So I really like anal sex with my partner. We have been very consistent with it for over a year. The last few times though I have had a lot of blood as soon as we finish. We are both tested (clean) and monogamous so I know it’s not any std or Sti, but I have had a history of cervical and uterine cancer the past two years. I’m getting quarterly scans and everything comes back as normal. Along with having anal for a year without issues prior to the last few episodes should I be worried? Is this somewhat normal? I don’t want to freak out about it but the site of blood and the abnormality of the issue is making me freak out.
Before we got together he never experienced anal. Now I think that’s all he is attracted to. I’m scared if I say I’m having issues with it, it may slow our sexual relationship, not that he has ever given me any indication of the such, but I just have an underlying feeling. Not sure how to approach this. I’m sure this will be forever before someone responds, but not sure where else to ask questions like this.
Before we got together he never experienced anal. Now I think that’s all he is attracted to. I’m scared if I say I’m having issues with it, it may slow our sexual relationship, not that he has ever given me any indication of the such, but I just have an underlying feeling. Not sure how to approach this. I’m sure this will be forever before someone responds, but not sure where else to ask questions like this.