Do you love anal or just do it for your partner?

Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
We haven't tried yet, because he is uncomfortable.
01/14/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I actually had to talk my partner into trying it. He'd spent years hearing his friends make stupid jokes about "buttsex", and it'd made him totally turned off by it. After he tried it twice, he realized how great it is!
01/19/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
I do it for him, I've only enjoyed it once.
02/06/2012
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Love, love, love it!
05/31/2017
Contributor: GirlsJustWannaHaveFun GirlsJustWannaHaveFun
I wish i liked it. Ive certainly tried it on many occasions. But, it definitly hurts more than it pleasures me AND im so self conscious that theres going to be a poo mess that i dont relax enough.

Ive decided that its just not my thing and have removed it from my repertoire.
06/03/2017
Contributor: rj979iu rj979iu
Well, it started for him until I had (the first of many) most mind blowing experience. The anal orgasm has become my friend and now he has commented, “that he’s created a monster, an anal loving monster”!
03/04/2023
Contributor: cumtastic cumtastic
I (female) so it because he likes it. It hurts at first, but i dont mind after it gets going. And I just like being used soooo
03/27/2023
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
My first GF who was also the first person that I was intimate with was terrified of the possibility of getting pregnant. Combining that fear we didn't have easy access to condoms, small town where the clerks at any store that sold condoms would know both sets of parents. We both decided that anal penetrative sex was the right way to go.
Eventually I acquired condoms and we began having conventional intercourse, she still asked me to butt fuck her. So she liked it and I still do too... both giving and receiving.
03/29/2023
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by RonLee
My first GF who was also the first person that I was intimate with was terrified of the possibility of getting pregnant. Combining that fear we didn't have easy access to condoms, small town where the clerks at any store that sold condoms would ... more
My first gf wanted me to put it in her butt also. Then decided it would be too big as she’s never done it before. We were both virgins. She thought it would be safer and also said her parents always did it from behind.
With my wife we did it when she was on her period or when we shower together. Lately though she prefers to peg me. Doesn’t appear I’ll be going in her’s for a while.
04/13/2023
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
I love it, however she’s not into it. So I do it to and for myself any chance I get during my solo time!
05/01/2023
Contributor: BigB BigB
I was going to make a joke about this thread, butt fuck it!
06/28/2023
Contributor: nikywolfe nikywolfe
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Originally posted by daniel and frances
I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
I enjoy anal much more when I'm riding a dildo along with it, adds to the pleasure point. My partner enjoys giving it to me but does not like it reciprocated.
Jan 11, 4:41 pm
Contributor: E&A+1 E&A+1
There's little, if anything, either of us "just does" for the other, as our goal is always mutual enjoyment. I enjoy anal with his cock or a reasonably sized dildo, and I like anal stimulation in other ways, such as plugs, rimming, etc. He also enjoys giving it, and loves it receiving it, so he uses a lot of P-Spot stimulators, dildos and I love to peg him. I do so enjoy double penetration from him and our special friend, or sometimes him and a dildo or double penetration cock ring!

It took a long time for me to get to where I am; my first experience with anal was excruciatingly painful with an abusive and selfish partner. But over time, Apollo has brought out my sexuality in a healthy, safe and consensual manner. He's been amazing and I'm happy to say that anal play has added such a wonderful dimension to our sex life! It's hard to imagine not having it now, to be honest!
Jan 12, 8:43 am
Contributor: Ana go Ana go
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Since anal was always gentle and done well (all gain, no pain...LOTS of lube and slow), I love it. In fact, I honestly can 1. Have orgasm JUST from anal...really. 2. Along with clit play, my orgasms are twice as intense with anal as any normally, and ... more
I agree , use lots of lube, and start slow, I (female) enjoy so much anal with my male parter I wish he could be more into it as I am , I’ve had the best orgasms with anal, but he won’t go there as often as I would like. I highly recommend anal.
Jan 22, 2:06 pm
Contributor: Don007 Don007
Hallo zusammen,

es ist tatsächlich so, das meine Frau total auf Anal steht. Es kam bei uns auch sehr oft vor, dass wir auch Mal nur Anal hatten. Ich finde Anal sehr geil, weil es ist sehr intensiv. Wir praktizieren Anal mittlerweile seit mehr als 10 Jahre.
Sie kommt sehr oft dadurch zum Orgasmus. Und ich finde es ist ein geiles Gefühl wenn sie zum Höhepunkt kommt.
Feb 4, 6:20 am
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Don007
Hallo zusammen,

