We aren't exactly new to anal play, but not really super experienced either. He is very open to it, and he enjoys it after he gets relaxed. I want to get a prostate massager for him because I think he would LOVE it, but before that, I want to know what I'm doing and I want to be able to make sure it's hitting the right spot. How does one go about finding it, and making sure that it's 'the spot'?
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How to find the p-spot?
11/06/2011
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What is the best tool for first finding your p-spot?
I'm having trouble finding my spot and I'm wondering what the best object would be to use. Toy suggestions are welcome!
Oil based lube
I have used water and silicone based lube, but never oil based lube. Does it have a different feel? Can anyone share their experiences using it...
Prostate Massage First Timer
I wanted to post this to maybe gain some insight into how to properly go about prostate massage with my partner.
We tried it this past weekend and.
Spotlight on Jopen Vanity (and contest)!
This week's Spotlight is going to be on the Vanity by Jopen series. I don't know if you've seen them around, but they're vibrators that are...
What's your favorite toy for P'Spot stimulation?
What is everyone's fav toy for p'spot stimulation????
What is the best tool for first finding your p-spot?
I'm having trouble finding my spot and I'm wondering what the best object would be to use. Toy suggestions are welcome!
Oil based lube
I have used water and silicone based lube, but never oil based lube. Does it have a different feel? Can anyone share their experiences using it...
Prostate Massage First Timer
I wanted to post this to maybe gain some insight into how to properly go about prostate massage with my partner.
We tried it this past weekend and.
Spotlight on Jopen Vanity (and contest)!
This week's Spotlight is going to be on the Vanity by Jopen series. I don't know if you've seen them around, but they're vibrators that are...
What's your favorite toy for P'Spot stimulation?
What is everyone's fav toy for p'spot stimulation????
11/06/2011
It's the the same 'come hither' motion with a finger as when you go for the G-spot.
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior of his pelvic wall. It’s about the size of a walnut and if you’ve already brought him to arousal, the raised spot of tissue it forms will make location easy.
Whether you’re using your finger or one of the many men’s sex toys for prostate stimulation, you’ll know when you’ve located his prostate. The rush of sensation he'll feel leaves absolutely no doubt. Don't worry though, go slow, use plenty lube and be gentle. You don’t have to rush things as you explore – his prostate’s not going anywhere.
And believe me, he WILL love it!
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior of his pelvic wall. It’s about the size of a walnut and if you’ve already brought him to arousal, the raised spot of tissue it forms will make location easy.
Whether you’re using your finger or one of the many men’s sex toys for prostate stimulation, you’ll know when you’ve located his prostate. The rush of sensation he'll feel leaves absolutely no doubt. Don't worry though, go slow, use plenty lube and be gentle. You don’t have to rush things as you explore – his prostate’s not going anywhere.
And believe me, he WILL love it!
11/06/2011
p-spot is under the bed! (jk)
11/06/2011
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Thanks! This really helps out. I think he might be just as excited as me to give this a try!
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Toys in Love
It's the the same 'come hither' motion with a finger as when you go for the G-spot.
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior ... more
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior ... more
It's the the same 'come hither' motion with a finger as when you go for the G-spot.
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior of his pelvic wall. It’s about the size of a walnut and if you’ve already brought him to arousal, the raised spot of tissue it forms will make location easy.
Whether you’re using your finger or one of the many men’s sex toys for prostate stimulation, you’ll know when you’ve located his prostate. The rush of sensation he'll feel leaves absolutely no doubt. Don't worry though, go slow, use plenty lube and be gentle. You don’t have to rush things as you explore – his prostate’s not going anywhere.
And believe me, he WILL love it! less
You’ll find the prostate gland close to the base of his penis as you glide your fingertip or P-spot vibrator inside his rectum, along the interior of his pelvic wall. It’s about the size of a walnut and if you’ve already brought him to arousal, the raised spot of tissue it forms will make location easy.
Whether you’re using your finger or one of the many men’s sex toys for prostate stimulation, you’ll know when you’ve located his prostate. The rush of sensation he'll feel leaves absolutely no doubt. Don't worry though, go slow, use plenty lube and be gentle. You don’t have to rush things as you explore – his prostate’s not going anywhere.
And believe me, he WILL love it! less
11/07/2011
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Both my wife and i have tried using fingers. The last time she almost got it she was just barely brushing it with her fingers. But ive used doc johnson's lucid dream vibrator to bring myself to a few p-spot orgasms. Also you might want to have him find it on his own so he knows how to direct you better and he can tell which toys work.
Originally posted by
Tessa Taboo
Thanks! This really helps out. I think he might be just as excited as me to give this a try!
11/07/2011
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That is great advice! Thanks!
Originally posted by
jg19
Both my wife and i have tried using fingers. The last time she almost got it she was just barely brushing it with her fingers. But ive used doc johnson's lucid dream vibrator to bring myself to a few p-spot orgasms. Also you might want to have
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Both my wife and i have tried using fingers. The last time she almost got it she was just barely brushing it with her fingers. But ive used doc johnson's lucid dream vibrator to bring myself to a few p-spot orgasms. Also you might want to have him find it on his own so he knows how to direct you better and he can tell which toys work.
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11/09/2011
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Basically the anatomy is clear from the previous posts. What I like to remark that most of the regular prostate toys for some reason don't do it for me. I have received (actually just today) the Billy and the Big Boy. They are totally different of course and I don't really know what to expect, but I have had extremely great experiences with some of the toys I have reviewed below:
Originally posted by
Tessa Taboo
We aren't exactly new to anal play, but not really super experienced either. He is very open to it, and he enjoys it after he gets relaxed. I want to get a prostate massager for him because I think he would LOVE it, but before that, I want to
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more
We aren't exactly new to anal play, but not really super experienced either. He is very open to it, and he enjoys it after he gets relaxed. I want to get a prostate massager for him because I think he would LOVE it, but before that, I want to know what I'm doing and I want to be able to make sure it's hitting the right spot. How does one go about finding it, and making sure that it's 'the spot'?
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Triple Ripple - that one is great while rocking on it with the partner on top, hits the spot with a sniper like precision. Of course don't neglect the inflatables, the Gapers Organic will almost make him loos consciousness (no shit!!!).
The Blush is amazing and due to UR3 material actually very comfortable to use even with it's size. The favorite which always gets me off especially when she is using it on me is the Ultra Skin Cock.
Ah yeah almost forgot, the Pfun plug. It's just amazing to have in during the intercourse, it hits the spot in the missionary position in a perfect way. It's also perfect when well sized toys are not his cup of tea. So getting that one and the Gapers Organic will be actually enough for the start.
Hope it was helpful )))
12/05/2011
If he's aroused it's much easier to find the prostate, as it becomes firm.
12/06/2011
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