Is anal sex more pleasurable fast or slow?

Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
I do enjoy anal penetration, but if done too rough it can be way too intense - not painful - but too much to handle. Do you guys think it should me done slow and passionate or the opposite - rough and hard?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Slow
~LaUr3n~ , aliceinthehole , Coralbell , Ghost , Peggi , poetprincess , Jon S , *HisMrs* , Bignuf , namelesschaos , null , LAndJ , Clandestine , RonLee , The Curious Couple , Cherrylane , Paladin Fantasys , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , DeliciousSurprise , jedent
20  (69%)
Fast
Istanbull , Shellz31 , Rainbow Boy
3  (10%)
Neutral? Lol
Lucidity , Gunsmoke , Rossie , aimtoplease , HeartBelongsToDaddy , Ninja Bunny
6  (21%)
Total votes: 29
Poll is closed
11/16/2011
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11/16/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I like a speed in between slow and fast. I would say at a medium speed, with some fast and some slow.
11/16/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Totally slow for me. Don't POUND my ass, please.
11/16/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Definitely slow to start with. No matter what you're putting up there it takes time for things to relax and line up. One you're relaxed and everything's opened up and straightened out fast can be fun, but so can more slow.
11/16/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I do enjoy anal penetration, but if done too rough it can be way too intense - not painful - but too much to handle. Do you guys think it should me done slow and passionate or the opposite - rough and hard?
It sometimes depends on your tolerance of it and the size of your guy, I was once with a guy who was not very big at all but totally awesome in bed. so he loved to go hard and fast..
11/17/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I like it slow to start and a little faster - call it moderate after I acclimate.
11/17/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I always get it slow since I am doing it myself with a dildo, and it's hard to go fast and not get tired arms LOL. One time I tried a machine and the fast, ass-pounding I got was just what you described "Intense". I got rid of the machine the next day because I loved it so much I knew I could never go back to slow as long as I had it and being reamed like that every time would cause my ass to fall out after a few months. But even now I long to have that experiance again.

I find that the line of "I just can't take it anymore, it's just too much pleasure and stimulation to take." is something you have to allow yourself to be forced past at least once in your life. I wouldn't be suprised if you have already done this but I would suggest you let him completely tie you up and after getting your bum warmed up, pound you relentlessly no matter how much you beg him to stop to give you a rest. That wall that is making you want to stop could be the best, most intense, orgasm in your life.
11/19/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Always start slow, at the very least after that maybe fast but usually still slow.
11/19/2011
Contributor: null null
I prefer slow, but hard. Fast is just uncomfortable, weird at best.
11/19/2011
Contributor: Clandestine Clandestine
I'll agree with the majority here. Rushing things is never a good idea, especially back there. Taking things slowly allows one to enjoy the associated sensations properly.
11/20/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Definitely slow at first, but once im relaxed some speed us great too so I voted neutral, lol
11/20/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I like the faster pace - slow or no movement at all does nothing for me.
But then, I love all sexual acts of that kind - hard and fast!
11/21/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We definitely prefer a slower pace when it comes to anal play.
11/21/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Slowish to medium and steady. Deep and strong.
11/22/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
Rough and fast for me. I like getting pounded hard. I'm actually surprised I'm in the minority. Of course, when you're first starting, it has to be done slowly.
11/22/2011
Contributor: Raizer911 Raizer911
Can't vote but I would much prefer to give fast.
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