es ist tatsächlich so, das meine Frau total auf Anal steht. Es kam bei uns auch sehr oft vor, dass wir auch Mal nur Anal hatten. Ich finde Anal sehr geil, weil es ist sehr intensiv. Wir praktizieren Anal mittlerweile seit ... more
Hallo Don007,
Toll, ich freue mich so für dich, dass du eine Frau gefunden hast, die diese besondere Freude teilt! Ich selbst bin bisexuell und habe sowohl mit Männern als auch mit Transgender-Frauen aktive und passive Rollen gespielt.
Und ja, auch ich genieße das Gefühl des Orgasmus meiner Partnerin, während ich in ihrem Loch bin.
Feb 13, 5:19 pm
Contributor: Pleaseher42 Pleaseher42
I’m totally into giving anal. I think it’s beautiful . My girl friend doesn’t want it at all. ??
Feb 14, 6:56 am
Contributor: Pleaseher42 Pleaseher42
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Originally posted by Brianna91
Total Backdoor Betty here. One guy I dated thought I wanted it that way more often than he did.
That’s so sad .
Feb 14, 6:57 am
Contributor: Pleaseher42 Pleaseher42
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Originally posted by Brianna91
Total Backdoor Betty here. One guy I dated thought I wanted it that way more often than he did.
That’s so sad .
Feb 14, 6:59 am
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
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Originally posted by daniel and frances
I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
It's complicated for me. I sort of want to try it, but I'm very self conscious. I shouldn't be since we've been married for a very long time, but I can't seem to bring myself to suggest it due to embarrassment. I did just order a remote control toy with a small anal stimulator attached to it. I thought that might spark the conversation about it after we try it for a little while.
Mar 13, 8:10 pm
Contributor: Sexyasfuck77 Sexyasfuck77
So I have never really tried anal sex. I had a boyfriend once who tried to put it in my ass but he didn't know what he was doing and it hurt so for awhile I just thought I probably wouldn't like it but lately I have been thinking about it a lot! I have an amazing boyfriend now and we just want to do everything together sexually and so we are going to try anal!! I'm a little scared honestly because I'm afraid it will hurt or that I won't like it or it won't work out or something. Any advice from anyone??
Mar 20, 11:31 pm
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
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Originally posted by Sexyasfuck77
So I have never really tried anal sex. I had a boyfriend once who tried to put it in my ass but he didn't know what he was doing and it hurt so for awhile I just thought I probably wouldn't like it but lately I have been thinking about it a ... more
Be sure to use lubricant. Your experience will be enjoyable and fantastic.
Mar 22, 3:24 pm
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
My perspective on anal sex has evolved, particularly with the introduction of temperature play through anal toys. Initially, I was hesitant about anal play, but experimenting with different toys has completely changed my opinion.

I remember my first time using this black rose ...Oh, this was just amazing! What I love most is the contrast it brings, intensifying the experience in an unexpected way though!


For anyone curious about anal play but hesitant to try, I highly recommend exploring toys that incorporate temperature play. They've been a game-changer for me, so mb you'll find them interesting too.

I'd love to hear from others who have experimented with temperature play or have other toy recommendations
Apr 15, 7:43 am
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Pleaseher42
I’m totally into giving anal. I think it’s beautiful . My girl friend doesn’t want it at all. ??
lol. Maybe you can explore pegging. See what it’s like to be on the receiving end. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander
Apr 18, 6:36 pm
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Leil@
My perspective on anal sex has evolved, particularly with the introduction of temperature play through anal toys. Initially, I was hesitant about anal play, but experimenting with different toys has completely changed my opinion.

I remember my ... more
Starting with small anal plugs is one way. I have not tried temperature play with it though. Can you please give some examples
Apr 18, 6:42 pm
Contributor: Zeta Zeta
Something about anal turns me all the way up! Especially when my husband allows me to do the same to him. Mmm...
Jul 12, 5:13 pm
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
My wife hates the idea of anal anything. She never wanted touched their and never wanted to touch me. One night after a shower she walks in naked and still wet and jumps in bed. I told her to get on her hands and knees. I started lick her pussy. Then I just went for it and started eating her ass. She loved it. She hated to admit she loved it but she said it was great. I have since ate her out a few more times and it gets her off every time. I have also lightly penetrated her with my fingers. Hopefully this leads to more play.
Sep 7, 8:35 am
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Zeta
Something about anal turns me all the way up! Especially when my husband allows me to do the same to him. Mmm...
Are you saying you are into pegging? Seems it’s more popular than people think
Sep 20, 5:56 pm
Contributor: Taytyana Taytyana
We've never tried anal before, but I would be open to try it some day in the future with my Hubby, if he ever wanted to. I will say this though I simply LUV it when he kisses & licks my derriere all over! It feels absolutely wonderful! He doe's do a little finger playing on my backdoor when he's going down & licking my waxed smooth kitty which feels great!


Oct 17, 8:01 am
Contributor: Amy Nicole Amy Nicole
Yes, I love anal and I have lots of fun with it. I'm a single guy, but I'm a sissy crossdresser and I play with my things all the time. Dress up and have sex with myself because I'm afraid to let anyone know what I want in my sex life. Maybe it's crazy, but I'm okay with it for now. I do want a guy to have some fun with and I will always be into the women. I love women and I prefer them over all. I just want to wear their clothes and I have so many things for women that I have more female clothing than I have men clothes. I have everything.
I really get down with my toys and I have many to choose from. I'm always buying a new toy to put in my ass because I love it and I love the way I feel when I'm doing my girl thingy. Just like right now, it's Thanksgiving and I'm in a dress and I have some really pretty toes right now because I just finished painting them a beautiful pink. I actually keep them painted because I want pretty toes and wearing panties is a daily thing. I'm putting on everything women under my boy clothes today and going out and doing whatever I have to do. I'm going shopping for shoes in a little while but I'm going with hose on and I will try on my shoes and not care if I get seen with pink toes and hose on trying on some nice heels or girls boots.
So for anal sex, yes I love it and I get amazing pleasure from it. I can slide my toy in and I will cum all over myself just putting it in. I will wear my butt plug all day and I really enjoy it and I do that a lot. I guess you might say that I am a freak and I don't care about that because I am having fun and getting off right in front of my boss and customers that have no idea that I'm wearing girls things under my boy clothes. It's so hot and I can't stop so I embrace it and enjoy it, but I would love to have a friend to enjoy it with me because I am definitely craving for a partner that will embrace my life and fill the void that is there.
Nov 28, 7:22 am