My husband has this deep desire to try anal play and I have heard a ton of really good things about it, but I am very skeptical to try it. We tried it when we were a lot younger and didn't make it very far... We were young and dumb and to be frank, didn't know what we were doing. It hurt a lot and has had an impact on my ideas of anal ever since.
Anyway, now... I think I'm ready to try it. I read a thing on here (Eden) that suggested starting with some solo play first and when you are comfortable add your partner in. So, I have a few questions. First, I think I want to start off with beads, they seem the least intimidating. I know that I want silicone, but the different shapes are a bit scary looking. Which would you say is the best for beginners: Coco Licious Play Beads, Eden Silky Smooth Silicone Beads, or [https://www.edenfantasys.com/anal-toys/anal-beads/heart-silicone-anal-beads|Heart Silicone Anal Beads? My next question is, what would be the next step up from beads- plugs? What is a small beginner sized plug that you would suggest? I'm thinking something cute (to appeal to my girliness) and with some give? And of course silicone! And my final question: would maximum lube work for anal play for a beginner? I don't wanna buy more lube. I have quiet the collection as is. I lied! This is my last question: are there any educational books or videos you would suggest to a beginner to help along their journey? Thanks in advance!!
Anyway, now... I think I'm ready to try it. I read a thing on here (Eden) that suggested starting with some solo play first and when you are comfortable add your partner in. So, I have a few questions. First, I think I want to start off with beads, they seem the least intimidating. I know that I want silicone, but the different shapes are a bit scary looking. Which would you say is the best for beginners: Coco Licious Play Beads, Eden Silky Smooth Silicone Beads, or [https://www.edenfantasys.com/anal-toys/anal-beads/heart-silicone-anal-beads|Heart Silicone Anal Beads? My next question is, what would be the next step up from beads- plugs? What is a small beginner sized plug that you would suggest? I'm thinking something cute (to appeal to my girliness) and with some give? And of course silicone! And my final question: would maximum lube work for anal play for a beginner? I don't wanna buy more lube. I have quiet the collection as is. I lied! This is my last question: are there any educational books or videos you would suggest to a beginner to help along their journey? Thanks in advance!!