion is to initiate an open conversation with your wife and discuss the option of making your BDSM practice more intensive. You can not force her to love it. I think the only way is trying to persuade her that BDSM can bring a lot of excitement to the relationships. Do not jump from light techniques to rough ones. Step by step work your way up.
The important thing is to set the boundaries and established certain rules for your BDSM playtime so that no one gets hurt and everybody enjoys it.
08/29/2019
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It's all about trust. Have an open talk about your desires and then let her choose when and what the next step will be.
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JennyLA
My wife and I have very lightly dipped into BDSM, though it wasn't discussed at the time. I like a little pain in my play and it's something that the wife knows and will do. What do I do, though, if I want to try out more and she does not?
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My wife and I have very lightly dipped into BDSM, though it wasn't discussed at the time. I like a little pain in my play and it's something that the wife knows and will do. What do I do, though, if I want to try out more and she does not? I've mentioned it in the past, and it was something she wasn't really into? Any suggestions appreciated.
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