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Contributor: potstickers potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, anonymous poll voters!

If it varies, feel free to pick more than one.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Every day!
8
A few times a week.
19
Once a week or so.
25
Once every two or three weeks.
28
Once a month.
4
Less frequently than once a month.
35
Never.
22
Total votes: 141 (130 voters)
Poll is closed
02/17/2011
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Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
I would say not everyday for me but it is nice to mix in every once in a while! Although it takes a little warming up for sure!
02/18/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
I am in a distance relationship so my preferred answer is...not enough
02/18/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
almost everyday
02/18/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
If we're talking about her being on the receiving end, I'd say never. For me, it's much more frequent.
02/19/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
About once a week.
02/19/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8
I would've thought that anal sex would be more common on a site that sold anal toys.
02/20/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
A little over once a month. I tend to drive that bus so when I want it, we go there.
02/20/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
I love it! We both need the time and space to do it in order to be comfortable and clean lol And most often, I am the one to initiate it. It's one of those choices on the menu that I sometimes crave
02/20/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
Not often at all
03/02/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Pretty often. At least once or twice a week.
03/02/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
Never. I would be interested in trying, but my wife isn't. I don't think it is ever going to happen.
03/02/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Haven't tried it yet.
03/03/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
My boyfriend and I don't do it very often. He's just too big for me at this point. I'm gradually buying larger toys to get more warmed up to it so it's more comfortable, but we haven't done it in a long time.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
A few times per week. Although had it plenty and then some over the past several days since over the weekend my guy took me to some shops and bought me a few super sized toys - you see he is very endowed, and it has only been since our relationship began several weeks ago, based just around anal sex really, (yea i know I'm weird that I've come to the conclusion that even though I'm on the short and small side a really big size for anal sex gives me ever crazier Oh's than usual. And so we picked out some extra big toys that even make my guy look small next to them and presented my rear end with quite a challenge!!! Very fun and intense anal sex weekend but definitely tender and won't be going there again until later this weekend.
05/02/2011
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
It's been a little while, and I am thinking about the best way to bring it up with my wife soon. She has not been turned on by it in the past, but sometimes we play for some added stimulation. Haven't fully indulged for some time.
05/02/2011
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
Quote:
Originally posted by EastCoast36
It's been a little while, and I am thinking about the best way to bring it up with my wife soon. She has not been turned on by it in the past, but sometimes we play for some added stimulation. Haven't fully indulged for some time.
Opened up discussion last night and brought up the topic. Fail! Guess I need to change my vote to 'Never.'
05/03/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
We do every couple of weeks. Since I have to be warmed up and we have children we limit it to when we really have time for eachother. Although if it was solely up to him it would be everyday
05/03/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
We usually have anal once every few weeks. It varies on his mood. Sometimes he likes it more often.
05/03/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
I think it'd be more often if we lived together.
05/03/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
My partner and I NEVER have anal sex. He hates the idea of his pecker in my bum... and truthfully, from the size of it, I do too! He's got something too big to be in there! We do use anal toys on occasion. I really like to use them during solo, but I encourage him to do so as well. And during intercourse, to make things feel even better for him. We have a glass butt plug that he is really fond of made by icicles I believe. Unfortunately I dropped it and knicked it pretty badly against the tile, so I'm online looking for a new one at the moment.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Mary-Anne-Xun Mary-Anne-Xun
Every week.
05/03/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
It varies a lot. There are some times when we're really into it and do it multiple times in a week, but then we might not do it again for a month. It depends on how comfortable my body is feeling, sometimes bums just need a break for a while
05/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
How often do you and your partner engage in anal sex?

Since most people would be more comfortable voting if I made my previous thread into an anonymous poll, I thought I could get a better idea if I did that instead of a discussion. Vote away, ... more
We have relations at least once a week, and this is just one more of many activities that comes up, depending on who is in what mood. No set timetable for any activity. Sometimes it is just three oral sessions on a weekend. Sometimes I am in the mood to have him in my tushy from Friday night to Sunday night, as much as he can visit!!! Whatever strikes us as fun.
06/03/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet seduction
almost everyday
Seriously? My hubby and I love anal, but if we do it more then two or three times in a weekend, I would get sore (and we use LOTS of lube and he is gentle). I have to thus ask....1. How old..or young are you? I am wondering if this is just an age thing where your body is more able to "recover" then my 48 year old rosebud and 2. are you speaking real penetration? What lube do you use?? Please share that crucial info. THANKS, and ENJOY.
06/03/2011
Contributor: rachaelxfaith rachaelxfaith
I have tried before, but every time it hurts like hell, despite going slow with tons of lube. Guess it's just not meant to be.
06/30/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
we just started, but my wife only want to do it once or month or so. Keep it exciting and special
06/30/2011
Contributor: CharlieBrown CharlieBrown
About once every two weeks works fine for us.
07/02/2011
Contributor: M.H1 M.H1
we have anal about 3 times a week.
07/06/2011