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My GF and I from time to time add something out of BDSM range to spice things up in bed. Nothing too kinky or heavy, but sensory play and restraints are definitely things that turn both of us on. Especially, I enjoy spanking her beautiful ass. Those
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My GF and I from time to time add something out of BDSM range to spice things up in bed. Nothing too kinky or heavy, but sensory play and restraints are definitely things that turn both of us on. Especially, I enjoy spanking her beautiful ass. Those red marks on her buttocks look extremely arousing to me. And it seems to me she enjoys being spanked much more than I.
I know that there are many women who love to be spanked, and I wonder what so exciting they find in it. Is it because women are more submissive by their nature or what?
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I find it's a unique combination of physical and mental stimulation when I spank my subs. I find it very mildly erotic to be spanked and could care less. But spanking my girls has a much more powerful mental component it. It seems to highlight submissive aspects of their nature, that they both subconsciously crave and avoid. It is so innocent and both physically pleasurable and painful. Mentally I've found its quite humiliating for them varying with the context and mood.
I'm surprised to have become quite attracted to spanking- I love the mind shift that occurs in the spankee. Submissiveness, wide eyed, red bottomed, little tears, and topped off by a very wet pussy. Interesting combo for sure.