Did you catch it this week? Nina talks about anal sex, anal douching and how to keep the mess down.
And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
Tuesdays With Nina -- the anal edition
12/29/2009
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Forum highlights on Anal Sex:
A good condom for anal? Ribbing or no ribbing?
My wife enjoys anal sex from time to time, and I've been wondering about including a condom for our anal fun so that I can switch from anal to vaginal
Have you ever used a rabbit for anal sex?
i want to surprise hubby with a new toy for our anniversary. Do guys ever use rabbits for anal pleasure? i thought maybe the rabbit ears would feel.
They look so LONG!
I have had anal sex in the past (only on 2 occasions), but they weren't exactly the greatest experience, and it was awhile ago. But my hubby is...
Prep time
Does a longer en-plugged time increase the ease in dildo insertion during anal sex?
Can you get hemorrhoids from anal sex?
I am wondering if people get hemeroids or any other problems due to anal sex.
A good condom for anal? Ribbing or no ribbing?
My wife enjoys anal sex from time to time, and I've been wondering about including a condom for our anal fun so that I can switch from anal to vaginal
Have you ever used a rabbit for anal sex?
i want to surprise hubby with a new toy for our anniversary. Do guys ever use rabbits for anal pleasure? i thought maybe the rabbit ears would feel.
They look so LONG!
I have had anal sex in the past (only on 2 occasions), but they weren't exactly the greatest experience, and it was awhile ago. But my hubby is...
Prep time
Does a longer en-plugged time increase the ease in dildo insertion during anal sex?
Can you get hemorrhoids from anal sex?
I am wondering if people get hemeroids or any other problems due to anal sex.
12/29/2009
Nina is amazing - and the fact that she is answering viewer emails and questions? AWESOME!!! What a great way to get real deal sex advice! I am totally in love with this!
12/29/2009
Yes, I did, and I have to say, ya gotta love her. I could listen to her for extended periods very happily. The part about the finger sliding out as the nozzle slides in is excellent advice.
12/29/2009
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I watched her, she was wonderful and very informative. I am sort of new to eden fantasys, I have always shopped the site but never signed up or joined any programs. I have a couple of questions about anal sex. Is it painful for the woman? I heard it was really only pleasurable for the man, so I never tried it. I do not know much about anal sex, except for what I learned in magazines and hearsay. Some people say don't do it, because it is possible to lose some of your ability to control your bowels. Is there any truth to that statement? My husband really wants to try it so I just bought the beginners anal kit and a water-based lube. I'm really afraid to try it though. Especially if its not going to feel that good and there might be a mess to clean up. I am glad I did get to see Nina explain about preparing yourself, it makes me feel a little better about trying it.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Did you catch it this week? Nina talks about anal sex, anal douching and how to keep the mess down.
And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
12/29/2009
This is great - I'm so glad she's doing these!
12/29/2009
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It shouldn't be painful. You will want to make sure to use plenty of lube, and warm up slowly. Remember there's no rush. I've always found it to be a good idea to start with something small, and gradually work up. But if it hurts, stop.
Originally posted by
Anastasia's Heaven
I watched her, she was wonderful and very informative. I am sort of new to eden fantasys, I have always shopped the site but never signed up or joined any programs. I have a couple of questions about anal sex. Is it painful for the woman? I heard it
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I watched her, she was wonderful and very informative. I am sort of new to eden fantasys, I have always shopped the site but never signed up or joined any programs. I have a couple of questions about anal sex. Is it painful for the woman? I heard it was really only pleasurable for the man, so I never tried it. I do not know much about anal sex, except for what I learned in magazines and hearsay. Some people say don't do it, because it is possible to lose some of your ability to control your bowels. Is there any truth to that statement? My husband really wants to try it so I just bought the beginners anal kit and a water-based lube. I'm really afraid to try it though. Especially if its not going to feel that good and there might be a mess to clean up. I am glad I did get to see Nina explain about preparing yourself, it makes me feel a little better about trying it.
