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Contributor: Skelis Skelis
so just wondering if there were any good tips or tricks to anal sex? my girlfriend and i recently started having anal sex, and the first time she loved it. weve tried multiple times after but havent gotten as far, saying it hurts to much or is unconfortable. i was wondering if there was a way on making it more enjoyable on her end? any replies would be appriciated. thanks in advance
10/04/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Take plenty of time fore foreplay (both on the front and back, but don't share toys/fingers without a wash), use plenty of lube that neither of you are sensitive to, and make sure she's completely relaxed and turned on and comfortable with the idea.

Play around with different positions, perhaps try toys on her ciit/vagina/G-spot (but be careful, as stimulation can often cause a person to tighten their anus)

Since you have developed a bad history (multiple times with her saying it hurts/is uncomfortable) you should probably go back to square one so she can rediscover the pleasure without the risk of pain. Start with external stimulation, a finger, then small toys. Work back up to "full" penis-anal sex.
10/04/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Since you have developed a bad history (multiple times with her saying it hurts/is uncomfortable) you should probably go back to square one so she can rediscover the pleasure without the risk of pain. Start with external stimulation, a finger, then small toys. Work back up to "full" penis-anal sex.

Exactly. She will now be anticipating it to be uncomfortable.

A good trick to remember is too much lube is usually just enough with anal. Take your time and enjoy
10/04/2010
Contributor: shankinbro shankinbro
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Originally posted by Skelis
so just wondering if there were any good tips or tricks to anal sex? my girlfriend and i recently started having anal sex, and the first time she loved it. weve tried multiple times after but havent gotten as far, saying it hurts to much or is ... more
My advice would be to stop trying to have anal intercourse, and just try to accompany anal stimulation into mutual masturbation (both parties! dont think you can sneak out of this!).

Do that for a while, until she gets used to pleasure accompanied by the feeling of anal stimulation. Hopefully she'll get better at relaxing her sphincter too.
10/16/2010