How many women....

Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
Get to use strap on on their man?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
13  (14%)
29  (32%)
29  (32%)
21  (23%)
Total votes: 92
Poll is open
07/25/2011
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I haven't found a decent harness for my tiny-ass frame nor a dildo that is slim enough with the material safety I want. I'll keep searching for it though!
07/25/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I haven't found a decent harness for my tiny-ass frame nor a dildo that is slim enough with the material safety I want. I'll keep searching for it though!
I also have a small frame. I bought the smallest one I could find that buckles like a belt and I added some notches to it. It ended up working like a charm
07/25/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
I also have a small frame. I bought the smallest one I could find that buckles like a belt and I added some notches to it. It ended up working like a charm
I have one in mind that I'll probably modify with velcro. Of course I want the Joque, but I don't have that kind of patience! I've already waited four years!
07/25/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
No I don't get to
07/25/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I haven't explored that territory yet, but I'd agree if she wanted to.
07/25/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I have one in mind that I'll probably modify with velcro. Of course I want the Joque, but I don't have that kind of patience! I've already waited four years!
If you get it! Send me a note and tell me how you like it!!
07/26/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
i'd like to try it sometime but Mr. Bayo would never allow it.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Haven't. Would like to. Don't know if I ever will.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
never.
07/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by playtimeohsofun
Get to use strap on on their man?
i voted 'all the time' because it was closer than the other answers and 'other' was too obscure for me.
i get to do it every now and then. include more options next poll, please!

07/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I haven't found a decent harness for my tiny-ass frame nor a dildo that is slim enough with the material safety I want. I'll keep searching for it though!
try the latigo leather harness... it will need trimming of the excess nylon straps but it's a great price and looks hot on, and is super versatile with all the interchangeable o-rings, you can buy different sizes on Eden too.
i recommend the silk small to start out with.

07/26/2011
Contributor: Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
I have a fantasy about this but man says no way and I don't think I'll ever get to. Boohoo. Oh well. I can still buy a strap on and swing it around.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
try the latigo leather harness... it will need trimming of the excess nylon straps but it's a great price and looks hot on, and is super versatile with all the interchangeable o-rings, you can buy different sizes on Eden too.
i recommend the ... more
That's actually the harness I had in mind! I've read in the forum that the small silk is too small for fluid movement. I started looking at the Mistress and the Acute.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
If you get it! Send me a note and tell me how you like it!!
Will do.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Bella-Sunshine (Couple Account) Bella-Sunshine (Couple Account)
I wish, but no
07/26/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I haven't, but I would.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I totally enjoy strap-on play. My man was initially very reluctant but so enjoyed giving me anal.
He has so come around, frequently he chooses a harness, dil and lube and lays it on the bed.
Having been through too many harnesses with too much trouble, the right harness is key. I now use the Aslan Jaguar or the Spare Parts Jock. Either should fit you.
I am slim, 119lbs and 5'6". I also use mostly VixSkin dils as the base feels great vs my clit as I thrust.
Plenty of lube and warmup re a must!

I think strap-on play is becoming more common, both g/g and b/g.
07/26/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
sometimes!
07/27/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Never. Not our thing.
07/27/2011
Contributor: DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
never
08/21/2011
Contributor: DashO'Roark DashO'Roark
Quote:
Originally posted by playtimeohsofun
Get to use strap on on their man?
Most every time the mood strikes..
08/29/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
No, I really have no desire to. But, I do NOT think "EW" about it. Some people really enjoy it. It just doesn't match our dynamic. I don't penetrate him, ever. Nor do I want to. Other people have other dynamics and if they enjoy it, I think it rocks.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Don't really want to do that. Nothing wrong with it but I know my man would not be down for it and I'm not either.
09/06/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I have yet to acquire the Realdoe, so strap on sex has to wait. I have anal sex with him, though.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Jon S Jon S
id prefer she did not
09/06/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Never
09/06/2011
Contributor: Fantasy Treasures Fantasy Treasures
Sometimes yes, but sometimes no. While I'd love to do it all the time, I leave it up to him and whether or not he's feeling frisky.
09/06/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
The men I've been with would never have let me use one on them
02/22/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
my boyfriend is more of manly-man type of guy and there is no way in hell he'd even let me get close to putting anything up his ass!
02/22/2012