Anal to Vaginal Transitions

Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
Hello!
Boyfriend and I FINALLY were able to have anal sex, after a bit I was super turned on and just wanted a good old fashioned vag pounding. I know you're supposed to clean up between the two, so I grabbed a charmin wet wipe thing and had bf wipe down really well before entering me vaginally. Now I'm wondering if even this was enough - I know only time will tell but can anyone ease my mind until then? Does anyone else use this method for anal to vag sex?
05/01/2013
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05/01/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I wouldn't trust it. Have him use a dildo in back next time or wear a condom for easy transition.

He could also wear a double harness and penetrate you in both places at once.

You just gotta find something more reliable than a wipe.
05/01/2013
Contributor: DolphinGirl DolphinGirl
If you do go anal to vaginal, I'd use a condom. You are potentially exposing yourself to vaginal infections and UTIs.
05/01/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by StarrStacked
Hello!
Boyfriend and I FINALLY were able to have anal sex, after a bit I was super turned on and just wanted a good old fashioned vag pounding. I know you're supposed to clean up between the two, so I grabbed a charmin wet wipe thing and had ... more
A wet wipe was all you used? I would not do that because I just have my doubts that it'd do a very good job of cleaning. I would definitely take the extra time to clean up between the two because it's just not worth it to transfer bacteria (and poop!) into your vagina and end up with an infection.

I'm going to say it's not enough. Doesn't mean you'll get an infection or anything, but I would be more careful to do a real cleaning up next time & I'd even go ahead and clean things now, even after the fact. Best to try and remove anything that's still . . . removable... Maybe I'm just a clean freak though, but you really can get some nasty issues from doing anal then vaginal if you aren't careful. My partner and I don't have anal sex, so I can't speak from experience here. However, I have cleaned myself downstairs & would say it might be a good idea (might not be a good idea for you, but this is something I've done when necessary) to give everything a good cleaning (preferrably with a natural soap!) down there and maybe even try and splash a little clean water inside the vagina, then release it. I've done this when my partner comes & it keeps leaking out afterward. I'll just kind of rinse it out with clean water. When I push the water inside, then push it back out, the come seems to come out along with it. It's not douching though. I do not recommend that either! Douching is infection-city. But super clean water entering the vagina is something I do when I feel I need to rinse things out. I just do it with a medicine dropper or in the tub. No forceful squirting inside & if you're pregnant don't do it at all.


I'm a freak about butt germs, so maybe it's just me, but I would definitely not let him do that again without either using a condom if he wants to do anal or a real good cleaning after the anal and before the vaginal penetration. Tell him the risks involved & he will care enough to stop and clean things first.
05/01/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
Better off using a condom for both.
05/01/2013
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Everyone's being over reactive to the matter. Give yourself a good enema first and just clean yourself out. Believe me, sex after an enema is amazing because you can relax and not give a thought to any poop. Anal to vaginal gets done all the time. Yes, there's a possability of a UT infection, but you can also get a UT infection from just straight vaginal sex alone. That's why doctors recomend women pee imediatly after sex. I've done anal to vaginal with all my past lovers with no ill effect. You just have to use your head. I've heard it advised by doctors many times that just soap and water alone is good enough to clean toys after anal use (Dr. Sue Johansen is one of them) so your fine with the baby wipes. After all, anyone who's had kids knows just how amazingly good those really are in cleaning up poop. I have two daughters and I trust baby whipes alone to clean the poop directly off their vulvas when they have really bad poops. In fact 99.99% of all parents trust baby wipes to be sufficient enough in cleaning poop so much that you'll never see a parent breaking out the clorox and anti-biotics after a diaper change to sterilize their baby. If you can't trust it to do a good enough cleaning job for something you're not even putting in your mouth, then millions of babies around the globe are in immediate danger. Holy hell, my little girls would be dead by now with the amount of poop they've had make it to their cooches.
05/01/2013
Contributor: MrsandMrbunnysoffun MrsandMrbunnysoffun
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Everyone's being over reactive to the matter. Give yourself a good enema first and just clean yourself out. Believe me, sex after an enema is amazing because you can relax and not give a thought to any poop. Anal to vaginal gets done all the ... more
Hunny, a wet wipe is not near enough. And yes, though an enema helps a lot, It really does not do the job either. We women have very delicate parts, and lots of folds to keep bacteria in these very delicate parts. Even when there is an enema done, unless you are used to getting them.. there is still water with fecal matter (pooop) inside and will still be nearly as bad.
05/02/2013
Contributor: Jennifer87 Jennifer87
I would say next time even if your are begging for vaginal he should take the time and use soap and water for a good cleaning or use a condom anally like these other replies say...
05/13/2013
Contributor: DolphinGirl DolphinGirl
I'd say wear a condom either during anal or vaginal. You don't want to get a nasty infection because of bacteria.
05/13/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Yeah, I suggest the condom comment for the anal to vaginal transitions.
05/13/2013