Although your post doesn't say it - the category here is anal sex.

I agree that anal sex is a fantastically erotic experience - proper technique is vital. You suggest that the woman 'just relax' and 'he knows your nerves'. However IMO most guys really don't understand proper anal sex techniques.

A woman should be an active participant in the preparation and guide her partner to go at her pace with plenty of lube - reapplied frequently. When it's time for penetration - the fist few times should probably be cowgirl so that she can control the rate and depth of penetration.

I also recommend that guys experience pegging from their partner - this will truly give them an accurate estimation of what their partner is feeling.

Best of luck to all those exploring this fabulously erotic option for sexual gratification.

I personally wouldn't have anal sex every day - just because for us it is kind of a special treat. Not in a once-a-year type of way, of course, and not even once-a-month, but still, not every night.

Totally agree with Gunsmoke here - there is a lot more to preparing for anal sex than just breathing and relaxing, although those things are important, too. An abundance of lubricant is vital, as well as proper warm up with fingers and smaller toys.

If you care to know more on the topic, we have two cool contents on anal - this one is a general "Anal Intro" guide with a psychological perspective on things as well as beginner-friendly suggestions. This one is a literal "Prepare for Anal" guide that walks you through all the steps of experiencing good anal sex, with lube, warm up, attention and care. And, most importantly, pleasure

I agree with GingerAnn, as much as we enjoy it... the prep, mood, extra time/foreplay, etc all make it something that isn't a regular occurrence in our sex-life as getting everything in order so that it's pleasant for both of us makes it a special treat when it happens

Anal sex is a type of sex in which partner express their love. It needs proper care when it does. In this time you use sex toys or take help from your partner. It's really amazing for doing. Some are loved to do that with their partner and also with toys. If you want to anal sex then you can do it with your partner or you can buy some toys. Sextoys.ren is the best site, in which you can find lots of different type of sex toys that you can buy and use it.

My very first GF was terrified of getting pregnant and so for that reason our first experiences with intercourse was anal. Even after we eventually did PIV sex, she would often want to get butt fucked instead.