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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
Freshman in college, and luckily it was a GREAT experience with a gentle lover, who turned me on to a lot of things....for life. My hubby, likewise, was "schooled" by a slightly older girl in college and so when WE started dating, we were both fans of all kinds of things that just clicked together...well. We still went on to explore together...but the basic tools were there!
07/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
I have tried it once with the man I’m with now around when we first started dating. But it was a little much for me, more pain than pleasure. But its something I defiantly want to get into again. I just want to experiment with anal toys first...
From one woman to another, anal sex is really amazing, but should have ZERO pain if done right and slow enough. The keys are TOO...way WAY too much good lube, but also position. For some odd reason everyone thinks that they have to go Doggy Style and that can hurt. I have spoken to several GF about this. I only, after years of doing anal, will get in doggy position after he has been inside me for ten minutes or more. It was ONLY comfortable, at first, in MISSIONARY, "pillow under butt", legs UP, position, or on my side with top leg forward. Forget what you see in the movies.

Let him use a well lubed finger or toy for a while, then do SLOW and highly lubed penetration, where YOU reach around, holding his hips and YOU control the movement. Have him massage your clit with a finger while doing it.

PUMPING and THRUSTING is out too. Just him going in and being there, for the time being, should be your "goal". The tightness will be amazing for him. The fullness for you.

ANAL SEX IS NOT an S/M pain activity!

Enjoy.
07/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Blinker
I had an over-eager cock slammed into my butthole when I was 20. I guess he thought he was being sly? I screamed and slapped him, it hurt soooo bad.

When I was 21, the boyfriend who I'm with now knew I wanted to try anal and he bought me a ... more
Why not speak with him, tell him that is annoying and a turn off, and tell him if he wants to visit your back door, just say (you create the "password") once, or give you a pat back there (or whatever SIGN you desire). Everyone CAN be taught. It is a "teach/reward" thing!!!
07/19/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
i was 17, almost 18
08/25/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I was 21 before that I was too scared.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I think I was 20 or 21 and tried it with my boyfriend at the time. Didn't really work out so we stopped.
03/21/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i was 15 my first serious bf was really into it my current bf really wants to but it hurts too much for me
03/21/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
At the age of 20 was when I tried it.
03/23/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
I was 16 and it sucked we didn't have any lube and, well, you can guess how fun that was. I still do it with my partner from time to time (lubed up, of course!) but I don't really enjoy it.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I was 16 the first time I ever tried it. It hurt like a motherf*cker and we stopped. My current beau and I have tried several times, now, but neither of us are too crazy about it. But we've only ever used natural lubrication and massage oil, so I think if we were to do it properly, I'd like it quite a bit more. Perhaps I'll invest in a buttplug, because I really enjoy stimulation in that area.
04/02/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Sex Positivity
I was 16 the first time I ever tried it. It hurt like a motherf*cker and we stopped. My current beau and I have tried several times, now, but neither of us are too crazy about it. But we've only ever used natural lubrication and massage oil, so I ... more
You need lube. Lube is the only way it's any fun.
04/02/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Other I have never done it.
04/02/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
I was 15 when I first had anal sex, it hurt so bad...the memories of how inexperienced we were.
04/03/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Haha actually it was on my 20th birthday
04/04/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I was 19. It was the same week that I lost my virginity too. Anal sex is the one thing I said I would never want to try, but he would slip a finger in there while playing around down there to warm me up to the idea. Then I finally let him put himself in me. I actually enjoyed it. It wasn't painful for me at all, of course we had lube.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Lulia Lulia
I was nineteen and my partner was awesome about it. It wasn't my favourite thing in the world, but after discovering the wonders of silicone lube and his bright idea to use a toy vaginally turned it from never again to more of a special occasion sort of thing.

I just wish it wasn't so messy.
04/16/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
I was, I think, 18? 19? Enjoyed it. He convinced me to, though.
04/16/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
You need lube. Lube is the only way it's any fun.
Yeah. I really ought to go find one I like. I'm just so damn picky!
04/17/2012
Contributor: ginas ginas
I played with my ass with my own fingers the first time I experimented.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
I think I was around 19.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
18-24
04/22/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
NEVER!!!!
04/22/2012
Contributor: DashO'Roark DashO'Roark
My old high-school girlfriend and I were both 17 the first time we tried it. She liked it more than she thought she would. Then, years later, somewhere in my mid twenty's I confessed to my wife that I enjoyed my prostate stimulated during BJ/HJ. It wasn't long before we graduated into full on Pegging...
04/23/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I was 18 at the time.
06/07/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Haven't experienced full anal sex. I've had plugs up there and he tried a couple times, but it hurt so he didn't get very far.
06/07/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I was in my late 20's and it was a finger. Then I had tried a toy. A few years ago I had a FF and she introduced me to anal. Giving and receiving. I love it... Grins!
06/07/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Slow starter, but I really enjoy it once I get going.
06/07/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
I was 18...I hated it and it was painful..he had said he had did it with another chic before and never had complaints about it. So I told him she musta been a complete ass slut because you can shove somthing that big into something that small as fast and hard as he did. I have recently did some research and got different sized toys and did it MY way and now find it somewhat enjoyable.
06/07/2012
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
I was 19, but the person I used to do it with back then was awful and it was uncomfortable and painful. Tried again around age 23 (?) and its been great ever since
06/08/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
I was under 18, but so was he. It hurt like hell and took me 4 years to try it again.
08/18/2012