Bigger penis = better anal orgasm?

Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
I've always been fascinated with anal sex. By the time I began masturbating it was always anal sex porn that made me the horniest. When I finally got a vibrator I immediately started experimenting with anal insertion and found it gave me the better orgasm. I do enjoy regular vaginal sex although I've never once had a orgasm from vag penetration as where I've gotten there nearly every time with butt sex. And to be honest losing my anal virginity was much more of a thrill than the boy I lost my standard virginity to. Up until recently I'd only done it with three different partners, the one who had the biggest thingy out of them being the guy I enjoyed it with most. I thought it maybe had more to do with his stamina since compared with the other two he was able to last a very long time and vary his pumping intensity to get me off best.

I haven't been with anyone since around thanksgiving and recently while my friend and I we were on our way to a party she told me she wants to introduce me to this guy she knew from another school she used to go to. She was sort of joking half serious since she had a friend who dated him and knew he has an enormous size penis and it had been known among them he was always looking for a girl who wanted to anal with him, and girls wouldn't go there because of his size. One thing lead to another and I admit had I not had a few drinks I probably would not have been so go.for.it! To say he is well hung is an understatement. Even softy he's about as big around as a plastic pop bottle. And I'm just a little over 5 ft and have a petite rear end. Yea I know, I didn't think he could even fit in in my butt. I guess I should add too he is my first black guy and that would never fly with my family. It's ok though since we are just friends with bennies so I don't have to worry about a confrontation with my parents.

That night at the party we started flirting, you can't imagine the thrill I got once he knew where I wanted him to put it. We did it standing doggy while I leaned over a chair with my jeans pulled down. I figured my anus could at least take the head, and that like most guys who've never pumped a girls butt before he wouldn't last very long. To my surprise the deeper he pushed in the pressure of my muscles down there had my juices flowing like a river. It felt so good! I knew a massive orgasm was building but as expected he was way ahead of me. I took him in my mouth then - not something I always do - but really wanted this experience to be memorable for us both. Luckily he recovered quick and our 2nd time he was able to get all of it in me, fully in and out long strokes after I loosened up, and I finally got not one but two of the most intense orgasms ever. Our mutual friend was very pleased she was able to make a "butt sex connection" for us, ha ha.

Since then I've been getting it from him weekly for over a month. The only adverse effect is some mild constipation the following day. That and now this other guy I've sort of liked a while has finally asked me out, so I'll have to make a difficult choice one way or the other soon. Something tells me lightning is about to strike twice so close, if you know what I mean.

I'm curious if anyone else has experienced this - an extra large penis being better for anal sex? - since conventional thinking seems to be the opposite.
04/23/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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04/23/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Whatever you like - if you prefer larger toys - maybe a large penis is the ticket for you. Personally I'm pretty average and my wife likes larger toys (vaginally) - but she still finds that there are advantages to a penis that an inanimate toy cannot replicate.

Hope you find what you're looking for.
04/23/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
bigger doesnt always mean better orgasm really because often its about what yall do
04/23/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
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Originally posted by cobiffle
bigger doesnt always mean better orgasm really because often its about what yall do
I agree. It's just something I recently have considered given my situation. Maybe I am just lucky that the two extra-size guys I've done anal with, the last one fairly big, the current one ridiculously big, have much more going on with it other than just a larger width and length that feels really good in my bottom. As for sex toys, I've never tried anything other than my vibrator and it feels good but isn't very big around.
04/25/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
I love bigger toys in my ass.
05/27/2011
Contributor: spiced spiced
I've found there's a 'just right' size that does it for me and anything bigger or smaller isn't going to work as well. For me, that's from about 1 5/8" to just under 2" in girth.

In my experience bigger is not better when it comes to penises. It has a lot more to do with the guy on the other end of it.
12/20/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
I'm a guy, and I've never had an actual cock in me, because although I like the idea of having one besides my own to play with, I'm just not attracted to men themselves... but I have a few toys; a plug, one 9 inch dildo, a 7 incher, and a prostate vibe.
When it comes to porn, I just can't stay interested/hard unless the guy's cock is at LEAST the size of my own (7 1/2), but the bigger and more textured it is, the more excited I get, which of course gets me off harder and faster. Because of that, I boldly started out with the 9 incher for my first anal toy. I loved the fact that I had something that big in my ass, and cumming while it was inside was a new sensation for me.
At one point though, I bought these energy drink things from walmart simply because the bottles were shaped like potions that you'd see in role playing games and I'm such a nerd for stuff like that. As an added bonus, it was about 7 inches long and the shape also happened to resemble a basic vibrator. It was pretty thin, but I got really horny and thought I'd try it out, to at least loosen things up for the 9 inch. But after only a minute or so of playing with it I fell in love with the size. Because it was short and thin, I could manipulate it more easily and hit all the right spots at the right angles. Of course this led to me getting a realistic 7 inch dildo.

It's hard to say for me, honestly. I like smaller toys for the precision, but the bigger toys give you that "filled" sensation, and I can almost get off just on that! My orgasms vary with the size and type of toy that I use. If I'm using my big guy or my rather girthy plug, I cum insane amounts and the orgasm lasts longer, but it doesn't feel that intense... about the same as orgasm w/o toy. With the smaller toys I can focus more on stimulating my prostate in a more precise way which feels great on it's own, and the orgasms end up feeling much better, but I cum less and for a shorter time. So in my opinion, big can be really fun and intense, but smaller is better I think.
It varies by person too, of course. One of my exes said that my dick was much too large for anal in her opinion, and I'm a decent size, but not HUGE.
Anyways, that's all, this is too long already, lol.
12/24/2012