why do the beads feel better?? ive gave these some thought aswell but theyre really long..

thank you so much. this is the first time that im hearing thing. and now im even more curious...ima have to try one. bottie looks fun. thank you!

Beads not only are often graduated in size (usually the smaller ones go in first and as the bead cord goes in the beads get larger and the fullness increases) but the act of pulling the beads OUT is amazing! When the beads are made properly (like good silicone beads) they "pop" as each bead exits the anus.

If you can time it with orgasm, the feeling is incredible. Even if you don't do that, the popping on the way out is fun!

Also, anal sex, with a toy in the vagina (known as one form of Double Penetration) using a phallic vibrator or dildo, not a butt plug) is a really cool, fully full feeling. Many women learn to have anal sex, while using a toy in the vagina, as the feeling of vaginal penetration is familiar and makes anal penetration at the same time more pleasurable and fun! Also, the DP can push the toy into the G spot for some fantastic sensations. Other women like a plug in back while PIV sex is going on. It can reduce the width feeling of the vagina for both partners, and can help one feel the G spot.

I am not one to wear butt plugs for long periods of time. (Some people like them for long term day wear, and that works well for them. ) I only use them during sex play. Every one decides what feels best for them. There are no hard and fast rules; except always be ready, use a LOT of lube, don't numb the anus in any way, don't put ANYTHING that has been in the anus into the vagina, unless it's been washed if it's nonporus, and NEVER if it's a porous toy, and STOP if it hurts.

At the moment, My Man has been pleasuring and tormenting me with the X- 10 Silicone Beads and the Plug of Lust as well as playing a little with the Bubble Butt Ripply.

I'd really like to get a Love Pacifier Butt Plug and the Bubbles bead stick.

thnxx

Ditto. (With my gf, not your wife.)

LOL

does sixe matter or placement?

In the anal realm, I believe size matters more, but not the same way as it would apply for vaginal. Personally I prefer penetration over girth, but there's others who are the other way around. And some others still who like it tiny and teasing, they don't want to be opened up or penetrated.

As for placement, you don't have much for choices.

Both!
Butt plugs come in a ton of different shapes (which decide which areas get stimulated), and size definitely makes a difference (because you need to get something you can fit into your butt, but actually feel full with it in there).

Butt plugs are typically cone-shaped objects that are tapered to a wide bulge with a narrow neck and a base at the end. This is what separates a dildo from a butt plug in the sense that dildos are meant for in-and-out play and a butt plug simply slides in past the bulge until the sphincter rests around the neck. Then it just sits there and plugs the butt.
While a simply task-oriented sex toy might seem unexciting, the magic occurs from the sensation of fullness resulting from having your ass stuffed. There are many nerve endings down there, making the region an erogenous zone.
They're great for enhancing sexual activity and/or as a warm-up for a strap-on or other intensive anal play.
And while they are used in a taboo part of the body, butt plugs aren't shy about extended wearing, in and out of public. For many into BDSM, a butt plug is a wonderful tool. I am enslaved to my fiancée/Mistress and am required to be plugged for several hours every single day. It helps focus me and reinforce my status in our relationship and remind me of who's in charge (in addition to the fact that being plugged feels awesome!).

I didnt use it for more pleasure I used it in different sizes to help me enjoy anal

I would start small and get bigger the more you get used to it

exactly