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12/29/2009
She is the cutest thing in the world. I wish I would have had some instruction from a woman like her BEFORE I tried anal (without a lot of information). My butt is going to be out of commission for quite some time while it is healing from anal play gone awry. I think this is awesome that she's doing this!
12/29/2009
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Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
Originally posted by
Sammi
It shouldn't be painful. You will want to make sure to use plenty of lube, and warm up slowly. Remember there's no rush. I've always found it to be a good idea to start with something small, and gradually work up. But if it hurts, stop.
12/29/2009
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It can be a true delight! I've come from anal sex before with almost no other stimulation.
Originally posted by
Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
Lube is a must and starting slow. Start with just a bit of external stimulation until you are comfortable and interested!
12/29/2009
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It definitely can be - and is for me, although it took some getting used to in the beginning. I find it a very different sensation.
Originally posted by
Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
12/29/2009
Thank you both for your help, I feel a little more prepared for the experience now. I just have to get the ball syringe that Nina suggested first.
12/29/2009
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You don't necessarily need to douche anally unless you're going to be doing a lot of thrusting. In my experience as long as you've had a good bowel movement prior things are fine. Some people are really freaked out by shit but honestly, it's a part of the whole thing and sometimes (like Nina says) a little bit of it happens. My partner and I have never done any anal douching and have never had a serious problem.
Originally posted by
Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you both for your help, I feel a little more prepared for the experience now. I just have to get the ball syringe that Nina suggested first.
Also before you jump to anal sex and invest in an anal douche, I would SERIOUSLY recommend getting comfortable with something smaller first. In other words; invest in a small dildo. I skipped ahead to anal with my partner and have been dealing with an incredibly painful fissure for about 6 months now as a result. If I had it to do all over again I'd start out with this small toy and work up from there. It's worth it to invest a little bit in a dildo rather than injure yourself.
12/29/2009
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Thank you, yes I did just buy the beginner's anal kit and it just came in the mail today. I will try it out when he gets back home, he is out of town. I want to try it out for the first time with him here.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
You don't necessarily need to douche anally unless you're going to be doing a lot of thrusting. In my experience as long as you've had a good bowel movement prior things are fine. Some people are really freaked out by shit but honestly,
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You don't necessarily need to douche anally unless you're going to be doing a lot of thrusting. In my experience as long as you've had a good bowel movement prior things are fine. Some people are really freaked out by shit but honestly, it's a part of the whole thing and sometimes (like Nina says) a little bit of it happens. My partner and I have never done any anal douching and have never had a serious problem.
Also before you jump to anal sex and invest in an anal douche, I would SERIOUSLY recommend getting comfortable with something smaller first. In other words; invest in a small dildo. I skipped ahead to anal with my partner and have been dealing with an incredibly painful fissure for about 6 months now as a result. If I had it to do all over again I'd start out with this small toy and work up from there. It's worth it to invest a little bit in a dildo rather than injure yourself. less
Also before you jump to anal sex and invest in an anal douche, I would SERIOUSLY recommend getting comfortable with something smaller first. In other words; invest in a small dildo. I skipped ahead to anal with my partner and have been dealing with an incredibly painful fissure for about 6 months now as a result. If I had it to do all over again I'd start out with this small toy and work up from there. It's worth it to invest a little bit in a dildo rather than injure yourself. less
12/30/2009
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Awesome! Some find that having a partner with you will help you relax, others find that having a partner there creates pressure which makes them tense. One of the most important things for anal is to be comfortable and relaxed...those rectal muscles are strong! When they tense up they are NOT letting anything in so penetration becomes painful when it shouldn't be. So if you have trouble with your partner around, you might consider trying it by yourself.
Originally posted by
Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you, yes I did just buy the beginner's anal kit and it just came in the mail today. I will try it out when he gets back home, he is out of town. I want to try it out for the first time with him here.
My only other advice is go slow and listen to your body. If you experience pain just slow down or stop. You can always try again later. Good luck to you!
12/30/2009
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