My wife and I love doing anal on both her and myself. We have been moving up in toy sizes over the last year and are now getting to the really big ones. In order to get the big ones, we started trying to fist each other. I stretch much easier than she does and she is now able to get to her wrist with a good warm up and slow stretching. Once we get to this point, she pulls out and notices a trace amount of blood. We immediately stop and take upwards of 2-3 weeks off while constantly monitoring any negative changes. I never see blood after a bowel movement, even right after, and there has never been any more bleeding after the fact. This has happened with both her hand and the large dildo (not at the same time.) We use tons of lube, she files her nails down to nubs... still a bit of blood and it is getting frustrating! The stretching is a little bit of pain, but the good pain. I’d also like to add that the bleeding only happens when we go for the big stretching. She can go very hard with a moderate sized strap on and I don’t bleed at all. How are people able to stretch so wide without bleeding at all? Does anyone have any tips to prevent this from happening? Thank you! less