Hey, Luv!! No more Tequila... No more Dos Equis lol. I'm back in the states now . My Spanglish was getting me in trouble so it was time to head back

I can definitely try your way. Its not boring at all. Mine is boring...cuz it doesn't exist yet--Ha! But this little bronzed mami` is about to shake things up a bit less

I've also used the toy and natural equipment to satisfy. I'd like to use 2 dildos or 1 dildo and a vibe while I go down. I think that might feel interesting. Any suggestions for exact dildos and/or vibes combinations to use would be greatly appreciated. less

Hello my Eden Lovelies!! Oh how I've missed you since I've been out of the country!!! Serious withdraw here

OK, down to business. I want to play with DP, but I'm curious, what is the most pleasurable way to dabble?? I (being a girl) would be the receiver of all this goodness (mm hmm, yayy friggin ME!) SO, is it better to use a smaller dildo in the anus and then take my husband vaginally? Or reverse?

What do you other Fun Loving participants do . less

Ok heres what we do, we bought a glass plug tear dropped shape in glass. This way it is smooth and needs little lube for a long time of play. Usually what she likes is that plug in during doggy style sex and what I do is I put my thumb on the base of the toy and thrust it while I thrust myself. I also enjoy going down on her while doing the same. We have also introduced a bullet vibe while doing that doggy style. The first time we did that she came so hard she pulled a muscle LMAO!!!!

Now I also have to put in here that we came across a sexual education show on TV where they were talking about prostate massage. So she tried the oral with the toy and made a motion to rub the toy against my prostate.

Now to give you an idea, I was drunk... I wasn't into any of the anal scene like most guys... and this was before kids on a Sunday so we literally spent the whole day having sex since we woke up other than eating and watching tv in bed. After having three or four orgasms that day she decides to give it a shot. Usually after 3/4 rounds and having a few drinks I am done for a while...

I am here to tell you I came so hard I was embarrassed. I was completely shocked I couldn't believe it. I came so hard I was actually sore. So if you buy the toy and you eventually get your man to submit enough... You may find that he likes it just as much as you do.

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LOL you are such a sweetie!

Oh and btw.... I mean less of a "Thrust" and more of a pulse with both of us. If you gently push the toy with your thumb your body will accept it then move it back just match your body's give and take. No need to thrust it. You see all of these porn movies with people thrusting all sorts of crazy things in there when all you need is literally a massage of the area. The more gentile you are the over all better it feels and gets you to a better orgasm sooner.

Same thing with a guy, I had to teach my wife this and it took her a while. Some guys want to cum right away as soon as they can. When you start controlling your "O" you will start to realize that SLOW sex makes you cum the hardest. Why? Because you build up to the point that you burst.

She used to think riding me like a mad woman was hot... (Don't get me wrong it is but not all the time) BUT really slow, and I mean barely moving sex is the best. That is the pull a muscle sex (Literally... I have had my calf muscles lock up multiple times). Whats really hot is going at it slowly until you simply cant take it anymore then going as hard as you can go until you cum.

I may have to bust that out a bit later LOL... You've got me thinking naughty thoughts!

Oh and BTW... the plug I am speaking of is reviewed on my page. Unfortunately Eden does not carry the exact plug anymore but they do sell something similar not made by Pipe Dreams. Its cheap and SO worth it! less

We're working on that controlled O thing . The slow approach is my fave. When I'm "working" (so to speak lol) that's the way I'm getting it done. You can feel everything, every groove and vein almost! I like that!! Its kind of my play time. Unless, of course, something raw and uncontrolled has taken over us. Then that's a different game

I will have to see what you are talking about. I ordered an Enjoy so that should arrive in about a week.

Is the feeling much different for you when your wife is wearing a plug? Better...just OK?? less

We're working on that controlled O thing . The slow approach is my fave. When I'm "working" (so to speak lol) that's the way I'm getting it done. You can feel everything, every groove and vein almost! I like that!! Its kind of my play time. Unless, of course, something raw and uncontrolled has taken over us. Then that's a different game

I will have to see what you are talking about. I ordered an Enjoy so that should arrive in about a week.

Is the feeling much different for you when your wife is wearing a plug? Better...just OK?? less

The other thing to keep in mind is if you like anal... If you put that in during round one and keep it in until round two your body will be relaxed enough for you to take the toy out and be able to accept him there also. Your muscles relax and get used to something being there so when you do decide to go that way you aren't having to fight your body to accept him there. Plus that if you start vaginally hes already lubed up from you and the toy should be used with lube so your all ready to go from there. less

The other thing to keep in mind is if you like anal... If you put that in during round one and keep it in until round two your body will be relaxed enough for you to take the toy out and be able to accept him there also. Your muscles relax and get used to something being there so when you do decide to go that way you aren't having to fight your body to accept him there. Plus that if you start vaginally hes already lubed up from you and the toy should be used with lube so your all ready to go from there. less

DP with my wife was a fantasy of mine for a very long time - but 1st had to get her to accept anal sex. After about 6 months of having anal sex regularly she got to the point that I think she likes it more than me!

One thing to enhance anal sex was when we discovered 'shooters'. Although I haven't seen them of EF, you can buy them at various Amazon affiliates. I melt a little coconut oil, fill the syringe and let it re-gel. It works wonders to have the lubricant deeper inside where a penis or dildo would be.

Back to DP - when she was ready to give it a try, I enter her anally, let her adjust to the point that slow thrusting is comfortable, then slip in a small to medium size dildo into her vagina. No harnesses or contraptions.

When I'm thrusting - the dildo will generally move with me.

We've also tried the opposite scenario, however she prefers me in her ass - and that suits me fine! less

DP with my wife was a fantasy of mine for a very long time - but 1st had to get her to accept anal sex. After about 6 months of having anal sex regularly she got to the point that I think she likes it more than me!

One thing to enhance anal sex was when we discovered 'shooters'. Although I haven't seen them of EF, you can buy them at various Amazon affiliates. I melt a little coconut oil, fill the syringe and let it re-gel. It works wonders to have the lubricant deeper inside where a penis or dildo would be.

Back to DP - when she was ready to give it a try, I enter her anally, let her adjust to the point that slow thrusting is comfortable, then slip in a small to medium size dildo into her vagina. No harnesses or contraptions.

When I'm thrusting - the dildo will generally move with me.

We've also tried the opposite scenario, however she prefers me in her ass - and that suits me fine! less

LOL! Just to be clear, I'm not laughing at you Gunsmoke or anyone who uses these. I'm laughing at me. Long story that I wont get into and it probably has nothing to do with what you may be thinking of but I use to play with those as a kid!

Yes, these are very useful. less

I did use them as squirt guns! My mom told me what they were and why they were used but I didn't really put it together. Being in the pharmaceutical field I'd see all sorts of stuff.

I think I even gave a few of my teddy bears at the time shots, in their arms, with them. It's funny to me now because the use has changed from a "toy" to something else entirely. less

I did use them as squirt guns! My mom told me what they were and why they were used but I didn't really put it together. Being in the pharmaceutical field I'd see all sorts of stuff.

I think I even gave a few of my teddy bears at the time shots, in their arms, with them. It's funny to me now because the use has changed from a "toy" to something else entirely. less