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Do you ever find in the middle of having vaginal sex, you want your guy in your rear instead????

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
I do love vaginal penetration, but this afternoon, while he was pumping away in me, I put my hand down there, grabbed his shaft and stopped him. "What's wrong"? he asked. "Nothing", I said, and moved his penis down to my anal opening and pulled him in. He quickly "got it" and obliged. We were using a "watery" new lube, so my ass was already VERY well lubed, outside and his penis was pretty well lubed too. It slipped in very easily.

Anyway, even during vaginal sex, I just craved anal. I felt "empty" back there,and wanted the more intense stimulation of anal. I guess I could have asked him to put a vibe or plug me, but it was spontaneous and he was already right there.

Any other anal gals ever get that feeling????
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Yes, I have had that feeling of wanting it back there instead
13
Nope...if it is vaginal, that is good with me
18
Other?
Total votes: 31 (31 voters)
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08/13/2012
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08/13/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife confided to me that her biggest fear of anal is that I will prefer it to vaginal. I assured her that would not be the case - but I guess I'm hoping that she learns to like enough that she'll want me to do it. Seems like progress but we;re not there yet.
08/13/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Nope. I find the "threat" of anal intercourse much more enticing than the act. Plus my boyfriend greatly prefers my vagina.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
Yes I have had that feeling
08/13/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Usually it's the other way around
08/13/2012
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
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Originally posted by brevado
Usually it's the other way around
Ditto! I like DP a lot, because if he's in my ass my pussy feels empty, if he's in my pussy I want a toy in my ass.
08/13/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife confided to me that her biggest fear of anal is that I will prefer it to vaginal. I assured her that would not be the case - but I guess I'm hoping that she learns to like enough that she'll want me to do it. Seems like progress but ... more
If that's her biggest fear then I feel confident that you'll get there and maybe soon. If pain, messiness, etc. were foremost in her mind, you'd still have a long road ahead.

My impression from your posts I've run across is that even if you did prefer anal to vaginal she still wouldn't have anything to worry about. It's not as though you're a selfish lover that would only do what pleases you (anal) while ignoring her preference (vaginal).

And who knows, *she* may find that she prefers anal - stranger things have happened!
08/13/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Nope
08/13/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I do love vaginal penetration, but this afternoon, while he was pumping away in me, I put my hand down there, grabbed his shaft and stopped him. "What's wrong"? he asked. "Nothing", I said, and moved his penis down to my anal ... more
Nope...if it is vaginal, that is good with me
08/13/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I've felt that way before, but not on a regular basis.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I do here an there.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I get like this fairly often, only because (if I had to guess) I "feel more" in my ass than I do in my vagina.
08/13/2012
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
On a few occasions.
08/16/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
yes
09/03/2012
Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
Yes i get that feeling at times
11/21/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Yeah
11/25/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
No, I much prefer vaginal intercourse, but having said that, I enjoy a bit of anal/finger stimulation while his penis is in my vagina.
The bottom line (no pun intended!) is that I don't enjoy anal intercourse!
11/25/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I find it happens a bit, and most often in certain positions such as doggy or spooning, where I can feel him rubbing against that area. But for some reason I always crave anal sex the most when my husband goes down on me.
11/25/2012