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Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
Looking for a long lasting anal lube that is NOT desensitizing. What we have now has an added “tingle” ingredient, but it numbs my husband and he’s unable to cum in my ass. What is everyone here using that works?
12/21/2017
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We just use coconut oil - it's very effective and inexpensive. Reapplication is generally required - but that's true for most lubes for anal sex because the tight sphincter muscles - wipe away the lube.

Initially the skin will absorb the oil - but once the skin can't absorb anymore - the lubrication effect is great. We make sure this has happened before penetration.

Best of luck.
12/21/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by AlaskanBeauty
Looking for a long lasting anal lube that is NOT desensitizing. What we have now has an added “tingle” ingredient, but it numbs my husband and he’s unable to cum in my ass. What is everyone here using that works?
Slippery Stuff Gel in a pump bottle. Thick, you may need to spread it. Or a few pumps directly on the anus. Good for his ass also. Have you ever thought of doing him in return? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. In this case better.
12/21/2017
Contributor: Bottemsup73 Bottemsup73
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Originally posted by AlaskanBeauty
Looking for a long lasting anal lube that is NOT desensitizing. What we have now has an added “tingle” ingredient, but it numbs my husband and he’s unable to cum in my ass. What is everyone here using that works?
Coconut oil as long as you are not using latex condoms.

It's clean and natural. Won't hurt anything in there. Bonus: it great for the skin. We have anal with it so often that my husband's penis feels like silk! ??
03/15/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Bottemsup73
Coconut oil as long as you are not using latex condoms.

It's clean and natural. Won't hurt anything in there. Bonus: it great for the skin. We have anal with it so often that my husband's penis feels like silk! ??
I don't know that my cock feels like silk - but we go through about 3 lbs of coconut oil in about 6 months (mostly for anal sex for both of us)!

If we used conventional lube, I'd go bankrupt!
03/30/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I don't know that my cock feels like silk - but we go through about 3 lbs of coconut oil in about 6 months (mostly for anal sex for both of us)!

If we used conventional lube, I'd go bankrupt!
We took your advice on coconut oil. Fantastic! Yes very cost effective. I got one of those that stay liquid. The type uses for massages. I pour it into a skinny jar then dip the dildo in to coat it a few inches.
03/31/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
We took your advice on coconut oil. Fantastic! Yes very cost effective. I got one of those that stay liquid. The type uses for massages. I pour it into a skinny jar then dip the dildo in to coat it a few inches.
Glad it works for you.

The MCT (medium chain trigliceride) coconut oils that are liquid at room temperature have also become a go-to health food!

People add to their coffee and protein shakes!
04/03/2019
Contributor: Asus013 Asus013
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Originally posted by Bottemsup73
Coconut oil as long as you are not using latex condoms.

It's clean and natural. Won't hurt anything in there. Bonus: it great for the skin. We have anal with it so often that my husband's penis feels like silk! ??
Not good for latex condoms?? I did not know that!
04/11/2019
Contributor: She’s Curvy She’s Curvy
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Originally posted by AlaskanBeauty
Looking for a long lasting anal lube that is NOT desensitizing. What we have now has an added “tingle” ingredient, but it numbs my husband and he’s unable to cum in my ass. What is everyone here using that works?
We have used coconut oil for years. It is safe, natural and very slippery. It’s the greatest if you aren’t using a condom.
11/23/2019