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Do you use lube for anal?

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Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by Devz
Yes and I use it alot. just to be safe
Absolutely use lots and lots of lube. We use Wet Original for everything.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
always?
You can NEVER use too much lube. No such thing. Period. That area has ZERO natural lubrication and is very delicate internal membrane. For safety AND for good sensation LOTS of lube...like take the most you plan to use, then double it and add extra!!!!!
06/08/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Every single time.
There have been times when he's not really paying attention, and he's slamming into my vagina, and misses...and slams it into my butt.
I've cried because of it.
09/15/2011
Contributor: PussyPurr PussyPurr
My boss wrote this article where she talks about how a friend was diagnosed with a weakened involuntary sphincter muscle because of years of anal sex without lube. Cringe-inducing, I know!
09/15/2011
Contributor: 783883877299373783 783883877299373783
Couldn't imagine not using lubricant! I always use anal lubricant as well as it is thicker.

The rectum walls are much thinner than the vagina which is designed for penetration. Anal lubricant provides extra cushion.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Always. I can't imagine without it.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyPurr
My boss wrote this article where she talks about how a friend was diagnosed with a weakened involuntary sphincter muscle because of years of anal sex without lube. Cringe-inducing, I know!
Yikes!
09/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I think you are correct on this Gunsmoke. I always heard it was dangerous.
Heck yes. The anus has NO "natural" lubrication. It you want to enjoy it, then it is best not to break it!!!!
09/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Anal without lube, even if it FEELS ok (which it generally does not) can lead to tears that can lead to infection. Doesn't sound like a good time to me.
I am floored there were any responses saying folks do anal without lube. Is that really possible? The few lovers I have had all did anal play and ALL used LOTS of lube. Cannot imagine ANYTHING would be possible without it, even a pinky penetration. OUCH. Get the lube, please. LOTS of it.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
The first time I "tried" anal was when an overzealous boyfriend tried to sneak his dick in my asshole. I swung around and punched him in the stomach.

"Oops! It slipped."

There's a difference between the front ... more
Great story. Glad you set him straight.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
My Man will sometimes hump my ass without lube, but if we are going to get into penetration, yes, always. We like a good, thick lube for anal like Sliquid H2O Ride or Astroglide Anal Shooters.

I think maybe we have to be understanding of the ... more
This is a good attitude to have here. Yes, there are some very NEW to everything folks here, I have noticed that. We should all be kind and educating...but for the most part, I think people were. Just that some are very passionate about this one topic.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Um, yes... are you crazy? yes!

And spit counts in my book, you just need lots of it, maybe more than one person can reasonably produce. Spit is nature's lube. Just make sure it's relatively clean spit i.e. you haven't recently been eating or drinking anything (besides water of course)
09/21/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
most definitely YES!
09/22/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Yes, you HAVE to for anal...no natural lubricant...
10/21/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Definitely! Always!
10/22/2011
Contributor: jj1228 jj1228
Just thinking about anal play with no lube hurts already. I cant think of play without any.
10/22/2011
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm a little shocked by the question. Maybe I' wrong but I think anal sex without lube is dangerous - surely not a risk I would be willing to take.
Agreeing with you. Rectal bleeding = not sexy. I'm surprised there are people who do it without lube! That sounds so painful.
10/22/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I do not use any. I like to use spit. By the time he puts it inside I have enough natural lube to fill a swimming pool. (Ok not really but it makes me flood!) My vagina leaks enough natural lube for me to be good.
10/22/2011
Contributor: jenn g jenn g
Wow of course! Sometimes just my own lubrication though if I'm thick and wet enough.
10/30/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I haven't tried anal too many times, but yes, lube all the way! I don't need it vaginally, but definitely the other side.
02/26/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Always. No way it would happen without, ow!
02/26/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Now that's a silly question !
02/26/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
Anal sex is pretty dangerous without lube. Since the anus doesn't self-lubricate you really NEED to use lube to make it pleasurable and to prevent anal fissures. Anal sex is one of my favorite things in the world but I always make sure to do it right with lots of lube and warm up.
02/28/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Don't always use artificial lube.
02/29/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
always?
yes
03/01/2012
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
If i don't,it hurts.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
yes, every time.
03/01/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
The first time I "tried" anal was when an overzealous boyfriend tried to sneak his dick in my asshole. I swung around and punched him in the stomach.

"Oops! It slipped."

There's a difference between the front ... more
Same thing here! Until I met my current boyfriend (and incredible love (: ) I hadn't wanted to ever try it. Currently rethinking that idea But LUBE all the time.

And I agree with another poster, let's just answer the question with some understanding ok? This is EF after all, the place of ultimate understanding!
03/01/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
OMG yes! Now that I know the difference. I used to use spit and/or vaginal secretions, but lube makes it SO much more comfortable. And it is WAY safer.

As a side note, I also found that using an anal plug helps. We put it in during fore play and it helps the sphincter muscles relax so that anal is SO much easier and pleasurable!
03/01/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
always?
I feel like it would be basically impossible without some kind of lube. Unless you want to be bloody.
03/08/2012