So we are newish to anal and pegging. Last night I used my Pure Wand (small end) on my partner and the mess that ensued....wow. Wand was covered in feces, and I mean covered. I'm not squeamish about it, and had a towel handy. I'm a birth doula and have little ones in diapers, so I deal with yucky stuff and it's no big deal. But partner was totally embarrassed. And of course it put a damper on things, because then he had to head to the bathroom. I knew it was likely because the smell changed as we were going at it. How do we avoid this? Did I go too deep with the want and stimulate a bowel movement? When I prep (shower). I make sure my rectum is empty manually. He hasn't. Help please :-(