The New Intimacy

Featured by EdenFantasys

Orgasm control chastity belt
Orgasm control chastity belt
Panty harness
The Guide To Bondage and Restraints
The Guide To Bondage and Restraints
Explore Now
Wheels of pleasure
Wheels of pleasure
Wartenberg wheel

How many of you are in BDSM centered relationships?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: sevennn sevennn
I'd like to do a SexIs article on BDSM relationships and archetypes, more of a general 101 thing without getting too specific, while still giving lots of good information. However, before I go into any sort of writing, I'd like to see what types of relationships people are in so I can get an idea of where to center things! If you're in a specific relationship (pet play, CG/l, M/s, anything else) then please reply with it! Of course, if you don't align with any of these, then please add a reply and I will make sure to take it into consideration!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
sevennn , Leil@ , Ready & Willing
3  (19%)
Robin Goodfellow , BloodRaven93
2  (12%)
bad lovely , LovesItHot , Killiana7189
3  (19%)
jakjak
1  (6%)
Soundside46 , omgmegg , shepegsME
3  (19%)
4ever18 , MissMichella420 , crybaby , Up4itall
4  (25%)
Total votes: 16
Poll is open
02/27/2022
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: sevennn sevennn
Starting it off with my vote! I am the sub and my partner is my Dom. Primarily, we are just in a Dom/sub relationship, where the both of us take on many roles. He is my Daddy, my Sir, my Mister, my Master, my Owner...lots of things! I am his puppy, his baby boy, his little brat...I try to be the bestest boy for him I'm looking forward to learning more about the people here at EdenFantasys and the kind of relationships that you have.
02/27/2022
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
We are an D/s poly couple. Considering adding some pet play aspects to the mix. Best of luck with your writing!
02/28/2022
Contributor: sevennn sevennn
Quote:
Originally posted by Robin Goodfellow
We are an D/s poly couple. Considering adding some pet play aspects to the mix. Best of luck with your writing!
I completely forgot to add poly relationships, agh! It seems that I can't edit the poll to change the answers, so anyone else who may be poly...please answer as it would apply to your relationships as a whole or reply!
02/28/2022
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
I am not currently in a relationship, but I prefer to be the Dom. However, I'm not against being a switch either. I'm all about pleasing my (eventual) partner.
03/04/2022
Contributor: abee abee
Well, I'm not sure if my input will be any use since I'm not actually in a relationship, but I can give some answers based on the experiences I do have!

I do a lot of BDSM-related self-play - things like self-bondage, edging, pain play, etc. It can be a bit tricky to make it work but with a little creativity, there are all kinds of ways to incorporate BDSM into solo sessions. In those scenarios I'm the "sub" (even though I'm technically also the dom ... it gets a bit confusing if you think about it too long )

When I do participate in couple/group play, I have previously subbed but found increasingly that I'm more comfortable with being the dom. If I were to enter a long-term BDSM relationship, I think I would likely end up being a dom-leaning switch.
03/06/2022
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I’m a submissive masochist who likes rope. Not in a relationship at the moment though.
03/15/2022
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
I love my current relationship. We're both Switch but I get to be domme most of the time and I don't mind it. She's such a good sub and when she gets what she needs, she turns primitive and pegs the heck out of me.
03/27/2022
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
I’m a submissive masochist who likes rope. Not in a relationship at the moment though.
Have you tried tieing yourself up with rope? Not being in a relationship shouldn't stop you from having fun!
04/04/2022
Contributor: crybaby crybaby
Sadly I'm in a failing relationship and, he isn't kinky
04/05/2022
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
@sevennn, take a look at the thread started by Miss Michella. Her thoughts about domming can be informative for your article.
04/05/2022
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyTabby
I’m a submissive masochist who likes rope. Not in a relationship at the moment though.
As 4ever18 mentioned, tieing yourself up with rope can also be fun. Here is a discussion about self-bondage. I hope you will find some useful tips there.
04/05/2022
Contributor: MistressMisti MistressMisti
Quote:
Originally posted by 4ever18
I am not currently in a relationship, but I prefer to be the Dom. However, I'm not against being a switch either. I'm all about pleasing my (eventual) partner.
Umm I'm not currently in a relationship either. I feel I'm a switch. I long to be dominated but buddy watch out cuz I can darn sure flip those tables on you and be your Mistress! Just talking about it makes me wet! I'm sure you know what to do! ??????
05/11/2022
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressMisti
Umm I'm not currently in a relationship either. I feel I'm a switch. I long to be dominated but buddy watch out cuz I can darn sure flip those tables on you and be your Mistress! Just talking about it makes me wet! I'm sure you know what ... more
Wet & wild sex as a Dom or Sub is fun for all! Count me in!
05/12/2022