Okay so my bf and I have been throwing the term anal around for a while now, and I didn't really like anal sex...until I did. SO now I've asked him how he feels about pegging and he seems pretty uncomfortable about it. When I bring up plugs he said he is open to try them.

Do I start slow with plugs?

Do I give up?

Ladies-if you do this to your guys how did you get him into it? Did he request/you request? Guys-vice versa. less

Okay so my bf and I have been throwing the term anal around for a while now, and I didn't really like anal sex...until I did. SO now I've asked him how he feels about pegging and he seems pretty uncomfortable about it. When I bring up plugs he said he is open to try them.

Do I start slow with plugs?

Do I give up?

Ladies-if you do this to your guys how did you get him into it? Did he request/you request? Guys-vice versa. less

Okay so my bf and I have been throwing the term anal around for a while now, and I didn't really like anal sex...until I did. SO now I've asked him how he feels about pegging and he seems pretty uncomfortable about it. When I bring up plugs he said he is open to try them.

Do I start slow with plugs?

Do I give up?

Ladies-if you do this to your guys how did you get him into it? Did he request/you request? Guys-vice versa. less

Okay so my bf and I have been throwing the term anal around for a while now, and I didn't really like anal sex...until I did. SO now I've asked him how he feels about pegging and he seems pretty uncomfortable about it. When I bring up plugs he said he is open to try them.

Do I start slow with plugs?

Do I give up?

Ladies-if you do this to your guys how did you get him into it? Did he request/you request? Guys-vice versa. less

Ok so heres my 2 cents....

I think my man Mr Clark is right...

Guys have this heistation with anal sex because they think it shakes their foundation of what it means to be a heterosexual male.

The truth is I have never done the pegging thing. Come to think about it it may simple be the shape of the toy and that fact that even though its a girl that is doing it it still makes you think about is this manly is it not manly. I mean among men you will never hear another guy admit to receiving a prostate massage let alone being pegged. I am pretty sure it is that social stigma attached to the act.

However....

One other thing that I am sure you could most get men to admit to anonymously is how that stigma flies right out of the window after he has cum really hard from pegging, prostate massage or using a prostate toy. For a guy its a COMPLETELY different orgasm to have. Much more intense, much more pleasurable. Once a guy cums like that, they just want to feel like that again and are usually easily able to look past that stigma.

If you want my advice to get him interested in it is to start with the least intrusive way and work your way in from there.

Now how she broke me... (lol) is we went out had an awesome sushi dinner then we had a bottle of wine then we ended up having that mid summer early afternoon, no kids, nothing to do sex for the rest of the afternoon into the night.

We had bought a plug earlier in the week kind of daring each other to do it. But after some rough sex, wine and showers we decided to go at it again. so after sex 3 times that day she decides she is going to go down on me to for some encouragement to go again and having a slight buzz with my inhibitions lessened she dared me to let her use the toy and I was a little nervous but all at the same time relaxed. She went down on me and used the plug to massage my prostate and I had my first full prostate orgasm and the truth is I have NEVER cum that hard. And that was after having sex a few other times that day. I was sure she wasn't going to get me off. The truth was I came so hard I was embarassed....LOL. Like literally holy shit!!! how did you do that lol!!!

Well I sure was wrong... but now its one of those you know you dont have to ask questions LOL. If she is going to make me have a full body orgasm (which that right ladies its the same for us.. full body) far be it for me to question how.

So make him comfortable... when he has that first full body orgasm and completely loses control of himself for a second or two you wont have to suggest anything ever again.

No as far as me using the toy on her.... she always loved it. Never needed to ask her either. Obviously she doesent have a prostate but she loves how tight she feels and if I am taking her doggy style and she is using a vibe or massaging her clit she cums very hard too. We have been together for years but we have never had anal sex with just me and her but the reason for that is I am pretty big (not a brag... truthfully being too big is a bad thing and you know you are too big when you are apologizing for hurting her)
and we both came to the conclusion that I would probably end up hurting her big time if we did.

Hope that helps, and he wont know how lucky he is until you get him that first time.

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Thanks everyone this is all really fantastic advice for someone who is new to this! Since he does like it when I use my finger I think I will stick with that for a while longer.

Even though he says he would try a plug I think I might wait until he decides in his own time to use one...and since there is even a little bit of unease about pegging I think we will definitely hold off on that. I don't want to push him too hard on that one since it seems like pretty serious business.

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Is it considered pegging if my wife stuck the blue spiral g dildo in my ass without wearing a harness ? She started out using her finger and then worked her way up to putting the dildo in my ass once it was in I backed onto it slowly inserting the whole thing. she said it really turned her on using it on me while stroking my cock Idk if she loved it as much as I did but it felt amazing. I’d love to hear any feedback from guys and girls. Thanks less

That's how it starts. According to definition I believe pegging is when a female penetrates a male in his anus which a strapon. Since she's not strapped/ using a dildo attached to her bod , probably not. Just butt play.

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We received our strap on yesterday and The Eden Silicone Strap on Kit worked as good as I was hoping it would. ??????Only thing is we need a better lube we both felt like the dildo wasn’t slick enough but the mrs loved it and she looked very sexy wearing it she mentioned we will need lots more practice so I’m excited that she enjoys it as much as I did and wants to keep Pegging which makes me Happy. She Does have the power and I do love it.

What is Best kind of lube for anal play ? We used the KY yours and mine that’s what was on hand.

Also what are some other dildos we can use with this type of harness? less