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Wildest Anal Sex Experience?
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Does using anal toys hurt?
Ive never had Anal sex before or played with Anal toys and i was wondering if they hurt??

Tips for a first timer?
My boyfriend and I are curious about anal sex, neither of us have ever experimented with it and are both wondering if there are any precautions we...

Can women have anal orgasms?
A friend of mine mentioned she had the most incredible anal orgasm. Yes I enjoy anal sex but I haven't orgasmed from it alone. Is it something I am...

I'm fairly new to this, but...
I've had anal sex before and as much as it hurt at first, I really would like to get more comfortable with it. What do you do to relax?

I enjoy anal play and my wife is warming up to the idea - if done properly, slowly with plenty of lube - it feels wonderful.

I agree with gunsmoke, if it is done properly, it is like heaven.

It hurts if you do it wrong, and until you're used to relaxing your anus and the muscles in the rectal area there can be a little discomfort (it shouldn't hurt, ever). At first it might feel odd or funny, as you probably aren't used to associating anal stimulation with pleasure, and because of cultural leanings we generally tend to not think of our butt sensations as fun.

Once you learn to relax, like it and loose your inhibitions it can feel great for both men and women. The sensations are different from genital stimulation but equally good, and they can be enjoyed by anyone.

Do take it very slow (start with outside stimulation and move up slowly over a month or more before attempting anything "penis-sized"), and make sure you can completely relax yourself if you are the one experiencing the anal stimulation. Go to the bathroom, take a small water enema if you want to, use plenty of lube and find a position where you can relax all your muscles.

Personally, I like it a lot but it takes some getting used to.

Yes, it feels great. At least for me!

I love anal play! Don't start out with a dick though or even a strap on, at first you want it to be totally about your pleasure, not your partner's. As you get more and more used to it you might want to try anal sex where you dominate the partner penetrating you, then as your anus relaxes and you get used to it...the whole world opens up.

And I'm saying this as a woman who's only been with a woman. So, no male pressure forcing me to say this

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Def take it slow, there are some anal starter kits on EF that are pretty cool. Start with ur fingers and work ur way up.

its the BEST

my wife and I both do anal so far it only hurts if there's no prep or if u start to fast take your time and ease it in

it hurt at first for me but eventually i've gotten used to it. I love the way he love anal so i give it to him for a treat