Hello everyone!

It's been a while since I last posted, but I've been reading and educating myself here for quite some time. Thank you so much - all of you guys - for the good work you're doing here, enlightening noobs like myself and showing us the cave of sex toys wonders.

Anyway, I'm here with another query. Recently, we've concluded that we need to stop playing around with household stuff and try something specifically fetishy and BDSM-y. We like control and restraint games, but my silky scarf is not doing it for us anymore. I started looking into the variety of bondage props, but nothing seems to strike as particularly beginner-friendly. I'm really skeptical about my ability to figure out those restraining constructions with multiple zips and belts, but oh my - do they make me click. Maybe something less complicated? Really looking forward to your advice - best first cuff, for example, or should we try a spreading bar? Is it fun with those?

Thank you all so much in advance - I just love love love this supportive and sex-positive community.