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Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
Is there a position for anal sex that you find the most comfortable and/or enjoyable? Especially for a first timer?
07/23/2012
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by clockwork451
Is there a position for anal sex that you find the most comfortable and/or enjoyable? Especially for a first timer?
I know a lot of folks have heard me say this here too many times....but here goes again. Sorry.

Unlike many here who enjoy Doggy Style, I don't. It is uncomfortable for anal. So, in MY humble opinion, as a lady who LOVES anal penetration, but HATES all pain, here is MY suggestions:

LUBE, LUBE,and MORE LUBE, then add MORE LUBE is my first suggestion, regardless of position.

As for position, for a first timer, I would suggest laying on your left side (left side down), with your top leg bent forward. Have your bottom right at or slightly over the edge of the bed and have your lover STAND (far better control) behind you, and penetrate SLOWLY and with YOU calling the shots (move, stop, go a bit deeper or enough), with his penis aiming towards your belly button, more or less. YOU will direct him to the angle that is MOST comfortable for YOU. Oh...did I mention ADD MORE LUBE???? Do so.

Once you are good with that, another position I love, and find super comfortable and sexy, is with me laying flat on my back, butt right at edge of the bed, legs hanging off. I usually have a pillow under my butt as well, to raise me higher (I love Liberator JAZ or HEART for this, by the way). Anyway, he walks up to me and raises my legs over his shoulders or puts my feet on his chest, so my position is like I am sitting, more or less....laying on my back. He then can penetrate me DEEPLY either vaginally or anally. We can look each other in the eye, he can play with my pussy or clit, or even reach down to play with my breasts. The biggest thing is that it is COMFORTABLE and NOT PAINFUL to me at all. I love it.

Oh....I hope this helps and 1. Go slow, 2. YOU call the shots. 3. It does not need to go ALL the way in every time. 4. Forget about the pile driving and pumping away as if it were vaginal sex or porn 5. ADD MORE LUBE.

I hope this helps.

ENJOY.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by clockwork451
Is there a position for anal sex that you find the most comfortable and/or enjoyable? Especially for a first timer?
Mr Bignuf here now, having to put his two cents worth in to what my darling bride just posted. I would suggest looking at reviews here and finding a COUPLE of good anal lubes and a COUPLE of SMALL anal toys and finding out which lube works BEST for you, BEFORE you go into anal with a partner (you can experiment together, of course) and use a SMALL toy first, to get the "feel" for anal penetration and relaxation. It will help YOU to enjoy it a lot more. Since Mrs. Bignuf introduced me to pegging (bad girl), she did it that way. I was already a fan of prostate stimulation my other GF's fingers and then my wifes INCREDIBLY talented digits, but it was her careful experiments with SMALL (TINY) anal toys and different lubes that helped ME to find what was comfortable and fun as well. Interestingly, HER choice of anal lube and mine are DIFFERENT, so you need to find what works best for you.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Tibby Tibby
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Originally posted by clockwork451
Is there a position for anal sex that you find the most comfortable and/or enjoyable? Especially for a first timer?
laying on your side. have him apply lube to you and to his self. He should have his body slightly lower and enter you anal using the spooning postion.

Also having vaginal intercourse before hand helps because your turned on and yall are feeling the mood and he isn't just randomly sticking it in you butt.

Use lube!!! and also applying tingle cream to ur clit helps the mood.
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