As I'm male, please forgive me for butting in, however...

Years ago, I'd purchased both a harness and several toys, including a Vixen Creations Nexus for my wife and I to play. She had been a rather adventurous partner, and I'd really thought she would like it. She was far from pleased. She said some rather unkind things including questioning my orientation. Now granted I am a bi guy and had not told her. But the level of hate for gay men that came from her made me silently question why I had ever married her.

She never would use the Nexus but eventually did use the harness. When she did peg me however she'd chosen a rather hard dildo and was so vigorous that she hit my prostate and when I did ejaculate it was blood.
We did not engage in pegging play again. less

Yes, well my wife is now gone, may she rest in peace.
My current partner is just a bit reluctant but is OK with pegging me occasionally.
Sad that men who want it end up with women who don't really want to and women who want to do it, end up with men who don't...
I've come to realize, life is but a joke, and the laugh certainly seems to be on me. less

Yes, well my wife is now gone, may she rest in peace.
My current partner is just a bit reluctant but is OK with pegging me occasionally.
Sad that men who want it end up with women who don't really want to and women who want to do it, end up with men who don't...
I've come to realize, life is but a joke, and the laugh certainly seems to be on me. less

Yes, from reading many of the previous other posts on the forum, that is validated. I remember reading the one where many women say they would love to peg a man. That same poll had many wife's who stated their husbands would say, "No Way!"

I guess it is like when one is young, don't have enough money to buy stuff for the kids. Then later in life when have more money, no longer have kids at home. Saw a state of the art refrigerator today, but now we are almost empty nesters and don't need one that big. Wife was saying, "Could have used that when the kids were young." Of course we could not afford it back then.

omg, I sure know how to get off subject and make a short story long huh ? less

What happened then? Were you embarrassed to have brought up the idea, or upset they wouldn't play? A friend just tried this on her hubby of three years on Valentines Day. She thought he would be open to the idea, since he likes her licking and fingering his anus, but when that harness and dildo came out, it was a terrific "fail" according to her. He was actually kind of "less then romantic" the rest of the evening.

So, what is your experience with this? less

As I'm male, please forgive me for butting in, however...

Years ago, I'd purchased both a harness and several toys, including a Vixen Creations Nexus for my wife and I to play. She had been a rather adventurous partner, and I'd really thought she would like it. She was far from pleased. She said some rather unkind things including questioning my orientation. Now granted I am a bi guy and had not told her. But the level of hate for gay men that came from her made me silently question why I had ever married her.

She never would use the Nexus but eventually did use the harness. When she did peg me however she'd chosen a rather hard dildo and was so vigorous that she hit my prostate and when I did ejaculate it was blood.
We did not engage in pegging play again. less