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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Since I joined Eden I have asked questions and discussed it fairly often here on the forums. Finally tonight though, we were able to have anal sex with him getting his penis all the way in and cumming as well.

When we tried before it was extremely painful. I cried and he hardly got anything in. This time I warmed up a little beforehand and for the first time we tried it while I was on my back. It was easier but still hurt. That wasn't so bad. The worst was the feeling of needing to *use the bathroom* even though I had already emptied myself. Does this go away? It was consistent through the whole thing and it was so uncomfortable!
01/13/2013
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Congratulations! I finally found an anal trainer that I really like so hopefully I'll be making a similar post in the future.


The worst was the feeling of needing to *use the bathroom* even though I had already emptied myself. Does this go away? It was consistent through the whole thing and it was so uncomfortable!

I, too would like to know the answer to this.
01/14/2013
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
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Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
Since I joined Eden I have asked questions and discussed it fairly often here on the forums. Finally tonight though, we were able to have anal sex with him getting his penis all the way in and cumming as well.

When we tried before it was ... more
I'm interested in anal sex as well. This happened to us, the pain and crying. Glad to know that it can get better, lol. We are working on it
01/20/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I'm sorry it hurt!
If he didn't "warm me up" BEFORE, yes, it WOULD hurt me, too!

You just have to ease into it...That having to "go" feeling is normal.
We started anal just a little while after having sex, and EVERYTHING was new to me! Imagined how I felt, "devirginized" then a few weeks later, anal! Scary, but I learned how to, again, "warm up".

Playing around by using fingers is good, LUBE, too, LUBE is always good!
Good luck to you--just don't stress out--that'll make it worse!
Just relax and enjoy!
01/20/2013
Contributor: deejay deejay
I'm glad you enjoyed it. My wife of 14 years and I used to do anal fairly regular. Now, over the last two years, she claims she does not like it that much, and does not really want me to do it. Well, I don't know why after 12 years of occasional anal she now does not want it.
02/04/2013