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Need ideas or suggestions. Me and my husband work together and live together as we own our company together. He wants me to dominate him in and out the bedroom. Any ideas on how to keep this going? Living together and working together is hard but we
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Need ideas or suggestions. Me and my husband work together and live together as we own our company together. He wants me to dominate him in and out the bedroom. Any ideas on how to keep this going? Living together and working together is hard but we love this whole BDSM life and we want to fully commit to it. We have been together 10 years and finally hes comfortable with all this and wants this lifestyle its nothing i have forced upon him. He loves any and everything to do with sex anal or punishment. Just seeing if anybody had any great ideas to spice it up!
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Hey there,
My wife and I are in a very similar situation- 10 years, small biz together, etc. Except I'm the Dom and she the sub.
We have attempted this before but slipped back into relative normalcy with a few kinks. I've found it takes regular attention and effort. Like a garden, your relationship is always growing- in desirable or undesirable ways. So cultivating the BDSM aspects must be a priority for you two.
I actually saw an article on Homeschooling that was relevant for me to help build our dynamic.
"Embrace Rhythm
Rather than expect perfectly planned and executed lessons, start with creating a steady rhythm.
Yearly rhythm includes seasonal celebrations & festivals
Weekly rhythm includes, for example, different activities on different days such as xxxxxx on Mondays or yyyyy on Wednesdays
Daily rhythm includes meals, chores, lessons, bedtime"
