Dear LGP,
I may not be the best person to advise here - I'm sure our LGBTQ+ contributors would have a more experienced go at your answer - but I believe that nothing can "make" you other than what you already are. No amount of anal play will ever turn a straight man into a gay man. It can be possible that you are only just discovering and facing these feelings now although you've had them for a long time - maybe you're just curious, maybe there's more to it. I encourage you to investigate those feelings, listen to yourself, talk to your partner. I'm sure some great advice will appear here, as well.

Best of luck!

I believe you are right I never realized anal sex could be so enjoyable I love it it's the best sex I ever had but I often wonder what the real thing would feel like even though I do not find men attractive or am I attracted to them I just got all these Curiosities on what a real dick would feel like in my ass

Thank you for the good advice I guess I have always been a good looking cute man I have had women tell me that ever since I was a teenager I am a service man so I go to many different houses I have had many women hit on me along with many men also I want to one house in Detroit a very wealthy black man's house him and three of his gay buddies were there in the four of them are trying to talk me into staying and partying with them I know what they wanted I told them no in a real nice way but I always wonder what would have happened if I would have stayed I even fantasize about it sometimes

Well, that's just like PolyGirl said - you may have different fantasies, some of them may even seem a bit "weird", but it's absolutely ok.

For example, one of my fantasies include gettin' sexy with more than one partner, but, due to many reasons, I would never act on that fantasy. It doesn't mean I will ever quit fantasizing about it

On the other hand, you may go even further than splitting your sex life into fantasy vs reality. You can have things that would remain fantasies forever, some things you tried once and won't go back to them, and then other things that become part of your erotic menu forever.

Experiencing SEXperiences is fun

You're right I think you like it better as a fantasy I never thought anal sex could be so enjoyable honestly it is the best sex that I have ever had I wish you girls could experience a prostate orgasm but I will never quit wondering what the real thing feels like especially since I had a chance to sleep with those four guys think about it everyday

Very hot story! I feel like I’m in a similar place now that you were then! I’ve been really into getting pegged and love getting penetrated or riding dildos, also keep working my way up in larger dildos. I also have many realistic/phallic dildos that I sometimes am more into than non-realistic dildos. I think it’s different for everyone, some men may only like non-phallic ones if they are purely into the penetration pleasure and not into the appearance of penises. I think some of the previous posters explained it exactly, the sensation itself doesn’t make you bi or gay unless you are also sexually and/or romantically interested in men. However, if you may have underlying bicurious feelings, having some good pegging or penetration may certainly awaken that within you!

I find myself aroused and into the look of penises themselves oftentimes, although I do not generally consider myself attracted to the rest of the male body. Very excited by and interested in trying a real one sometime both taking it and sucking it! Wife is fully supportive of me doing this at some point (and also has her own bicuriosity she would like to explore). We have just not been fully ready to dive into it quite yet. I don’t consider myself romantically interested in men at all, just the sexual interest.

As a result of my gay hook-ups I too have come to be aroused by, and appreciate the beauty of, the penis while also not really being attracted to or aroused by the rest of the male body! I have an online friend that I send pics and videos of my "peggings" to while he sends me pics of his penis. His penis, which has to be about 8 inches, is one of the most beautiful penises I've ever seen. It is so perfect that it could be the model for a realistic dildo! I drool at the thought of taking his beautiful cock in my mouth and butt!

That sounds so enticing!! Here’s to hoping you and him get to meet up sometime to make it a reality!

Thanks! I'd certainly love that!

Agreed...that is a hot story from assman1953 and is totally like some fantasy I've thought about when in the moment . So I'm a straight, married guy and I love anal play...I'm obsessed. Just the thought of sliding something into my ass makes me crazy horny. I've been this way for as long as I can remember, so I don't think increased anal play will turn you gay, if it feels good, freaking go for it. Personally, there's nothing better than plugging up when masturbating, it takes things to a complete whole another level. For the longest time I've used several different plugs with the standard plug design, with an ever increasing desire to go bigger and wider (I'm hoping to get up to 2.0" soon). However, lately, I've been more and more curious and wanting to try a realistic dildo, especially something hands-free for some in-n-out fun. I've become more and more curious as to what something "realistic" would feel like going in and what it'd even be like sucking on.

I too am not attracted to the male body and don't even care to see their faces when watching porn. Just show the cock and everything on the girl. Yet it’s not something that I think abou on the day-to-day, but there are a lot times when I'm in that super horny "moment" edging and that clean shaven, glistening wet, swollen headed cock that some girl is sucking on gets me hornier and thinking..."I’d kinda like to suck on that..." or "I'd like to back up and bounce on that...". There's times during those edging moments I've fantasized about being in the center of a blow-bang and getting air tight and even have a few favorite t-girl models. Call that bi-curious, gay or whatever; I'll call it straight-curious and just wouldn't mind getting on some real cock during those “moments”…sucking and fucking .